This poster is correct and one of the biggest cultural differences is the lack of respect for teachers. In Asia the teacher is like an infallible god and here they are treated like a cleaning lady. You can see it right on this forum with all the posts about “My tween says her teacher is being unfair, who do I complain to?” The American instinct is to trust one’s child first, but in Asia parents would automatically side with the teacher against their child. We used to have more of a happy medium. |
I don’t even think this example or a big deal or the cause of problems educated children. In the US we have kindergarteners calling teachers the B word and too many kids with zero respect for authority or property. Kids routinely destroy school property all the time and do not listen to teachers or directions. And it’s just accepted. |
Or … there are parents who take time to meet with teachers and try to understand the issues. From my experience, some teachers are wonderful, some are good, so are ok and some who are so and that they should not have ever been allowed to teach kids. But, math, and the way it is being “taught” right now is just a joke. You cannot rely on accidentally getting a good math teacher every couple of years. If in a public school, the best advice I can give to any caring parent is to supplement, supplement, and then supplement some more. |
| I think supplementing on the side is not new at all. There are just more options for doing it now, like going to a physical math enrichment center or online classes. Before, it was just educated parents teaching their kids higher level math at home. This was easier when people didn't have to work as much and had more family time. Now that everyone retreats to their computer to send work emails after dinner, there's not as much time to do this one on one with your child so you send them to a center or hire a tutor. |
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So well said. 100% support on textbooks
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OP. Our DD is in 6th grade AAP in fairfax county.
We have to supplement as they move too fast in math. They cram for 2 weeks and take a block test, then move on to another topic. We took our kid to mathnasium and they said she barely understands 4th grade material. They said the school just skips over material too fast, retests and just keeps going forward. It doesn't really matter if they understand the material, a lot of teachers have to prep the kids for the tests. We feel like we need to supplement just to understand the basics the school skipped over. |
Other kids in the class understand the concepts moving at that speed. The problem is they but kids into AAP who are not ready for advanced math. |
That sounds awful. Did she prep to get into AAP or how did she get selected for it and stay in if she doesn't understand the 4th grade material? I sometimes grumble about our spiral curriculum because it seems like DS has been working on and revisiting and revisiting (and revisiting again!) the same material for so long, but your DD's class situation sounds stressful. |
No doubt some do without help, but the most likely scenario is that many kids in that AAP class already are supplementing math outside school. That might be parents who purchased workbooks, at a math center, or a tutor. And by "supplementing" I merely mean the student gets enough outside practice to really learn the methods. I do not necessarily mean pushing ahead, though no doubt some also do that. The car stickers at Kumon, Mathnasium, RSM, or similar tell the story. Car stickers are both from good public schools and also from good private schools. There is a whole thread in DCUM on math supplementing. Those businesses would not be there if there were only a few students supplementing math. |
| It’s so sad to see this as the norm now. |
The government runs the schools, collects taxes for education. Yes, most funding is from the state but the Department of Education oversees the federal law that mandates education for students with disabilities. It also is in charge of ensuring that no state is violating any civil rights. It funds Title 1 schools. Plus much more. Math scores have never been lower. |
My kid is in 4th AAP and we had to start Mathnasium this year. My kid said they learn a new concept, do 1 worksheet of approximately 5-8 questions (which seems insufficient to me) then moves on to a new concept the very next day. And this goes on for a couple weeks until a test at the end of the unit. I've never seen a study guide or anything for kid to get good practice. Kid felt down because he thought he was the only one who doesn't get it. Long story short, we found out many of the classmates have apparently been going to math class at some weekend Chinese place for years. I assume the teacher probably realizes that and teaches the class as more of a review than new material. |
It’s been a steady decline for the past 2-3 decades. |
It’s more sad that we pay a lot of money in taxes for schools that are essentially a big waste of time. |
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