This is not correct for all situations. My parents came for a medical situation and ended up overstaying their visa. They became illegal and later applied for refugee status because the situation in their country had become dire and anyone who had access to the West could’ve been kidnapped for ransom or worse. They had no significant money when they arrived. |
Bitch you make me sick |
Well that escalated. |
LOL. This made me laugh. OP I'm sorry you had a bad day, but here is some news...we are all closer to you than any billionaire. Shocking, I know. Not really sure what you want us to say ![]() |
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You’re missing the point. If someone can come here without knowing the language or anything else, and coming from a dire situation (let’s be honest, we don’t have a lot of Europeans clawing to get over here) and can make something of themselves and give their children an UMC lifestyle, that shows you the American dream is still alive and well. There’s no reason that someone who was born in this country, even in Appalachia, can’t dig themselves out of poverty. Of course it takes hard work, skill, and some luck, but it can be done. I’m not talking about becoming a billionaire or even a millionaire, but having a small piece of property and being able to feed, clothe, and educate their kids isn’t such a stretch. |
I have the opposite issue. After a childhood in severe poverty and decades as a struggling adult, I think I’m ridiculously blessed to be able to live frugally enough to pay my bills and have any cash leftover. My kids think I’m pathologically cheap. |
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I’m a millionaire on paper, but I still reuse my ziploc bags. First because it’s wasteful to use them only one time but also because I grew up in such severe poverty, the school called CPS on my family several times. You can’t shake that kind of poverty, even when you’ve got money, frugality becomes part of you. |
Having money does not mean out of touch with reality. There is nothing wrong with inheriting money or making it on your own. Don't hate the people. Hate the system. You can give people all the stimulus money you want, if they continue to spend above their means, they will always be in the same place. |
Please go back and ready my post. I stated “legal” parents. Your were “illegal” per your post. BTW, I think your parents used the medical needs to enter the US Illegally...many do. |
I’m a child of immigrants and this is true. The whole “I came here with $5 in my pocket” story needs to die. It isn’t true. And all immigrants are not held to the same standards. |
Well of course they did. My mom needed a surgery for a genetic condition that was being done experimentally in the US and Germany at the time. Germany would not allow her in, but the US did. The surgery saved her life. She’s forever grateful for it and the surgeon who did it (as is our entire family). But it took two years to get it and by that point my parents realized that they could have opportunities in this country that they never could in their home country, especially since the situation was getting so dire in their home country (basically civil war). There was simply no going back because there was nothing to go back to. My parents received asylum after a decade and became proud US citizens. This country is what you make it. It has faults but it really is an incredible place if you have ambition, drive, and can work hard in the face of adversity. |
So immigrants are lying to us? Lock them up!! |
Donald? Is that you? They let you use the internet again? |