Can a cheating husband still be a good parent?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I cheated on my husband several times in 25 years, he never knew, still doesn't, and I was an awesome patent, still am.

I'm sure someone will say I'm not, but actually they would be wrong.

But you never left your marriage and your children for the affair partner. You found a way to privately and discretely satisfy your sexual and emotional needs without disturbing the stability and continuity of your family structure. Kudos to you.

Thanks! Not only did I not leave my husband and family for an affair partner, I didn't even have an affair partner. It was more like a few hit-and-run incidents, one early in the marriage and one during the year before we split up. Neither affected my ability to be a good parent, and my ex and I are friends to this day, years later.

[Anonymous]

My dad cheated a lot and we didn't mind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I cheated on my husband several times in 25 years, he never knew, still doesn't, and I was an awesome patent, still am.

I'm sure someone will say I'm not, but actually they would be wrong.

But you never left your marriage and your children for the affair partner. You found a way to privately and discretely satisfy your sexual and emotional needs without disturbing the stability and continuity of your family structure. Kudos to you.

Thanks! Not only did I not leave my husband and family for an affair partner, I didn't even have an affair partner. It was more like a few hit-and-run incidents, one early in the marriage and one during the year before we split up. Neither affected my ability to be a good parent, and my ex and I are friends to this day, years later.

Hot, but he would be devastated if he ever found out.