Husband checks out 20 yr olds

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“Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun. You don't stare at it. It's too risky. Ya get a sense of it and then you look away!”

To borrow from Seinfeld…
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Anonymous wrote:Note to men. Women find it gross when you ogle girls/women old enough to be your daughter. I hated it when I was young. No 16-23 year old girl finds 40 year men attractive. I never see women ogling teenage boys. Probably because it’s gross.


Have you ever seen Amy Poehler and Tina Fey’s take on this?


Can you post a YouTube link?
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Anonymous wrote:This has been going on since the beginning of time. Get over it, men look at sexy young women. It’s biology.

I am not saying stare, but glance, look away, and take another glance. Would you rather he go to a strip club ? That might be an interesting deal.


Men also check out sexy middle aged women. Men would sleep with probably 90% of women, lol. Their attention is worthless

They literally f pies and corpses. D*** is abundant and worthless. Old d*** is “ew”.


Exactly. Men are often barred from working in morgues because they'll try to have sex with the bodies. LOL theyre so embarrassing

Bet this is one of the gross pps posting here:

https://apnews.com/article/murderer-necrophiliac-sex-with-hospital-corpses-7a510faf7f58014925c98ae4f6f19c4a
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Anonymous wrote:This has been going on since the beginning of time. Get over it, men look at sexy young women. It’s biology.

I am not saying stare, but glance, look away, and take another glance. Would you rather he go to a strip club ? That might be an interesting deal.


Men also check out sexy middle aged women. Men would sleep with probably 90% of women, lol. Their attention is worthless

They literally f pies and corpses. D*** is abundant and worthless. Old d*** is “ew”.


Exactly. Men are often barred from working in morgues because they'll try to have sex with the bodies.


No they don’t, idiot. That’s an internet rumor.

Wow you really are dumb. It’s 100% not a rumour.
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.


Research shows milf/stepmom porn is largely viewed by 25-45 year olds. Not younger men.


What research? 25 is still fairly young, no?


Not the young 20’s that many on here are referencing. A 20 year old boy doesn’t want to sleep with his older middle aged neighbor.

Guess you forgot about Stacy’s mom? Maybe YOU don’t like that genre, but plenty of others do. Your denial of societal trends because they don’t fit your narrow view is bizarre.


Clearly you don’t know what Stacy’s mom even is. Stacy’s mom was a song about a pedo older in a towel in front of a minor child. There was nothing appropriate about the song. The kid was like 12. Creep.

lol! You have no idea what you’re talking about. This is the origin:

“Its subject matter was inspired by a friend of Schlesinger's when he was young who was attracted to Schlesinger's grandmother. “

Even worse for you - that kid was into GILFs! 😂 now stop posting, you’re just making yourself look like an uneducated freak.


Ok creep. No one likes your old self. No 20 year old man will want you. Stop being delusional.

Why are you so triggered that some young men are into older women? It doesn’t affect you whatsoever, why the snowflake reaction?


He's triggered because this post didnt turn out like he wanted. He wants to see a bunch of middle aged women sobbing and crying that their husband is checking out younger women, promising to hand out BJs on demand just to keep their man and prevent him from running off with said gorgeous 20 somethings. When women provide a reality check that WE are the ones with more pull on the sexual marketplace, and even the frumpiest middle aged mom has wayyyyyy more sexual options than this guy could ever dream of, he becomes enraged. It shatters the porn delusion he's constructed in his mind where the gorgeous 20 year old is not only not repulsed, by actively turned on by the fat hairy middle aged guy twice her age, and that they have some kind of magical sexual connection that the mean, bitter wife is jealous of. The reminder that he's alone on his island of lust for a woman who isnt interested and finds him gross is a harsh one, especially when the wife DGAF and points out that she could cheat way easier than he could.
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Every time you catch your husband, show him the Saturday night live clip and laugh about it it's the only way lol together??? 🤣😅

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Anonymous wrote:Husband does this sneaky staring anytime he sees a 20 year old with lots of exposed skin. We’re mid 40s. I’ve brought it up many times and he denies it. It’s gotten to the point where I see the young women before he does, as I now know his type.

I don’t even know what my question is. It’s just gross and depressing.


Did you marry close to your own age? Then prepare for a divorce.

Men age more slowly than women until they are about 75 years old, then they catch up.

Evolutionarily speaking men also tend to want to either marry in their 30s-40s to someone who is around 10-20 years younger. So he might be getting ready for the socalled "mid life crisis".

You should have married an older man. Since you are mid 40s, it might be too late for that now.
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.


Research shows milf/stepmom porn is largely viewed by 25-45 year olds. Not younger men.


What research? 25 is still fairly young, no?


Not the young 20’s that many on here are referencing. A 20 year old boy doesn’t want to sleep with his older middle aged neighbor.

Guess you forgot about Stacy’s mom? Maybe YOU don’t like that genre, but plenty of others do. Your denial of societal trends because they don’t fit your narrow view is bizarre.


Clearly you don’t know what Stacy’s mom even is. Stacy’s mom was a song about a pedo older in a towel in front of a minor child. There was nothing appropriate about the song. The kid was like 12. Creep.

lol! You have no idea what you’re talking about. This is the origin:

“Its subject matter was inspired by a friend of Schlesinger's when he was young who was attracted to Schlesinger's grandmother. “

Even worse for you - that kid was into GILFs! 😂 now stop posting, you’re just making yourself look like an uneducated freak.


Ok creep. No one likes your old self. No 20 year old man will want you. Stop being delusional.

Why are you so triggered that some young men are into older women? It doesn’t affect you whatsoever, why the snowflake reaction?


He's triggered because this post didnt turn out like he wanted. He wants to see a bunch of middle aged women sobbing and crying that their husband is checking out younger women, promising to hand out BJs on demand just to keep their man and prevent him from running off with said gorgeous 20 somethings. When women provide a reality check that WE are the ones with more pull on the sexual marketplace, and even the frumpiest middle aged mom has wayyyyyy more sexual options than this guy could ever dream of, he becomes enraged. It shatters the porn delusion he's constructed in his mind where the gorgeous 20 year old is not only not repulsed, by actively turned on by the fat hairy middle aged guy twice her age, and that they have some kind of magical sexual connection that the mean, bitter wife is jealous of. The reminder that he's alone on his island of lust for a woman who isnt interested and finds him gross is a harsh one, especially when the wife DGAF and points out that she could cheat way easier than he could.

😂😂😂
Nailed it!
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Anonymous wrote:Husband does this sneaky staring anytime he sees a 20 year old with lots of exposed skin. We’re mid 40s. I’ve brought it up many times and he denies it. It’s gotten to the point where I see the young women before he does, as I now know his type.

I don’t even know what my question is. It’s just gross and depressing.


Did you marry close to your own age? Then prepare for a divorce.

Men age more slowly than women until they are about 75 years old, then they catch up.

Evolutionarily speaking men also tend to want to either marry in their 30s-40s to someone who is around 10-20 years younger. So he might be getting ready for the socalled "mid life crisis".

You should have married an older man. Since you are mid 40s, it might be too late for that now.

How is marriage age “evolutionary” when men used to die by 40? You’re just making up random stats.
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Anonymous wrote:Husband does this sneaky staring anytime he sees a 20 year old with lots of exposed skin. We’re mid 40s. I’ve brought it up many times and he denies it. It’s gotten to the point where I see the young women before he does, as I now know his type.

I don’t even know what my question is. It’s just gross and depressing.


Did you marry close to your own age? Then prepare for a divorce.

Men age more slowly than women until they are about 75 years old, then they catch up.

Evolutionarily speaking men also tend to want to either marry in their 30s-40s to someone who is around 10-20 years younger. So he might be getting ready for the socalled "mid life crisis".

You should have married an older man. Since you are mid 40s, it might be too late for that now.

How is marriage age “evolutionary” when men used to die by 40? You’re just making up random stats.


Average lifespan age is not average age that people died. You cannot be this clueless or ignorant.
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Anonymous wrote:Go to places like Italy, tables of old men sitting around and a beautiful 20 something walks by in a summer dress... the men all overtly admire. Maybe the older women roll their eyes, or maybe not even that because its just the way it is. This behavior is old as time itself, and harmless. What is harnful is shaming a man and psychologically abusing him by being the jealous thought control gestapo.


It’s creepy and your story obviously doesn’t take the feelings of the objectified young woman into account.
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Anonymous wrote:Husband does this sneaky staring anytime he sees a 20 year old with lots of exposed skin. We’re mid 40s. I’ve brought it up many times and he denies it. It’s gotten to the point where I see the young women before he does, as I now know his type.

I don’t even know what my question is. It’s just gross and depressing.


Did you marry close to your own age? Then prepare for a divorce.

Men age more slowly than women until they are about 75 years old, then they catch up.

Evolutionarily speaking men also tend to want to either marry in their 30s-40s to someone who is around 10-20 years younger. So he might be getting ready for the socalled "mid life crisis".

You should have married an older man. Since you are mid 40s, it might be too late for that now.

How is marriage age “evolutionary” when men used to die by 40?


Men would raise a family, and either the woman would have kids until her 40s, or she had to stop earlier for whatever reason of having kids. Some stayed together, but if the man had means and wealth, he'd often take on a mistress to have more kids with her.

Either way, men often would start over in their 40s again with a new younger wife. Was and still is common.
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Anonymous wrote:Husband does this sneaky staring anytime he sees a 20 year old with lots of exposed skin. We’re mid 40s. I’ve brought it up many times and he denies it. It’s gotten to the point where I see the young women before he does, as I now know his type.

I don’t even know what my question is. It’s just gross and depressing.


The primary purpose of exposing skin is to draw attention. Your husband is doing God's work.


No. It’s not. Stop ogling young girls who are just trying to be comfortable.

What is with all the predators on here?


Stop referring to 20+ year olds as girls. It is insulting.

They are expressing themselves and people who are looking are just appreciating the expression of comfort.
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Anonymous wrote:Husband does this sneaky staring anytime he sees a 20 year old with lots of exposed skin. We’re mid 40s. I’ve brought it up many times and he denies it. It’s gotten to the point where I see the young women before he does, as I now know his type.

I don’t even know what my question is. It’s just gross and depressing.


Did you marry close to your own age? Then prepare for a divorce.

Men age more slowly than women until they are about 75 years old, then they catch up.

Evolutionarily speaking men also tend to want to either marry in their 30s-40s to someone who is around 10-20 years younger. So he might be getting ready for the socalled "mid life crisis".

You should have married an older man. Since you are mid 40s, it might be too late for that now.

How is marriage age “evolutionary” when men used to die by 40?


Men would raise a family, and either the woman would have kids until her 40s, or she had to stop earlier for whatever reason of having kids. Some stayed together, but if the man had means and wealth, he'd often take on a mistress to have more kids with her.

Either way, men often would start over in their 40s again with a new younger wife. Was and still is common.


Say you know nothing about history without saying you know nothing about history.
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.


Research shows milf/stepmom porn is largely viewed by 25-45 year olds. Not younger men.


What research? 25 is still fairly young, no?


Not the young 20’s that many on here are referencing. A 20 year old boy doesn’t want to sleep with his older middle aged neighbor.

Guess you forgot about Stacy’s mom? Maybe YOU don’t like that genre, but plenty of others do. Your denial of societal trends because they don’t fit your narrow view is bizarre.


Clearly you don’t know what Stacy’s mom even is. Stacy’s mom was a song about a pedo older in a towel in front of a minor child. There was nothing appropriate about the song. The kid was like 12. Creep.

lol! You have no idea what you’re talking about. This is the origin:

“Its subject matter was inspired by a friend of Schlesinger's when he was young who was attracted to Schlesinger's grandmother. “

Even worse for you - that kid was into GILFs! 😂 now stop posting, you’re just making yourself look like an uneducated freak.


Ok creep. No one likes your old self. No 20 year old man will want you. Stop being delusional.

Why are you so triggered that some young men are into older women? It doesn’t affect you whatsoever, why the snowflake reaction?


He's triggered because this post didnt turn out like he wanted. He wants to see a bunch of middle aged women sobbing and crying that their husband is checking out younger women, promising to hand out BJs on demand just to keep their man and prevent him from running off with said gorgeous 20 somethings. When women provide a reality check that WE are the ones with more pull on the sexual marketplace, and even the frumpiest middle aged mom has wayyyyyy more sexual options than this guy could ever dream of, he becomes enraged. It shatters the porn delusion he's constructed in his mind where the gorgeous 20 year old is not only not repulsed, by actively turned on by the fat hairy middle aged guy twice her age, and that they have some kind of magical sexual connection that the mean, bitter wife is jealous of. The reminder that he's alone on his island of lust for a woman who isnt interested and finds him gross is a harsh one, especially when the wife DGAF and points out that she could cheat way easier than he could.


Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to marriage. A grumpy middle aged woman may get sex but she will have a hard time finding a good partner. Why do think there are some many 30+ year old childless and unmarried women.

A man leering or looking at a woman doesn’t mean his partner must give him bjs. It’s normal to notice attractive people.
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