It's 401k match, deferred comp and extra equity payments that brings us to 140k. |
All of which are tax loopholes that disproportionately favor the rich. |
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You know what is sad?
- living in a home you own - providing for a quality education for your children - being able to afford basic home and car maintenance - saving for retirement - ensuring health care continues post working age - leaving something of a nest egg for your heirs These are pretty basic things, and should be attainable by our middle class, however you so define it. And yet many of these things no longer are middle class. I have no real answers on where we've gone wrong as a culture - the rise of dual income households, lack of universal healthcare, eroded taxation, easy debt, etc - all probably play some role. But I tell you, even as someone more squarely in the "haves" category than the "have not", it's really sad to see such basic aspirations become squarely for the well off and largely unattainable to at least 50% - if not 75% - of our country. |
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You are on the right track with your reasoning as to the "whys". Women entering the workforce en masse was a huge contributor to this problem.
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So your overall compensation is greater than $320K. We make this much and struggle to save a fraction of what you do. I guess my "luxurious" $840K house and nanny so I can work are luxuries we shouldn't have. |
This is thoughtful and compassionate. Though I must say I do not NOT think people making 200k, even in the DC area, are unable to do all the things you mention, unless they are assuming a "decent" education requires private school or a public school in a neighborhood with $800K+ houses. |
Yes. A nanny is a luxury that rich people have the option to choose. So is an almost one million dollar house. You are still rich. |
+1 Nannies and nearly million dollar houses are absolutely luxuries - EVEN IN THIS AREA. However, many of the well off people, especially on DCUM, like to claim they are necessities because they just COULD NOT find a decent house cheaper. And all the people who DO have houses under 500K and use regular old day cares? Well, gosh, they're just the poors, they aren't even really middle class. Sorry to the upper middle class: you don't get to alter to reality of the LUXURIES you have to make yourself feel better. And if you don't think they are luxuries, try living like the ACTUAL middle class lives (get a townhome, use an in home daycare, DONT take more than one vacation a year) and then get back to me. |
Simple. Make 350K and live as if you made 210K. 350-210=140. Plenty live on 210K or less. |
| I have friends that make 80K per year with twins in SF. They pay 2K/month for an apartment and 1.2K on an au pair. They make it work, but they don't have savings and they don't take vacation. |
200K can, but 100K cannot. I was making 100K and was not able to save more than 10K/year for a downpayment. Now at 200K I should be able to save 100K after taxes. I won't be able to buy anything above 600K. Where I live there are no homes under 600K. Three bedroom townhouses start at 430K-600K. |
I totally agree. If you *have* to work for a living, you aren't rich. The English class system, which we base ours on whether you want to admit it or not, was based on this very idea. You were either of the "leisure" class and pursued hobbies all day long or you worked. UMC people could be pretty well off but if you were still working to make money, you were not Upper class. |
| I make 20mm and I am barely getting by -- after you factor in three houses, a staff of 15, fractional jet ownership fees, several club memberships, couture expenses, etc, I have barely 5k left at the end of the month. |
YES!!!! Why don't people see this? Oh you can afford to save *some* money for retirement and college? You don't live in a homeless shelter? Why then, you must be rich! NO. That's not how this works!!!! |