First date sex

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Anonymous wrote:A healthy at



titude is recognizing people aren't defined by when they choose to have sex. You are welcome to call women "easy," but understand I'll assume you have serious hang ups.

Like I said, you're free to ignore the realities of society or claim that they're not so. But they are. Whether you like it or not.

If you sleep with a man of the first date it colors his opinion of you in a certain way. More often than not, it won't be positive. Close your eyes and stomp your feet all you want.

There are plenty of people who that wouldn't be the case- namely, not assholes...
but keep buying into the judgmental crap and saying it is gospel

Let's just say that as a younger man many of my friends occasionally banged someone on the first date. Never once did I hear any of them talk about how much they respected them, nor did they pursue serious relationships with them. (Now on cue go ahead and tell me how my friends were all pigs, but they are in fact just regular guys who went on to have families and careers.)

Now, if a woman is just interested in a roll in the hay or casual fling, sure, why not? But if you're looking at someone as a potential long term mate, then don't screw him on night one. He WILL see you differently. I guarantee. it.

....or better yet, have loads of casual sex on a first date anf then make the "hubby to be" wait a good long time.

He'll feel wonderful about you.

Until he finds out about your, GASP, past behavior.

NP here. GASP. No. Because as he gets to actually know you, revealing your past isn't bad, it just a part of who you are. You were sampling on industrial food before--but the guy you want to marry is a slice of grass fed filet broiled to perfection--why gobble it all down in one night?

DOUBLE GASP!

Why would I, the "grass fed filet broiled to perfection" EVER want to end up with a wife who spent her sexual past "sampling on industrial food" before I came along?

On what planet do you think this makes any sense?

What self respecting guy would ever ever ever feel good about that?

LOL what a loser you are.

Don't be jealous because your lady can get laid more than you

GASP!

Let's analyze this shall we?

The "loser" here is YOU, bitter hag.

You are the loser who sampled all that "industrial food." Yeah, a real catch.

Now, all of a sudden you want to upgrade to "grass fed filet." Ha ha.

Only problem, Mr grass fed filet doesn't think you're any kind of prize.

You are the loser.

But hey, you shure can get laid a lot. Good for you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:A healthy attitude is recognizing people aren't defined by when they choose to have sex. You are welcome to call women "easy," but understand I'll assume you have serious hang ups.

Like I said, you're free to ignore the realities of society or claim that they're not so. But they are. Whether you like it or not.

If you sleep with a man of the first date it colors his opinion of you in a certain way. More often than not, it won't be positive. Close your eyes and stomp your feet all you want.

There are plenty of people who that wouldn't be the case- namely, not assholes...
but keep buying into the judgmental crap and saying it is gospel

Let's just say that as a younger man many of my friends occasionally banged someone on the first date. Never once did I hear any of them talk about how much they respected them, nor did they pursue serious relationships with them. (Now on cue go ahead and tell me how my friends were all pigs, but they are in fact just regular guys who went on to have families and careers.)

Now, if a woman is just interested in a roll in the hay or casual fling, sure, why not? But if you're looking at someone as a potential long term mate, then don't screw him on night one. He WILL see you differently. I guarantee. it.

....or better yet, have loads of casual sex on a first date anf then make the "hubby to be" wait a good long time.

He'll feel wonderful about you.

Until he finds out about your, GASP, past behavior.

NP here. GASP. No. Because as he gets to actually know you, revealing your past isn't bad, it just a part of who you are. You were sampling on industrial food before--but the guy you want to marry is a slice of grass fed filet broiled to perfection--why gobble it all down in one night?

DOUBLE GASP!

Why would I, the "grass fed filet broiled to perfection" EVER want to end up with a wife who spent her sexual past "sampling on industrial food" before I came along?

On what planet do you think this makes any sense?

What self respecting guy would ever ever ever feel good about that?

I'll bite. Ones who aren't insecure.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A healthy attitude is recognizing people aren't defined by when they choose to have sex. You are welcome to call women "easy," but understand I'll assume you have serious hang ups.

Like I said, you're free to ignore the realities of society or claim that they're not so. But they are. Whether you like it or not.

If you sleep with a man of the first date it colors his opinion of you in a certain way. More often than not, it won't be positive. Close your eyes and stomp your feet all you want.

There are plenty of people who that wouldn't be the case- namely, not assholes...
but keep buying into the judgmental crap and saying it is gospel

Let's just say that as a younger man many of my friends occasionally banged someone on the first date. Never once did I hear any of them talk about how much they respected them, nor did they pursue serious relationships with them. (Now on cue go ahead and tell me how my friends were all pigs, but they are in fact just regular guys who went on to have families and careers.)

Now, if a woman is just interested in a roll in the hay or casual fling, sure, why not? But if you're looking at someone as a potential long term mate, then don't screw him on night one. He WILL see you differently. I guarantee. it.

....or better yet, have loads of casual sex on a first date anf then make the "hubby to be" wait a good long time.

He'll feel wonderful about you.

Until he finds out about your, GASP, past behavior.

NP here. GASP. No. Because as he gets to actually know you, revealing your past isn't bad, it just a part of who you are. You were sampling on industrial food before--but the guy you want to marry is a slice of grass fed filet broiled to perfection--why gobble it all down in one night?

DOUBLE GASP!

Why would I, the "grass fed filet broiled to perfection" EVER want to end up with a wife who spent her sexual past "sampling on industrial food" before I came along?

On what planet do you think this makes any sense?

What self respecting guy would ever ever ever feel good about that?

I'll bite. Ones who aren't insecure.

x2. And dont have a small dick.

[Anonymous]

How come women are not even 1/900th interested or intimidated by a man's sexual past vs. the other way around?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A healthy at



titude is recognizing people aren't defined by when they choose to have sex. You are welcome to call women "easy," but understand I'll assume you have serious hang ups.

Like I said, you're free to ignore the realities of society or claim that they're not so. But they are. Whether you like it or not.

If you sleep with a man of the first date it colors his opinion of you in a certain way. More often than not, it won't be positive. Close your eyes and stomp your feet all you want.

There are plenty of people who that wouldn't be the case- namely, not assholes...
but keep buying into the judgmental crap and saying it is gospel

Let's just say that as a younger man many of my friends occasionally banged someone on the first date. Never once did I hear any of them talk about how much they respected them, nor did they pursue serious relationships with them. (Now on cue go ahead and tell me how my friends were all pigs, but they are in fact just regular guys who went on to have families and careers.)

Now, if a woman is just interested in a roll in the hay or casual fling, sure, why not? But if you're looking at someone as a potential long term mate, then don't screw him on night one. He WILL see you differently. I guarantee. it.

....or better yet, have loads of casual sex on a first date anf then make the "hubby to be" wait a good long time.

He'll feel wonderful about you.

Until he finds out about your, GASP, past behavior.

NP here. GASP. No. Because as he gets to actually know you, revealing your past isn't bad, it just a part of who you are. You were sampling on industrial food before--but the guy you want to marry is a slice of grass fed filet broiled to perfection--why gobble it all down in one night?

DOUBLE GASP!

Why would I, the "grass fed filet broiled to perfection" EVER want to end up with a wife who spent her sexual past "sampling on industrial food" before I came along?

On what planet do you think this makes any sense?

What self respecting guy would ever ever ever feel good about that?

LOL what a loser you are.

Don't be jealous because your lady can get laid more than you

GASP!

Let's analyze this shall we?

The "loser" here is YOU, bitter hag.

You are the loser who sampled all that "industrial food." Yeah, a real catch.

Now, all of a sudden you want to upgrade to "grass fed filet." Ha ha.

Only problem, Mr grass fed filet doesn't think you're any kind of prize.

You are the loser.

But hey, you shure can get laid a lot. Good for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Slept with him on the first date. I hope he calls again or did sleeping together so quickly just screw up those chances?

I did it all the time. My philosophy was , "why waste time if he isn't any good in bed."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'll bite. Ones who aren't insecure.

So any guy who would prefer a mate that hasn't slept with 50 other guys is insecure?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How come women are not even 1/900th interested or intimidated by a man's sexual past vs. the other way around?

Because women are generally pretty rational and men are childlike, easily intimidated bitches.

[Anonymous]

So, if it's a problem for the guy, then you're not well matched is all. That's the point of getting to know each other first.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Never sleep with someone on the first date, as it's just a notch on his belt and he lost all respect for you. Pls post and let us know how this worked out for you.

Would you ever, EVER want to marry or even boyfriend a dude who 'loses respect' for women because they're interested in casual sex? Fuck no. A dude like that is radioactive, you don't want him anywhere near you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'll bite. Ones who aren't insecure.

So any guy who would prefer a mate that hasn't slept with 50 other guys is insecure?

...yeah? If you genuinely feel that way, you've flat-out failed at life, sorry kid.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Slept with him on the first date. I hope he calls again or did sleeping together so quickly just screw up those chances?

I did it all the time. My philosophy was , "why waste time if he isn't any good in bed."

Of course my philosophy about you would be, "why waste my time on an intellectually shallow cum bucket?"

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'll bite. Ones who aren't insecure.

So any guy who would prefer a mate that hasn't slept with 50 other guys is insecure?

50 is a large and arbitrary number. But, in my case I'm in the single digits, but one of them was a one time only, if that's too much for you, yes, I'd say you're insecure.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Slept with him on the first date. I hope he calls again or did sleeping together so quickly just screw up those chances?

I did it all the time. My philosophy was , "why waste time if he isn't any good in bed."

Of course my philosophy about you would be, "why waste my time on an intellectually shallow cum bucket?"

And my opinion of you would be, "When does he plan on shooting up a school?" You sound like Elliot Rodgers.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Slept with him on the first date. I hope he calls again or did sleeping together so quickly just screw up those chances?

I did it all the time. My philosophy was , "why waste time if he isn't any good in bed."

Of course my philosophy about you would be, "why waste my time on an intellectually shallow cum bucket?"

wow. That's. You've really got some issues.