It must be so exhausting to live this way. We live in an area that is fine but not academically amazing. Our kids are happy and thriving and learning. No, not every parent wants “only the best” for their kids. Some parents have perspective and have managed to tamp down their status anxiety. Everybody here saying that it’s either “the best” or poverty/crime/disaster/panic are putting a terrible weight on their children’s shoulders. No wonder they grow up thinking their choices are basically Ivy League or the gutter. |
I'm a poster who feels that parents have to teach a lot at home. While we don't live in Bethesda or Potomac, we did pick a home in the Richard Montgomery cluster in large patt because as new residents to the county buying a home before we had kids, we were told that was an area with good schools. As soon as my kids were old enough, they entered the magnet program, which finally offered them strong academics. While I always felt the schools were safe (wouldn't have sent them otherwise), I think some DCUM posters have described Blair on other threads as a type of "Ganglandia". |
More like different parents have different definitions of "what is best". IMO, "best" is not necessarily highest test scores and too much pressure is not "what is best" for the kids. I'm Asian American fwiw. |
This has been attempted many times in the past in different areas of the country. And it did not help. Not sure what were the lessons learned, but I guess that parental involvement is hard to overcome. |
I'm the poster of the first message. I agree - it doesn't have to be that way. But if you are betting that the current school administration, with reasonably available resources (and we already spend around $15.5-16K/student based on the operating budget numbers on the MoCo school system website) can achieve something significantly different from a non-zero-sum outcome, then I am betting the other way. |
Correction: "significantly different from a zero-sum outcome..." |
Part of the problem is that MCPS has made it a very zero sum game and has a track record of ignoring any need or issue coming from non-poverty areas. MCPS is famous for saying things that it recognizes that it is not serving the high achieving students but it doesn't matter because there are too many low performing students to care about the rest. MCPS looks for short cuts so doing things like placing magnets in bad schools to change the optics of the school performance, dumbing down the curriculum, removing exams, reducing math acceleration, and not allowing PTAs to find aides in schools with high ratios is more about trying to throttle higher achieving students to make up the gap than helping low achieving students perform better. |
I think this is overstating the intent, or equating it with results (I think it more as benign neglect), but I don't think that the effect is overstated. This is a huge school system with large segments of the student body that have significant academic and other challenges. Much, much more so than 20 years ago. It takes a lot of resources and focus to address those issues, and they need to be addressed. But it then does seem that the good/strong schools in the system (outside the magnet programs) serve areas with motivated parents and students who maximize the resources devoted to these schools. Which unfortunately is a vicious cycle, because if they seem to be doing fine, no need for a lot of additional resources. But if you believe that the system is barely treading water for your kid at a good school, you have every reason to be suspicious of further change in the name of "closing the achievement gap." |
Less white collar jobs in Ganglandia. |
At least Ganglandia gets more county, state and federal funds than the W schools! |
LOL - there are jobs in Potomac? |
It's tough to put a robotics lab into a school where only 50% of 9th graders are passing federal standards in reading and math. We know this, because Wheaton is our sister school, so whatever we donate to our HS's fund, 10% of it goes to Wheaton. We've even had theft issues at Wheaton for things the fund and PTAs jointly put in to the HS (i.e. stolen computers). It's really a sad state of affairs. Academic basics aren't mastered, people whine for state-of-the-art everything, then they steal and physically wreak what is given. |
Where's MoCo's ganglandia? Judging from the crime rates, poverty rates, HS graduation rates, gang activity, and hit & run driver culture it is north of silver spring, Maryland. |
This is definitely a problem. |
+1 |