But maybe they should. They seem to practice sports a lot. Why not academics? Because they don't value it as much, which is fine. Everyone has different priorities. But if other people highly value education and want to prep more, then what's it to you? Because you can't compete? Well, then practice more. My DC is smart, magnet program, no prepping classes, but DC is not athletic. DC sucks at sports and knows it. Feels really down about it. So, I told DC that DC needed to practice more if DC wanted to get better, but DC doesn't want to. *shrug* then you won't get better. Academics is no different. Just like sports, some kids need more practice than others. If other kids are getting better at sports, then you go and practice more to keep up. Why should academics be any different? I don't demand the sports league or school team to stop those other kids from practicing their sports several hours per day so that my kid has a fair shot without having to practice as much as those other kids. |
This is misleading. I'll give you that the majority of hispanic and black students do not prep, no arguments there. But the majority of white students tutor, with special focus on prep when the time comes. Semantics. So from DCUM I gather tutoring is ok, but pooling resources to essentially tutor is not. Ok. |
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Way back when I was a kid, these tests were supposed to measure what you know. So if you study hard, do your homework, and understand what you are learning in school, you don’t have to “prep” for the test.
Now, it seems the tests don’t measure what you know; they measure if you know how to take the test. As a parent, I will totally make sure my kids know their math facts, read widely and have a large vocabulary, etc., but I draw the line at coaching a 10-year-old on test-taking strategies. |
Not all white/hispanic/black kids are obsessed with sports, not at all. Why the hell are we all paying taxes for a subpar public education? Why are we now forced to pay for supplemental education if we want our kids to stay in the game? I think people are annoyed that this has become the standard. Academics and athletics are apples and oranges. The athletics are a joke and a huge waste of time. Furthermore, my taxes are not going towards sports teams and coaching. |
You having to pay for subpar public education has zero to do with test prep and magnet programs. Even if public education was wonderful, you will still have some kids prepping. Why? Because they want to get ahead (or their parents do). You think public education in Asian countries like S. Korea are subpar and that's why so many of their students go to after school tutoring classes? No. It's because competition is fierce, and the parents want their kids to have an advantage. That is no different than sports. And I know not all white/hispanic/black kids are obsessed with sports, but you don't acknowledge that not all Asian students prep/go to tutoring (mine don't). You are ok with people stereotyping Asian students but not white/black/hispanic. That is also the point of this thread which you clearly missed. Once again, it's fine for people to stereotype Asians, but not others. And if you think public education sucks, then even more reason for you to send your kids to prep classes. |
Exactly, I am old, my family has lived here for centuries. I have yet to meet anyone white/hispanic/black who has paid for any type of prep class for ES or MS children. I have seen kids who are clearly struggling with learning disabilities receive special education services and early intervention therapies, but that’s it. This belief that white people bribe and have connections is wrong on most levels. You are mistaken, most white people aren’t so privileged. |
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Huh? I thought Kumon was for strengthening basic math skills, not for prepping on how to take the CogAt or other standardized test. |
It’s the elementary school equivalent to a prep course. Just another way to get ahead. |
I don't know who needs to hear this, but you shouldn't have to choose between being a great student and having plenty of other interests that you pursue at TWELVE YEARS OLD. |
+1 Exactly! And that is precisely why it is considered cheating, even though the groups that over prep don't want to call it that. Instead, they want to call the white students "lazy" for not prepping - and even try to draw an analogy with sports. BS. Give me a break. |
+1 I know Asian kids who have tutoring for every single subject, three hours each per day. How much is too much - ie: UNHEALTHY. "When in Rome....." |
Welcome to 2020.. You know what else is different from back in your day, pretty much everything. |
+1 Can we stop with taking the poor kids' childhoods AWAY from them?? I get it, you are chasing the almighty dollar, but at what expense? |
Yes they are. |