We oay an extra 1600 a month towards our mortgage. It goes to principle. This way the mortgage will be paid off in 15 years instead of 30. |
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Lot of fat in there. I can make the same table with million dollar income, eat 10k a month and have nothing let or even negative -1k a year.
Lot of waste and luxuries there that are not necessary. |
So if you can't sit around in your pajamas all day, you are not upper middle class?? First of all, upper middle class doesn't mean 1%er. It means well off. I'm so sick of people who are extremely well off trying to pretend they aren't just because there is someone richer out there. If you can save 200K annually in 5 years you'll have a million in the bank plus your retirement and whatever else you have saved. If you don't want to call yourself rich, fine. It doesn't change the fact that you are. I can call myself the queen of England if I want but it doesn't change the facts. |
This is not 1986, a million dollars in the bank plus retirement doesn't make you rich. I am so sick of people who thinks someone like me is rich just because there is someone poorer out there. |
Totally agree. Out of pocket payments for a couple of major medical procedures could wipe out most of that million. it shows you how far your money takes you nowadays. Most people really are clueless and closer to living at the edge than they think. |
The ability to save that much yearly is what makes you rich, dumbass. Money doesn't buy brains, obviously. |
If you can afford to save that much yearly but not get good health insurance, you are truly an idiot. No one saving 200K a year is living on the edge. |
You seem to define "rich" as "only people who can heat their houses by burning $100 bills," in which case the word is totally meaningless. How about this: If you have a HHI of $250K you are in the top 3% of our country, income-wise. The top 1% is about $400K/year and up. http://money.cnn.com/calculator/pf/income-rank/ |
If it comes to that, you should just buy a plane ticket to a country with sane health care, take your cash with you, and get the stuff done there. If you are spending a million dollars of your own money on medical stuff in the US, you are not only an idiot, you are part of the healthcare crises we have here. Seriously. If it was me? I'd just die. I am not kidding. |
You are rich. The definition of rich is that you have more money than most people. That is the definition. Maybe you are not obscenely rich, but you are certainly rich by any reasonable definition of that word. |
Yes. Disasters happen that can devastate even the truly obscenely wealthy. But just because such disasters exist, that doesn't mean you are not rich. You are, by definition, rich if you have more money than most people. That is the definition of the word. I think the word you are looking for in independently wealthy. No, you are not independently wealthy. You are just rich. |
They aren't things you shouldn't have. They are just thinks the vast majority of people do not have. Since you have them, you are rich. |
A million dollars may have bought you more in 86... (although interest rates in 86 meant that you were paying a lot more for things like your comparable mortgage, car loan, etc.) -- but I can guarantee you that in 1986 the people without a million dollars in the bank were a lot better off, retirement-wise than they are now. Now you are surrounded by huge swathes of this country where no one has anything: no health insurance, no pension, no savings. All anyone has is cheap consumer goods and credit card debt. In the middle of all of that, you are extremely fortunate--and sadly too boorish to appreciate it. Now, you will counter with a lecture about how "hard" you worked for everything, and how irresponsible all those people with six figure medical bills and no pension are. As someone who's probably about 40% down in her 401K betwen this year and last, I have to say, fuck you. |
Your luxurious 840K house is probably pretty luxurious. I can certainly find many houses in that price range that are pretty fantastic. Unless you're insisting on living in some kind of HOA dystopia? Because you have no taste? And yes, it may seem shocking, but being able to hire a personal servant to care for your child IS a luxury. Many people make do with day care centers... and no, I don't mean the kind that cost as much as nannies. When our kid was in daycare, we spent 220/week for it. I assume you pay your nanny more than that. |
Based on that definition, everyone who is in the top 50% of income is rich, since they by definition have more money than most people. Try as you might, there is no objective definition of rich. This is why we stick to somewhat more subjective terms like middle class, and upper class. |