Newsflash: celebs are awful to interviewers

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Anonymous wrote:OP that doesn't surprise me at all. Celebrity is a form of power and if course some celebs abuse it.

Re: Blake, the thing about that video that is so uncomfortable is not that she "claps back" about the bump comment. If Blake has responded to that comment with "please don't comment about my body" and then gone on to give a normal interview, I'd have lots of respect for her-- while many women would unbothered by that comment it's true it is a bit odd to comment on someone's body in that way. Setting that boundary would be good.

But Blake felt the need to *punish* the journalist. She didn't merely set a boundary, she went after the interviewer. Who was (1) Finnish, and therefore should probably be cut some slack for her use of English-- let's see how many faux pas Blake makes when trying to communicate in Finnish, and (2) apparently was struggling with infertility at the time. And Blake felt the need to put this woman in her place because why? She made a slightly invasive comment about a pregnancy that lots of people make all the time?


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First of all the comment was harmless when they are so public about their family and developments.

But second, she could dismiss it with "thanks let's focus on the movie" and just move on and do a normal fake-friendly interview. That's called class.


Also classy would be apologizing if you misspoke to move things along. An interviewer should be better able to navigate thisl.


Blake didn't give her an opportunity to apologize. If she'd said directly, "actually I do not appreciate people commenting on my body," the interviewer would have been able to apologize (and would also have learned something useful) and everyone could move on.

Blake decided to use relational aggression (mean girl behavior) to passive aggressively make this woman feel like crap for making a mistake.

To me that's what jos put and why I think a lot of women are having a strong reaction to this video. Anyone can make a dumb remark that offends someone. But some women use their hierarchical position to belittle and humiliate other women (asserting their power in the process). Blake is giving a master class in mean girl dynamics here-- exclusion, veiled insults, portraying herself as a victim, pulling a sycophant into the game to maximize the harm.

People aren't just hanging up on Blake Lively randomly for no reason. I had a visceral reaction to that video because I've been treated like that by other women. It sucks.


Wow this is incredibly well explained.
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Anonymous wrote:Parker could have defused the tension and changed the tone if she had engaged the interviewer right away in a better yet friendly direction. Btw, I would not have been at all upset at someone noting my baby bump after I had widely announced my pregnancy.


+1 If someone knows for a fact you are pregnant it is normal for them to congratulate you. And it's part of being a celebrity for journalists to ask about your personal life. That's what the fans want to read about. Sometimes it sucks but learn to set boundaries in a mature way. Not like this.


Congratulations ok. Commenting on the size of your belly, not ok. Learn the difference.


The journalist said, "Congratulations on your little bump." She's obviously not commenting on the actual size of Blake's belly but just trying to comment on the simple fact that she is pregnant. Sorry you need this spelled out for you.


Where do you think the bump is, genius?


No wonder you're defending Blake. You are a bully as well.


lol read much of this thread? You don’t need to be defending Blake to point out when comments are inappropriate. People have excused the ignorance due to a language barrier which at least acknowledges the inappropriateness. But keep digging your own weird heels in to do on this hill.


You can't process the fact that people have different opinions than you and are instead lashing out, using sarcasm, calling me weird lol

You are bizarre. Can't argue on subject so instead choose insults. But you are an authority on what's "appropriate". Lol.


Insults you say? You’re pretty good at hurling them yourself. It doesn’t matter if you agree or not on what’s appropriate but the majority in here do agree it was inappropriate. You won’t change my mind.
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Mean girls at their best!
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Anonymous wrote:Parker could have defused the tension and changed the tone if she had engaged the interviewer right away in a better yet friendly direction. Btw, I would not have been at all upset at someone noting my baby bump after I had widely announced my pregnancy.


+1 If someone knows for a fact you are pregnant it is normal for them to congratulate you. And it's part of being a celebrity for journalists to ask about your personal life. That's what the fans want to read about. Sometimes it sucks but learn to set boundaries in a mature way. Not like this.


Congratulations ok. Commenting on the size of your belly, not ok. Learn the difference.


The journalist said, "Congratulations on your little bump." She's obviously not commenting on the actual size of Blake's belly but just trying to comment on the simple fact that she is pregnant. Sorry you need this spelled out for you.


Where do you think the bump is, genius?


No wonder you're defending Blake. You are a bully as well.


lol read much of this thread? You don’t need to be defending Blake to point out when comments are inappropriate. People have excused the ignorance due to a language barrier which at least acknowledges the inappropriateness. But keep digging your own weird heels in to do on this hill.


You can't process the fact that people have different opinions than you and are instead lashing out, using sarcasm, calling me weird lol

You are bizarre. Can't argue on subject so instead choose insults. But you are an authority on what's "appropriate". Lol.


Insults you say? You’re pretty good at hurling them yourself. It doesn’t matter if you agree or not on what’s appropriate but the majority in here do agree it was inappropriate. You won’t change my mind.


Ok, let's agree to disagree. Btw given so many people on DCUM are as rude as you are I strongly suspect the "majority here" doesn't mean anything.
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Anonymous wrote:Parker could have defused the tension and changed the tone if she had engaged the interviewer right away in a better yet friendly direction. Btw, I would not have been at all upset at someone noting my baby bump after I had widely announced my pregnancy.


+1 If someone knows for a fact you are pregnant it is normal for them to congratulate you. And it's part of being a celebrity for journalists to ask about your personal life. That's what the fans want to read about. Sometimes it sucks but learn to set boundaries in a mature way. Not like this.


Congratulations ok. Commenting on the size of your belly, not ok. Learn the difference.


The journalist said, "Congratulations on your little bump." She's obviously not commenting on the actual size of Blake's belly but just trying to comment on the simple fact that she is pregnant. Sorry you need this spelled out for you.


Where do you think the bump is, genius?


No wonder you're defending Blake. You are a bully as well.


lol read much of this thread? You don’t need to be defending Blake to point out when comments are inappropriate. People have excused the ignorance due to a language barrier which at least acknowledges the inappropriateness. But keep digging your own weird heels in to do on this hill.


You can't process the fact that people have different opinions than you and are instead lashing out, using sarcasm, calling me weird lol

You are bizarre. Can't argue on subject so instead choose insults. But you are an authority on what's "appropriate". Lol.


Insults you say? You’re pretty good at hurling them yourself. It doesn’t matter if you agree or not on what’s appropriate but the majority in here do agree it was inappropriate. You won’t change my mind.


Ok, let's agree to disagree. Btw given so many people on DCUM are as rude as you are I strongly suspect the "majority here" doesn't mean anything.


But you’re the one who considers talking about women’s bellies to be perfectly ok, so excuse me if I give no effs about what you consider rude or not. I’m sure there are lots of things we disagree on and I’m more than ok with that.
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Anonymous wrote:I’ve worked these junkets and in defense of the celebrities, they are mindless assembly lines and the reporters do not always ask the best questions. Sure she was rude but with the the “bump” reporter gave to make if about herself? Was Blake supposed to know she was infertile? Ridiculous.


Of course not. Blake was supposed to play the game. She’s being paid lot of money to do that. She didn’t. This interview didn’t get out earlier because the movie totally flopped.

You are an actor. Act polite. If you want to play feminist than you need to wait for a bad question. She didn’t get one she got appropriate questions and she mishandled them.

I just saw a clip of Benedict Cumberbun or whatever his name is and Kiera knightley do an interview and the male interviewer stated by telling Kiera (who looked gorgeous) that she “looked worn out.”

Benedict was clearly shocked and said did you just tell this beautiful woman she looks worn out? and Kiera goes “yea?!! F**k you!”

Kiera was rude but it’s being celebrated because she stood up for herself and clapped back at a rude question. She acted appropriately.

Blake did not.


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Blake comes off as the pretty, popular woman and her sycophant friend ganging up on another woman for sport. The interviewer made a *minor* faux pas by saying "bump" instead of just "congrats on the baby." The interviewer is also a non-native English speaker and a woman, so deserves the benefit of the doubt regarding what is, at worst, a slightly more invasive comment.


If the reporter is truly infertile as she claims; she should know commenting on a pregnant woman’s body is inappropriate. Full stop. And to harbor resentment 8 years later? Yeah, no.


Sure, it's not appropriate. The interviewer is Finnish and was likely repeating a phrase she'd heard other English-speakers use and did not know it could be considered inappropriate.

The resentment she harbors is for Lively treating her like garbage for the rest of the interview. The interviewer made a faux pas. Lively went for blood. I totally get why the experience stick with her.


Maybe she shouldn't use phrases if she doesn't understand the impact of them. Can I start using slurs in the workplace and telling people that it's OK because I don't realize they are inappropriate?

The reporter is coming off just as badly as Blake is.


Comparing what she said to using slirs on the workplace is insane. Blake can take the comment anyway she wants to but her snapping back was completely wrong. She is a nasty mean girl and should've apologized instead.


I actually think the poster talking about slurs raising a great point but she didn’t see it through. If someone uses a slur in the workplace, you don’t get to use one back. That’s what Lively did here.
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Anonymous wrote:I’ve worked these junkets and in defense of the celebrities, they are mindless assembly lines and the reporters do not always ask the best questions. Sure she was rude but with the the “bump” reporter gave to make if about herself? Was Blake supposed to know she was infertile? Ridiculous.


Of course not. Blake was supposed to play the game. She’s being paid lot of money to do that. She didn’t. This interview didn’t get out earlier because the movie totally flopped.

You are an actor. Act polite. If you want to play feminist than you need to wait for a bad question. She didn’t get one she got appropriate questions and she mishandled them.

I just saw a clip of Benedict Cumberbun or whatever his name is and Kiera knightley do an interview and the male interviewer stated by telling Kiera (who looked gorgeous) that she “looked worn out.”

Benedict was clearly shocked and said did you just tell this beautiful woman she looks worn out? and Kiera goes “yea?!! F**k you!”

Kiera was rude but it’s being celebrated because she stood up for herself and clapped back at a rude question. She acted appropriately.

Blake did not.


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Blake comes off as the pretty, popular woman and her sycophant friend ganging up on another woman for sport. The interviewer made a *minor* faux pas by saying "bump" instead of just "congrats on the baby." The interviewer is also a non-native English speaker and a woman, so deserves the benefit of the doubt regarding what is, at worst, a slightly more invasive comment.


If the reporter is truly infertile as she claims; she should know commenting on a pregnant woman’s body is inappropriate. Full stop. And to harbor resentment 8 years later? Yeah, no.


Sure, it's not appropriate. The interviewer is Finnish and was likely repeating a phrase she'd heard other English-speakers use and did not know it could be considered inappropriate.

The resentment she harbors is for Lively treating her like garbage for the rest of the interview. The interviewer made a faux pas. Lively went for blood. I totally get why the experience stick with her.


I am a native English speaker and took the interviewer as meaning nothing more than "congrats on your pregnancy, which you publicly announced." The response was frankly shocking. And so instant, too.


You’re leaving out the key detail of “hey you look a little fat with that baby bump”. Nobody likes that pointed out especially by a stranger. Celebs are often obsessed with their bodies and their careers depend on them. Blake might have been feeling a certain way about that. The interviewer was tactless and clueless.


Fat?!


Have you ever been pregnant? Not everyone is thrilled with all the changes to their body. It’s not a constant awesome glow. Get real.


Oh for gd's sake. How many times has she been pregnant now? It's not exactly a secret that your tummy grows while you're making a baby. She should be used to it by now - and also be normal enough to know this person was just congratulating her about a pregnancy she'd been public about, not saying "you're a fat cow you fat cow."

I wasn't in the room. Maybe before the camera started rolling the interview did say "you're a fat cow" but I doubt it.

It is literally Blake Lively's job to get on camera and sell the movie she's in. Not her job to get on camera and turn into a weirdo who's calling an interviewer fat because the interviewer congratulated her on a pregnancy. This was insane.


It is literally the journalist’s job to conduct herself in a professional manner. How do you think it’s going to go when you comment on a pregnant actress’s body?

What is insane is clout chasing for the interview 8 years later.


Jesus, she did not "comment on a pregnant actress's body" - she congratulated her on her pregnancy!

I don't know how people with your mindset get through a normal day. Grow up.


Commenting on someone’s pregnant body and growing stomach is actually the definition of commenting on someone’s body. Are you slow?


Np. You're an overly sensitive snowflake and should grow up. The interviewer was attempting to congratulate Blake. The way Blake acted was complete mean, spoiled brat.


In what world is commenting on someone’s changing body appropriate?


I actually don’t have much in the way of sympathy here. Lively makes her living based on her face and body. She wants attention for it. I don’t think the same rules apply here as they do for normal
people who push paper for a living.
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Anonymous wrote:I’ve worked these junkets and in defense of the celebrities, they are mindless assembly lines and the reporters do not always ask the best questions. Sure she was rude but with the the “bump” reporter gave to make if about herself? Was Blake supposed to know she was infertile? Ridiculous.


Of course not. Blake was supposed to play the game. She’s being paid lot of money to do that. She didn’t. This interview didn’t get out earlier because the movie totally flopped.

You are an actor. Act polite. If you want to play feminist than you need to wait for a bad question. She didn’t get one she got appropriate questions and she mishandled them.

I just saw a clip of Benedict Cumberbun or whatever his name is and Kiera knightley do an interview and the male interviewer stated by telling Kiera (who looked gorgeous) that she “looked worn out.”

Benedict was clearly shocked and said did you just tell this beautiful woman she looks worn out? and Kiera goes “yea?!! F**k you!”

Kiera was rude but it’s being celebrated because she stood up for herself and clapped back at a rude question. She acted appropriately.

Blake did not.


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Blake comes off as the pretty, popular woman and her sycophant friend ganging up on another woman for sport. The interviewer made a *minor* faux pas by saying "bump" instead of just "congrats on the baby." The interviewer is also a non-native English speaker and a woman, so deserves the benefit of the doubt regarding what is, at worst, a slightly more invasive comment.


If the reporter is truly infertile as she claims; she should know commenting on a pregnant woman’s body is inappropriate. Full stop. And to harbor resentment 8 years later? Yeah, no.


Sure, it's not appropriate. The interviewer is Finnish and was likely repeating a phrase she'd heard other English-speakers use and did not know it could be considered inappropriate.

The resentment she harbors is for Lively treating her like garbage for the rest of the interview. The interviewer made a faux pas. Lively went for blood. I totally get why the experience stick with her.


Maybe she shouldn't use phrases if she doesn't understand the impact of them. Can I start using slurs in the workplace and telling people that it's OK because I don't realize they are inappropriate?

The reporter is coming off just as badly as Blake is.


Comparing what she said to using slirs on the workplace is insane. Blake can take the comment anyway she wants to but her snapping back was completely wrong. She is a nasty mean girl and should've apologized instead.


I actually think the poster talking about slurs raising a great point but she didn’t see it through. If someone uses a slur in the workplace, you don’t get to use one back. That’s what Lively did here.


Either commenting on bellies is wrong or it’s not. But if you offend first you don’t really get to complain that someone was offended and was rude back.
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Anonymous wrote:I’ve worked these junkets and in defense of the celebrities, they are mindless assembly lines and the reporters do not always ask the best questions. Sure she was rude but with the the “bump” reporter gave to make if about herself? Was Blake supposed to know she was infertile? Ridiculous.


Of course not. Blake was supposed to play the game. She’s being paid lot of money to do that. She didn’t. This interview didn’t get out earlier because the movie totally flopped.

You are an actor. Act polite. If you want to play feminist than you need to wait for a bad question. She didn’t get one she got appropriate questions and she mishandled them.

I just saw a clip of Benedict Cumberbun or whatever his name is and Kiera knightley do an interview and the male interviewer stated by telling Kiera (who looked gorgeous) that she “looked worn out.”

Benedict was clearly shocked and said did you just tell this beautiful woman she looks worn out? and Kiera goes “yea?!! F**k you!”

Kiera was rude but it’s being celebrated because she stood up for herself and clapped back at a rude question. She acted appropriately.

Blake did not.


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Blake comes off as the pretty, popular woman and her sycophant friend ganging up on another woman for sport. The interviewer made a *minor* faux pas by saying "bump" instead of just "congrats on the baby." The interviewer is also a non-native English speaker and a woman, so deserves the benefit of the doubt regarding what is, at worst, a slightly more invasive comment.


If the reporter is truly infertile as she claims; she should know commenting on a pregnant woman’s body is inappropriate. Full stop. And to harbor resentment 8 years later? Yeah, no.


Sure, it's not appropriate. The interviewer is Finnish and was likely repeating a phrase she'd heard other English-speakers use and did not know it could be considered inappropriate.

The resentment she harbors is for Lively treating her like garbage for the rest of the interview. The interviewer made a faux pas. Lively went for blood. I totally get why the experience stick with her.


Maybe she shouldn't use phrases if she doesn't understand the impact of them. Can I start using slurs in the workplace and telling people that it's OK because I don't realize they are inappropriate?

The reporter is coming off just as badly as Blake is.


Comparing what she said to using slirs on the workplace is insane. Blake can take the comment anyway she wants to but her snapping back was completely wrong. She is a nasty mean girl and should've apologized instead.


I actually think the poster talking about slurs raising a great point but she didn’t see it through. If someone uses a slur in the workplace, you don’t get to use one back. That’s what Lively did here.


Either commenting on bellies is wrong or it’s not. But if you offend first you don’t really get to complain that someone was offended and was rude back.


She didn't intend to be rude. Blake simply can't handle her emotions
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Anonymous wrote:My complaint about the infamous Blake video - why isn't Parker Posey also getting called out for her behavior in the video? I just finished watching it and also felt she was very rude to the interviewer especially at the end when she rolled her eyes as the interviewer walked away.


No disrespect to Parker’s career - but she was kind of an indie darling and didn’t get near the level of fame Blake has.


This. She’s not famous enough and never will be at this point.

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Anonymous wrote:OP that doesn't surprise me at all. Celebrity is a form of power and if course some celebs abuse it.

Re: Blake, the thing about that video that is so uncomfortable is not that she "claps back" about the bump comment. If Blake has responded to that comment with "please don't comment about my body" and then gone on to give a normal interview, I'd have lots of respect for her-- while many women would unbothered by that comment it's true it is a bit odd to comment on someone's body in that way. Setting that boundary would be good.

But Blake felt the need to *punish* the journalist. She didn't merely set a boundary, she went after the interviewer. Who was (1) Finnish, and therefore should probably be cut some slack for her use of English-- let's see how many faux pas Blake makes when trying to communicate in Finnish, and (2) apparently was struggling with infertility at the time. And Blake felt the need to put this woman in her place because why? She made a slightly invasive comment about a pregnancy that lots of people make all the time?


Yes!

First of all the comment was harmless when they are so public about their family and developments.

But second, she could dismiss it with "thanks let's focus on the movie" and just move on and do a normal fake-friendly interview. That's called class.


Also classy would be apologizing if you misspoke to move things along. An interviewer should be better able to navigate thisl.


Blake didn't give her an opportunity to apologize. If she'd said directly, "actually I do not appreciate people commenting on my body," the interviewer would have been able to apologize (and would also have learned something useful) and everyone could move on.

Blake decided to use relational aggression (mean girl behavior) to passive aggressively make this woman feel like crap for making a mistake.

To me that's what jos put and why I think a lot of women are having a strong reaction to this video. Anyone can make a dumb remark that offends someone. But some women use their hierarchical position to belittle and humiliate other women (asserting their power in the process). Blake is giving a master class in mean girl dynamics here-- exclusion, veiled insults, portraying herself as a victim, pulling a sycophant into the game to maximize the harm.

People aren't just hanging up on Blake Lively randomly for no reason. I had a visceral reaction to that video because I've been treated like that by other women. It sucks.


Wow this is incredibly well explained.


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I also had a visceral reaction to the video. I would not want to be treated the way Blake treated the interviewer.

Blake would probably be rude to any of us, as well.
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Anonymous wrote:I’ve worked these junkets and in defense of the celebrities, they are mindless assembly lines and the reporters do not always ask the best questions. Sure she was rude but with the the “bump” reporter gave to make if about herself? Was Blake supposed to know she was infertile? Ridiculous.


Of course not. Blake was supposed to play the game. She’s being paid lot of money to do that. She didn’t. This interview didn’t get out earlier because the movie totally flopped.

You are an actor. Act polite. If you want to play feminist than you need to wait for a bad question. She didn’t get one she got appropriate questions and she mishandled them.

I just saw a clip of Benedict Cumberbun or whatever his name is and Kiera knightley do an interview and the male interviewer stated by telling Kiera (who looked gorgeous) that she “looked worn out.”

Benedict was clearly shocked and said did you just tell this beautiful woman she looks worn out? and Kiera goes “yea?!! F**k you!”

Kiera was rude but it’s being celebrated because she stood up for herself and clapped back at a rude question. She acted appropriately.

Blake did not.


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Blake comes off as the pretty, popular woman and her sycophant friend ganging up on another woman for sport. The interviewer made a *minor* faux pas by saying "bump" instead of just "congrats on the baby." The interviewer is also a non-native English speaker and a woman, so deserves the benefit of the doubt regarding what is, at worst, a slightly more invasive comment.


If the reporter is truly infertile as she claims; she should know commenting on a pregnant woman’s body is inappropriate. Full stop. And to harbor resentment 8 years later? Yeah, no.


Sure, it's not appropriate. The interviewer is Finnish and was likely repeating a phrase she'd heard other English-speakers use and did not know it could be considered inappropriate.

The resentment she harbors is for Lively treating her like garbage for the rest of the interview. The interviewer made a faux pas. Lively went for blood. I totally get why the experience stick with her.


Maybe she shouldn't use phrases if she doesn't understand the impact of them. Can I start using slurs in the workplace and telling people that it's OK because I don't realize they are inappropriate?

The reporter is coming off just as badly as Blake is.


Comparing what she said to using slirs on the workplace is insane. Blake can take the comment anyway she wants to but her snapping back was completely wrong. She is a nasty mean girl and should've apologized instead.


I actually think the poster talking about slurs raising a great point but she didn’t see it through. If someone uses a slur in the workplace, you don’t get to use one back. That’s what Lively did here.


Either commenting on bellies is wrong or it’s not. But if you offend first you don’t really get to complain that someone was offended and was rude back.


She didn't intend to be rude. Blake simply can't handle her emotions


Intentions don’t matter. Haven’t you learned that lesson yet?
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Anonymous wrote:My complaint about the infamous Blake video - why isn't Parker Posey also getting called out for her behavior in the video? I just finished watching it and also felt she was very rude to the interviewer especially at the end when she rolled her eyes as the interviewer walked away.


No disrespect to Parker’s career - but she was kind of an indie darling and didn’t get near the level of fame Blake has.


This. She’s not famous enough and never will be at this point.



She's well-known in the circles she moves in. Lots of offbeat roles. She was never going for big box office star.
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Anonymous wrote:I’ve worked these junkets and in defense of the celebrities, they are mindless assembly lines and the reporters do not always ask the best questions. Sure she was rude but with the the “bump” reporter gave to make if about herself? Was Blake supposed to know she was infertile? Ridiculous.


Of course not. Blake was supposed to play the game. She’s being paid lot of money to do that. She didn’t. This interview didn’t get out earlier because the movie totally flopped.

You are an actor. Act polite. If you want to play feminist than you need to wait for a bad question. She didn’t get one she got appropriate questions and she mishandled them.

I just saw a clip of Benedict Cumberbun or whatever his name is and Kiera knightley do an interview and the male interviewer stated by telling Kiera (who looked gorgeous) that she “looked worn out.”

Benedict was clearly shocked and said did you just tell this beautiful woman she looks worn out? and Kiera goes “yea?!! F**k you!”

Kiera was rude but it’s being celebrated because she stood up for herself and clapped back at a rude question. She acted appropriately.

Blake did not.


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Blake comes off as the pretty, popular woman and her sycophant friend ganging up on another woman for sport. The interviewer made a *minor* faux pas by saying "bump" instead of just "congrats on the baby." The interviewer is also a non-native English speaker and a woman, so deserves the benefit of the doubt regarding what is, at worst, a slightly more invasive comment.


If the reporter is truly infertile as she claims; she should know commenting on a pregnant woman’s body is inappropriate. Full stop. And to harbor resentment 8 years later? Yeah, no.


Sure, it's not appropriate. The interviewer is Finnish and was likely repeating a phrase she'd heard other English-speakers use and did not know it could be considered inappropriate.

The resentment she harbors is for Lively treating her like garbage for the rest of the interview. The interviewer made a faux pas. Lively went for blood. I totally get why the experience stick with her.


I am a native English speaker and took the interviewer as meaning nothing more than "congrats on your pregnancy, which you publicly announced." The response was frankly shocking. And so instant, too.


You’re leaving out the key detail of “hey you look a little fat with that baby bump”. Nobody likes that pointed out especially by a stranger. Celebs are often obsessed with their bodies and their careers depend on them. Blake might have been feeling a certain way about that. The interviewer was tactless and clueless.


Fat?!


Have you ever been pregnant? Not everyone is thrilled with all the changes to their body. It’s not a constant awesome glow. Get real.


Oh for gd's sake. How many times has she been pregnant now? It's not exactly a secret that your tummy grows while you're making a baby. She should be used to it by now - and also be normal enough to know this person was just congratulating her about a pregnancy she'd been public about, not saying "you're a fat cow you fat cow."

I wasn't in the room. Maybe before the camera started rolling the interview did say "you're a fat cow" but I doubt it.

It is literally Blake Lively's job to get on camera and sell the movie she's in. Not her job to get on camera and turn into a weirdo who's calling an interviewer fat because the interviewer congratulated her on a pregnancy. This was insane.


It is literally the journalist’s job to conduct herself in a professional manner. How do you think it’s going to go when you comment on a pregnant actress’s body?

What is insane is clout chasing for the interview 8 years later.


Jesus, she did not "comment on a pregnant actress's body" - she congratulated her on her pregnancy!

I don't know how people with your mindset get through a normal day. Grow up.


Commenting on someone’s pregnant body and growing stomach is actually the definition of commenting on someone’s body. Are you slow?


Np. You're an overly sensitive snowflake and should grow up. The interviewer was attempting to congratulate Blake. The way Blake acted was complete mean, spoiled brat.


In what world is commenting on someone’s changing body appropriate?


No one has explained why it was not OK for the reporter to comment on Blake‘s body, but it is okay for Blake’s retort to comment on the reporter’s body? If she didn’t like the comment she could’ve said, “Hold on can we restart? I know I am clearly pregnant but I don’t want to talk about it in this interview.” You don’t clap black at someone by pointing out their bump when they aren’t pregnant. If you want to take the high road which of you are a celebrity trying to promote something and trying to get the public on your side, that’s just what you need to do, you don’t defend yourself by insulting a female reporters body.

Even though I don’t love Parker Posey’s role in this interview, she at least tried to diffuse this situation by putting the attention on her. She could tell how awkward it was.

Again, though, I feel like even though that was awkward and is getting a lot of attention, it’s not even the worst part of the interview. Blake basically just decided she was done and instead of doing her job which was to promote the movie and maybe even elevate the conversation about fashion to how talented the costume designers were, she just decided to tank it and be a brat.

Is certainly is her right to do that, but it’s also the public’s right to come away from that interview thinking she’s entitled.


Weeeellll, Blake didn’t start it.
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Are you 8?

Do you have a job? Has anyone ever said anything inappropriate or offensive to you at work and had your response been just to burn it down? Throw a tantrum and refuse to do your job instead of handling it professionally?

Adults run into awkward and uncomfortable situations at time. It is a part of life. There are mature ways of dealing with it and there are ways to revert to middle school. Blake chose the latter. It’s embarrassing for her.


I admire the people more who don’t just take it than those who insist you should no matter how inappropriate or uncomfortable.


The "it" here is so small and minor that you turning it into a federal case just makes you - you and Blake, who apparently you see as your avatar - seem, and I usually hate this word, unhinged.


+1 Blake behaved like a bully. She didn't have to take it, if she feels that strongly she could use her big girl words and say 'I'm here as an actor to talk about my work, I do not want to discuss my body or my pregnancy". Instead she was passive aggressive and mean in response to a well intentioned comment from a foreign reporter.


+1000

And she (Blake) was clearly in a major position of power in this situation. She’s gross.
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Anonymous wrote:I’ve worked these junkets and in defense of the celebrities, they are mindless assembly lines and the reporters do not always ask the best questions. Sure she was rude but with the the “bump” reporter gave to make if about herself? Was Blake supposed to know she was infertile? Ridiculous.


Of course not. Blake was supposed to play the game. She’s being paid lot of money to do that. She didn’t. This interview didn’t get out earlier because the movie totally flopped.

You are an actor. Act polite. If you want to play feminist than you need to wait for a bad question. She didn’t get one she got appropriate questions and she mishandled them.

I just saw a clip of Benedict Cumberbun or whatever his name is and Kiera knightley do an interview and the male interviewer stated by telling Kiera (who looked gorgeous) that she “looked worn out.”

Benedict was clearly shocked and said did you just tell this beautiful woman she looks worn out? and Kiera goes “yea?!! F**k you!”

Kiera was rude but it’s being celebrated because she stood up for herself and clapped back at a rude question. She acted appropriately.

Blake did not.


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Blake comes off as the pretty, popular woman and her sycophant friend ganging up on another woman for sport. The interviewer made a *minor* faux pas by saying "bump" instead of just "congrats on the baby." The interviewer is also a non-native English speaker and a woman, so deserves the benefit of the doubt regarding what is, at worst, a slightly more invasive comment.


If the reporter is truly infertile as she claims; she should know commenting on a pregnant woman’s body is inappropriate. Full stop. And to harbor resentment 8 years later? Yeah, no.


Sure, it's not appropriate. The interviewer is Finnish and was likely repeating a phrase she'd heard other English-speakers use and did not know it could be considered inappropriate.

The resentment she harbors is for Lively treating her like garbage for the rest of the interview. The interviewer made a faux pas. Lively went for blood. I totally get why the experience stick with her.


Maybe she shouldn't use phrases if she doesn't understand the impact of them. Can I start using slurs in the workplace and telling people that it's OK because I don't realize they are inappropriate?

The reporter is coming off just as badly as Blake is.


Comparing what she said to using slirs on the workplace is insane. Blake can take the comment anyway she wants to but her snapping back was completely wrong. She is a nasty mean girl and should've apologized instead.


I actually think the poster talking about slurs raising a great point but she didn’t see it through. If someone uses a slur in the workplace, you don’t get to use one back. That’s what Lively did here.


Either commenting on bellies is wrong or it’s not. But if you offend first you don’t really get to complain that someone was offended and was rude back.


She didn't intend to be rude. Blake simply can't handle her emotions


So, basically, like a toddler.
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