+1 I don’t understand the mindset of the modern day middle to upper middle class liberal and why they insist on finding every excuse in the book for other people’s poor decision making or misplaced priorities. I think it’s actually an incredibly condescending attitude. Personally, I think poor people are perfectly capable of understanding that blowing $5 on a bag of Takis is a stupid thing to do. I also think they’re clever enough to make different (better) choices - but they have to WANT to make better choices. |
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OP, I’m curious, and serious. I make pots of things like lentils with spinach or black eye peas seasoned with sausage. I’ve never had anything that I would call a stew. If you’re still reading this thread, would you include a recipe or two? Or a link to the types of recipes that you’re referring to? The things that I make that are budget friendly become so because I already have lots of spices and chicken broth in the freezer, so I’m willing to try the types of foods that you’re describing— if you’re willing to suggest a resource for recipes.
FWIW, I have a few vegetarian and “world” cookbooks. Many of them use ingredients that are actually quite expensive in the areas where I’ve lived, and even more so when I add in transportation costs. |
So it’s not a higher standard at all but an acknowledgment they can’t even meet the minimum standard. |
Look up the good and cheap cookbook. It started as someone’s masters thesis and it’s specifically dedicated to helping people on snap eat well on 4 per day. |
1) re: hot plate cooking - the point is whether this is typical for most poor people rather than something that does happen to some people but is not the norm even for poor people 2) it is entirely relevant that food stamps are not designed to cover a family’s full grocer budget because there are regularly comments about how hard it is to subsist on ONLY that amount of food. You might as well complain it is impossible to cover rent from only the earned income tax credit. Food stamps are given to help a family buy MORE food than they could otherwise, not to 100% cover their grocery bills. |
Another PP, my mom cooked a lot of porridge with millets or quinoa (protein grain) and we used to eat that for breakfast. Veggies is a combo of potato, onions and carrots (they stay long in the fridge therefore reduce waste associated cost), and meat is usually chicken thigh ($1 to $5 for the fancy pastured chicken) in a stir fry with onions. Occasionally she buys beef and simmer it with pepper and salt for an hour or so, the cut it up to eat them plain. We never bad eggs in fridge and we didn’t know how to handle seafood hah. |
I don’t know that this is a particularly helpful way of thinking about it? It would be good if even people who are not particularly good at functioning could live happy, healthy, and fulfilling lives. At the moment, a lot of them can’t. Half this thread is people saying “oh it’s just because their material circumstances are so bad” and that’s false, but saying “too bad, sucks to suck” is also lousy. |
But let’s stop saying they are being held to a higher standard. They clearly are not. They are functioning at an extremely low standard and many are coming up with any and every excuse imaginable to explain it, no matter how absurd. Like they live in dirt hovels with no running water, electricity, or a pot to pee in. That’s just not true in the US. |
That's because the US government refuses to implement universal health care like every other developed country, and instead has set society up for consumerism to keep people consuming unhealthy things so they can pay for medical care later on. That's not on poor people. That's on politicians. And conservatives who will happily fork over 50% of their money in taxes but freak out if someone poor gets any benefits. Blame the people who are actually at fault. |
Honestly? You’ve never seen a tent city? Do you know how many people live in their cars? In motels? In shelters? In a house but don’t want to use utilities because of the expense? Couch surfing? People who rent a room with a bunch of others in a big house that may have utilities, but no actual access to those because they’re sleeping in the halls? Migrant workers who live in portables and the like? People who may have utilities but work 18 hours a day? For an educated group here, it’s shocking how absolutely ignorant some of you are. |
Cut the holier than thou crap. About 12% of Americans are on SNAP. Only .1% of Americans are homeless. Do you know what you’re talking about? |
Oh agreed. That wasn’t me! And to the later commenter who talked about tent cities — yeah, drug addiction is a terrible thing. But let’s be real, in America you have to be severely mentally ill or intensely abusing substances to wind up in a “no really it is literally impossible to cook healthy food” situation. I’m not denying that it’s harder, even much harder, if you’re poor — pretty much everything is harder if you’re poor! But if you refuse to recognize that people are actively making bad choices, whether because they’re focusing on the now or they don’t understand the long term consequences or they simply can’t get their acts together, you’re not going to be able to ameliorate anything. And frankly it’s not any nicer to them. |
| And look, there have definitely been times that I couldn’t get my act together. For whatever reason, sometimes you reach the point where you can’t even and the McDonald’s drive-through is your best bet. Most of us here have a higher than normal ability to even, an American society increasingly demands a higher ability to even in all walks of life, not just food. |
Thanks for this suggestion! |
It's so nice when rich people empathize 'I know it's harder! But you just don't understand the CONSEQUENCES like I, as an educated person, do! You just have to try harder!" *sips on their Chardonnay* |