More responsible by abdicating his parental duties? Ok. His kids don’t seem to agree. |
I don't think anyone is saying Jon is a saint. Honestly they both suck for having a litter of babies and putting their diaper accidents on TV for profit. But Kate had glaring rage and control issues. If I had to pick one to hang out with for a day it would be Jon. |
What a hollow victory for Jon. He sucks but onlh a little less than his ex wife. |
With the help of fertility drugs, right? Was he onboard with having 6 kids at once? I’m just curious if he knew that was a very real possibility. Like, how involved was he in that process other than as the sperm provider. |
If he was providing his sample at the fertility office for an IUI, then he was certainly onboard. Otherwise, not understanding biology or reproduction isn’t an excuse to not have to assume parenting responsibilities. |
But clearly there was not great communication because no doctor would advise a pregnancy with six. At what point did it turn into a circus with Kate's uterus as the clown car. I would not put if past Jon to be totally checked out about the risk of getting pregnant with so many kids. I think Kate actually wanted high order multiples to have her moment in the sun. |
I think they didn’t do the IUI because it was canceled and Jon and Kate rolled the dice with timed intercourse. They already had twins, neither can claim ignorance. |
| I am in no way excusing him from responsibility, but it is possible that he didn’t really speak up about his true feelings about having a litter of children. And then when the reality of being a family of 10 actually hit and doing the reality show helped the finances, maybe that was ok at first. But then he saw things were going south and wanted out and she obviously didn’t. Again, I didn’t watch their show and really only know the bits and pieces I have caught here or on the news. Just thinking that this might be the simple version of events. Yes, he could have done things differently and not partied, etc. All the adults involved did not handle things well. |
| If anyone has TikTok both Jon and Kate are on there these days. Jon was the problem, he still seems to be - current fiancé is similar to Kate m, he posted he was upset Kate blocked him. She’s been doing videos on her day to day nursing job and home organization. He’s been partying and drinking and still DJs. New fiancée seems to treat him like sh&t on live TikTok. |
+1 - I think you already have a screw or two loose when you go through with a pregnancy like this. There's a reason it's rare. |
| The McCaughey’s did a good job of not exploiting their kids. They did a story once a year and otherwise just carried on with life. |