Hijab/headscarf for Muslims

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+1. Also, when I see a woman in hijab I sometimes really do wonder why she's wearing it, given that I know hijab isn't in the Quran because I had to read the entire Quran in college. Is it that she sincerely believes what her Imam says, that her hair is sexual and immodest, and she takes his word on faith? Is it a political statement, a sort of solidarity? Is it pressure from fathers or husbands who think their honor is bound up with hers? I tend to think its predominantly the first two, especially here in the West where there's less societal pressure. Then, because I'll never know and the metro ride or whatever is over, I give up wondering.

But apparently this isn't the answer OP wants to have mooted here. I join the others here who are baffled about what OP wants, given that she said in her first post that she knows many dislike hijab.


Well, I guess you'll have to go through the trouble of considering that there's more to the religious scripture than a pair of a college girl eyes can see. Hey, I got a great idea for you! Go to the Mass Avenue mosque, wait till prayer time, walk in and say, "hey guys, why do you bow your head and make these strange movements? It's not in the Quran! You don't have to pray that way! I know, 'cause I had to read the entire wide world of Quran in college!"

Yet somehow a billion plus Muslims have figured out a uniform way to pray without, I dunno, the Quranic how-to.

Hey, also, you've missed a really obvious reason why a woman would want to wear hijab: She wants to be known as a Muslim.


Why is it so hard for you to understand that the question "I want your opinions" means that people will, you know, offer their opinions. And that you can't control what their opinions will be.

Muslima, is that you? Same childishness, same inability to follow a line of thought, same abusiveness.


People offer opinions, and other people offer opinions on opinions. None of this offers immunity from snark, you know.


Go away. You must be the poster who is proud to be insulting people and adding nothing constructive or useful.

Tell your own children what to do, would you? I'll leave when I'm good and ready.

Besides, I HAVE added at least two bits of useful information:
a. That face veil was a marker of upper classes, contradicting the PP's nonsense about its roots as protection against kidnappers, and
b. That prayer movements aren't in the Quran yet embraced by the faithful.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
+1. Also, when I see a woman in hijab I sometimes really do wonder why she's wearing it, given that I know hijab isn't in the Quran because I had to read the entire Quran in college. Is it that she sincerely believes what her Imam says, that her hair is sexual and immodest, and she takes his word on faith? Is it a political statement, a sort of solidarity? Is it pressure from fathers or husbands who think their honor is bound up with hers? I tend to think its predominantly the first two, especially here in the West where there's less societal pressure. Then, because I'll never know and the metro ride or whatever is over, I give up wondering.

But apparently this isn't the answer OP wants to have mooted here. I join the others here who are baffled about what OP wants, given that she said in her first post that she knows many dislike hijab.


Well, I guess you'll have to go through the trouble of considering that there's more to the religious scripture than a pair of a college girl eyes can see. Hey, I got a great idea for you! Go to the Mass Avenue mosque, wait till prayer time, walk in and say, "hey guys, why do you bow your head and make these strange movements? It's not in the Quran! You don't have to pray that way! I know, 'cause I had to read the entire wide world of Quran in college!"

Yet somehow a billion plus Muslims have figured out a uniform way to pray without, I dunno, the Quranic how-to.

Hey, also, you've missed a really obvious reason why a woman would want to wear hijab: She wants to be known as a Muslim.


Why is it so hard for you to understand that the question "I want your opinions" means that people will, you know, offer their opinions. And that you can't control what their opinions will be.

Muslima, is that you? Same childishness, same inability to follow a line of thought, same abusiveness.


People offer opinions, and other people offer opinions on opinions. None of this offers immunity from snark, you know.


Go away. You must be the poster who is proud to be insulting people and adding nothing constructive or useful.

Tell your own children what to do, would you? I'll leave when I'm good and ready.

Besides, I HAVE added at least two bits of useful information:
a. That face veil was a marker of upper classes, contradicting the PP's nonsense about its roots as protection against kidnappers, and
b. That prayer movements aren't in the Quran yet embraced by the faithful.


Yay for you.
a. A bit of history that's 1300 years old and has been superceded by new meanings you didn't bother to mention, thereby misleading newcomers, and
b. Something off topic about prayer.
Oh, and
c. Lots of insults and snark that several PPs thought were coming from OP, not from some rando with a mean streak, thereby derailing the conversation for a few pages.
Go pat yourself on the back for being super relevant and helpful.
Anonymous
If I see a woman in this country wearing a hijab, I think she is ignorant and not very bright. when i see a niqab, I think she is ignorant and very dumb.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
+1. Also, when I see a woman in hijab I sometimes really do wonder why she's wearing it, given that I know hijab isn't in the Quran because I had to read the entire Quran in college. Is it that she sincerely believes what her Imam says, that her hair is sexual and immodest, and she takes his word on faith? Is it a political statement, a sort of solidarity? Is it pressure from fathers or husbands who think their honor is bound up with hers? I tend to think its predominantly the first two, especially here in the West where there's less societal pressure. Then, because I'll never know and the metro ride or whatever is over, I give up wondering.

But apparently this isn't the answer OP wants to have mooted here. I join the others here who are baffled about what OP wants, given that she said in her first post that she knows many dislike hijab.


Well, I guess you'll have to go through the trouble of considering that there's more to the religious scripture than a pair of a college girl eyes can see. Hey, I got a great idea for you! Go to the Mass Avenue mosque, wait till prayer time, walk in and say, "hey guys, why do you bow your head and make these strange movements? It's not in the Quran! You don't have to pray that way! I know, 'cause I had to read the entire wide world of Quran in college!"

Yet somehow a billion plus Muslims have figured out a uniform way to pray without, I dunno, the Quranic how-to.

Hey, also, you've missed a really obvious reason why a woman would want to wear hijab: She wants to be known as a Muslim.


Why is it so hard for you to understand that the question "I want your opinions" means that people will, you know, offer their opinions. And that you can't control what their opinions will be.

Muslima, is that you? Same childishness, same inability to follow a line of thought, same abusiveness.


People offer opinions, and other people offer opinions on opinions. None of this offers immunity from snark, you know.


Go away. You must be the poster who is proud to be insulting people and adding nothing constructive or useful.

Tell your own children what to do, would you? I'll leave when I'm good and ready.

Besides, I HAVE added at least two bits of useful information:
a. That face veil was a marker of upper classes, contradicting the PP's nonsense about its roots as protection against kidnappers, and
b. That prayer movements aren't in the Quran yet embraced by the faithful.


Yay for you.
a. A bit of history that's 1300 years old and has been superceded by new meanings you didn't bother to mention, thereby misleading newcomers, and
b. Something off topic about prayer.
Oh, and
c. Lots of insults and snark that several PPs thought were coming from OP, not from some rando with a mean streak, thereby derailing the conversation for a few pages.
Go pat yourself on the back for being super relevant and helpful.

In the first instance, we were talking about the roots of the face cover. There was no need to provide its entire history or progression of meaning. It certainly did NOT originate as protection from kidnapping (talk about misleading!). Whoever said that is wrong, and pointing that out is NOT wrong.

The prayer bit is relevant because it's not in the Quran but embraced by the faithful (and not challenged by West). Shows that something can be NOT in the Quran and yet embraced.

The stupid deserve the snark, and if you thought it was the OP, that's on you. People customarily identify themselves. I never pretended to be her.

To conclude: everyone's a rando. You too.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If I see a woman in this country wearing a hijab, I think she is ignorant and not very bright. when i see a niqab, I think she is ignorant and very dumb.


Ladies and gentleman let's give a big a round of applause for 1930's thinking!!


Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I started wearing the hijab few years ago, and I was happy and very much satisfied with my decision. I never felt the scarf would hinder anything in my life or make me a subject to discrimination...but lately with all what's going on in the world with ISIS and the heated media against Muslims makes me angry because my religion got hijacked. I have to admit that I'm becoming way more sensitive to my surrounding now...there are times I get dirty looks here and there or sometimes people assume that I'm dumb or less educated...it bothers me.

Those of you wearing the scarf, what are your thoughts? Have you had any bad experience lately?

Those of you who are non Muslims, what are your thoughts when you see a woman wearing the scarf? Are you scared of Muslims?


I'm not afraid of Muslims.

When I see a woman with scarf or a hijab, I pity her, however. But then again, I'm not fond of oppression.


Save your pity. Male oppression is present in pretty much every major religion or culture. The hijab is a symbol for most of their religious expression.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
+1. Also, when I see a woman in hijab I sometimes really do wonder why she's wearing it, given that I know hijab isn't in the Quran because I had to read the entire Quran in college. Is it that she sincerely believes what her Imam says, that her hair is sexual and immodest, and she takes his word on faith? Is it a political statement, a sort of solidarity? Is it pressure from fathers or husbands who think their honor is bound up with hers? I tend to think its predominantly the first two, especially here in the West where there's less societal pressure. Then, because I'll never know and the metro ride or whatever is over, I give up wondering.

But apparently this isn't the answer OP wants to have mooted here. I join the others here who are baffled about what OP wants, given that she said in her first post that she knows many dislike hijab.


Well, I guess you'll have to go through the trouble of considering that there's more to the religious scripture than a pair of a college girl eyes can see. Hey, I got a great idea for you! Go to the Mass Avenue mosque, wait till prayer time, walk in and say, "hey guys, why do you bow your head and make these strange movements? It's not in the Quran! You don't have to pray that way! I know, 'cause I had to read the entire wide world of Quran in college!"

Yet somehow a billion plus Muslims have figured out a uniform way to pray without, I dunno, the Quranic how-to.

Hey, also, you've missed a really obvious reason why a woman would want to wear hijab: She wants to be known as a Muslim.


Why is it so hard for you to understand that the question "I want your opinions" means that people will, you know, offer their opinions. And that you can't control what their opinions will be.

Muslima, is that you? Same childishness, same inability to follow a line of thought, same abusiveness.


People offer opinions, and other people offer opinions on opinions. None of this offers immunity from snark, you know.


Go away. You must be the poster who is proud to be insulting people and adding nothing constructive or useful.

Tell your own children what to do, would you? I'll leave when I'm good and ready.

Besides, I HAVE added at least two bits of useful information:
a. That face veil was a marker of upper classes, contradicting the PP's nonsense about its roots as protection against kidnappers, and
b. That prayer movements aren't in the Quran yet embraced by the faithful.


Yay for you.
a. A bit of history that's 1300 years old and has been superceded by new meanings you didn't bother to mention, thereby misleading newcomers, and
b. Something off topic about prayer.
Oh, and
c. Lots of insults and snark that several PPs thought were coming from OP, not from some rando with a mean streak, thereby derailing the conversation for a few pages.
Go pat yourself on the back for being super relevant and helpful.

In the first instance, we were talking about the roots of the face cover. There was no need to provide its entire history or progression of meaning. It certainly did NOT originate as protection from kidnapping (talk about misleading!). Whoever said that is wrong, and pointing that out is NOT wrong.

The prayer bit is relevant because it's not in the Quran but embraced by the faithful (and not challenged by West). Shows that something can be NOT in the Quran and yet embraced.

The stupid deserve the snark, and if you thought it was the OP, that's on you. People customarily identify themselves. I never pretended to be her.

To conclude: everyone's a rando. You too.


You have issues.
Anonymous
The whole practice is ridiculous. The Quran mentions modesty first of all - and this applies to both sexes.

Having said that, any person who is so mesmerized by ancient writing better get on the scientific train and head into 2016. I say this to both Christians and Muslims.

time to realize that these texts were just ways to make sense of the world before we realized there were SCIENTIFIC explanations!

Cover away, I say, but I can't respect your desire to do so. sorry
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
+1. Also, when I see a woman in hijab I sometimes really do wonder why she's wearing it, given that I know hijab isn't in the Quran because I had to read the entire Quran in college. Is it that she sincerely believes what her Imam says, that her hair is sexual and immodest, and she takes his word on faith? Is it a political statement, a sort of solidarity? Is it pressure from fathers or husbands who think their honor is bound up with hers? I tend to think its predominantly the first two, especially here in the West where there's less societal pressure. Then, because I'll never know and the metro ride or whatever is over, I give up wondering.

But apparently this isn't the answer OP wants to have mooted here. I join the others here who are baffled about what OP wants, given that she said in her first post that she knows many dislike hijab.


Well, I guess you'll have to go through the trouble of considering that there's more to the religious scripture than a pair of a college girl eyes can see. Hey, I got a great idea for you! Go to the Mass Avenue mosque, wait till prayer time, walk in and say, "hey guys, why do you bow your head and make these strange movements? It's not in the Quran! You don't have to pray that way! I know, 'cause I had to read the entire wide world of Quran in college!"

Yet somehow a billion plus Muslims have figured out a uniform way to pray without, I dunno, the Quranic how-to.

Hey, also, you've missed a really obvious reason why a woman would want to wear hijab: She wants to be known as a Muslim.


Why is it so hard for you to understand that the question "I want your opinions" means that people will, you know, offer their opinions. And that you can't control what their opinions will be.

Muslima, is that you? Same childishness, same inability to follow a line of thought, same abusiveness.


People offer opinions, and other people offer opinions on opinions. None of this offers immunity from snark, you know.


Go away. You must be the poster who is proud to be insulting people and adding nothing constructive or useful.

Tell your own children what to do, would you? I'll leave when I'm good and ready.

Besides, I HAVE added at least two bits of useful information:
a. That face veil was a marker of upper classes, contradicting the PP's nonsense about its roots as protection against kidnappers, and
b. That prayer movements aren't in the Quran yet embraced by the faithful.


Yay for you.
a. A bit of history that's 1300 years old and has been superceded by new meanings you didn't bother to mention, thereby misleading newcomers, and
b. Something off topic about prayer.
Oh, and
c. Lots of insults and snark that several PPs thought were coming from OP, not from some rando with a mean streak, thereby derailing the conversation for a few pages.
Go pat yourself on the back for being super relevant and helpful.

In the first instance, we were talking about the roots of the face cover. There was no need to provide its entire history or progression of meaning. It certainly did NOT originate as protection from kidnapping (talk about misleading!). Whoever said that is wrong, and pointing that out is NOT wrong.

The prayer bit is relevant because it's not in the Quran but embraced by the faithful (and not challenged by West). Shows that something can be NOT in the Quran and yet embraced.

The stupid deserve the snark, and if you thought it was the OP, that's on you. People customarily identify themselves. I never pretended to be her.

To conclude: everyone's a rando. You too.


Whatever you say, Muslima. (You've tried to pick apart every word used against you, but you never answered that. Maybe you're right, and we all do have some sort of ESP about whether it's OP posting or someone else.)
Anonymous
Wut? I said upthread, numerous times, that I am not Muslim, nor do I cover because see #1. I never answered your ridiculous assertion because I assumed you saw that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Wut? I said upthread, numerous times, that I am not Muslim, nor do I cover because see #1. I never answered your ridiculous assertion because I assumed you saw that.


Don't posters who always have to get the last word in drive you nuts?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Wut? I said upthread, numerous times, that I am not Muslim, nor do I cover because see #1. I never answered your ridiculous assertion because I assumed you saw that.


Don't posters who always have to get the last word in drive you nuts?

No, not really.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wut? I said upthread, numerous times, that I am not Muslim, nor do I cover because see #1. I never answered your ridiculous assertion because I assumed you saw that.


Don't posters who always have to get the last word in drive you nuts?

No, not really.


OK then.
Anonymous
The analogy between prayer movements and the hijab are false.

Payer movements were quickly established following Muhammad's death and haven't changed since.

The hijab as we see it today, on the other hand, did not exist until the 1970's. The justification--given on many fundamentalist Islamic websites--is that it is in the verse of the Quran that says women should draw their shawls across their bosom, a term that now somehow is interpreted to include hair.

This is a confusing and ill-justified conflation of the verse with the traditional veil long worn in the Middle East, going back well before Islam. It simply covers the hair lightly and there is no obsessiveness about ensuring that no wisp of hair is seen, as is the case with today's hijab wearers.

I sympathize with censored PP's statements. It appears, that, she, like I, dislike the hijab because wearers most often believe it is dictated by the Quran but that is simply bad theology and, even worse, it reduces a serious religion with a history of sophisticated theology and scholarship to a series of petty dictates.

I dislike the hijab because I admire Islam.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The analogy between prayer movements and the hijab are false.

Payer movements were quickly established following Muhammad's death and haven't changed since.

The hijab as we see it today, on the other hand, did not exist until the 1970's. The justification--given on many fundamentalist Islamic websites--is that it is in the verse of the Quran that says women should draw their shawls across their bosom, a term that now somehow is interpreted to include hair.

This is a confusing and ill-justified conflation of the verse with the traditional veil long worn in the Middle East, going back well before Islam. It simply covers the hair lightly and there is no obsessiveness about ensuring that no wisp of hair is seen, as is the case with today's hijab wearers.

I sympathize with censored PP's statements. It appears, that, she, like I, dislike the hijab because wearers most often believe it is dictated by the Quran but that is simply bad theology and, even worse, it reduces a serious religion with a history of sophisticated theology and scholarship to a series of petty dictates.

I dislike the hijab because I admire Islam.


You are wrong on both counts.

The analogy of prayer movements and hijab is not false because it shows that something can be NOT in the Quran and yet embraced by the majority. There is no requirement that this something must be ancient.

Secondly, the hijab justification is not that that women should draw their shawls across the bosoms but the hadith where Mohammed said nothing but face and hands can be shown if the woman reached puberty.
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