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These people sound very much like MAGA thinking they are defending the great American traditions.
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They hold the power LOL |
Facts are friendly; I’m sorry that they don’t align with what you fervently feel to be true. |
| At a HS "college day", I directly asked an AO if they think it is ethical and responsible to disclose institutional priorities to prospective students. Without hesitation, the AO said no! Because then they would only get applicants with those characteristics. For background, we as parents were given a faux case study with a fictitious college with their institutional priorities, and 3 common app applications with essays to review and discuss. At the end, we had to vote accept, reject, waitlist. The vote was pretty clear to choose the candidate that met the college institutional priority- not the strongest kid nor the more interesting candilate. The 'admitted' candidate was a male, first gen, from a rural town. I found the process both illuminating and disheartening. I do think schools have an ethical obligation to be more explicit with their goals. The high achieving girl who showed great curiosity and impact wasted her time and $. Yes, my kid has a savvy mom who reads posts, books. Podcasts, etc. - but many do not. The process is NOT equitable. Wealthy applicants pay for suppport and many fgli and urm in our community have access to special free application support. However, those in the middle are without access to this helpful information which influences admission. Fyi. I am not bitter. My kid got accepted to their top choice... but we totally played the game. It was bs, but it worked. |
So you were in the middle and figured it out, right? That's what I did, too. Pretty much the definition of equitable. |
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The entire US educational system in this country is broken. It is no longer about helping a student reach their potential, but instead painting a mosaic of how some school administrators believe America should look.
I get that universities are businesses and need slots for athletes and other needs to create a school community but some percentage of each class should be set aside for pure merit based admission. I know it won’t happen, so more and more Americans will go to school in the UK where admission is merit based, get a degree in 3 or 4 years from a quality university for less than one would pay for a mid-level SLAC. For those that choose to stay in the US just understand that admissions are random, and based on the “needs/whims” of the university and not a reflection of the quality of the applicant. |
The reason I figured it out is that I am a marketing professional and could apply my experience. I also only work pt, so i had time to study the issue and act as my kid's private counselor. School Guidance counselors are overworked, and most well-intended working parents are just following the inaccurate college admission pages and info sessions telling kids to take highest rigor and to get highest grades, etc. It's disingenuous and creates undue stress and false expectations for kids. I feel bad for high stats kids who are killing themselves and being set up for disappointment bc the things they are doing will not make a difference if shooting for a top school. I just think it would be more fair and ethical to level the playing field with transparency and honesty. College mission statements and websites say they seek kind, ethical, and supportive community members, so having a more transparent process would be a great step to model that behavior. Just my thoughts... |
Same. I figured it out too. In at T10. But it’s a joke this process..or a game. |
Boo hoo, had to dodge the question and copy/paste your bot-like trolling. |
Go abroad then, nobody cares |
The free market has made it quite clear that more than enough people are willing to participate in the system. |
What did you figure out? What do we need to do if we are trying to help our kid play this game? |
The whole process. How your kid has to sell themselves. Pick a strategic major, show your origin story, create multiple angles or layers, going deep into niche academic interest, demonstrating the values and qualities a school is looking for, creating a cohesive application that creates an uncommon, memorable and authentically compelling tagline to help the AO with their review/defense of my kid in committee. All of it. |
Wow. I’m glad I became aware of having to package your kid and create a cohesive narrative after they went through the process. Fortunately my kid (high stats but nothing unique or standout) didn’t set their sights on the very top schools and came out with some good choices in the T-25 to T-50 range . |
Pure merit by your definition I presume. Understand that top colleges do admit on merit. The issue that you have is that their definition of merit isn’t your definition of merit. |