| Assuming this happens, when do you think the change will be effective? |
Fall 2025 |
1/1/2025 |
Come on…don’t gaslight. There are not ‘all kinds of schools like this one’ it is an outlier and if they picked July 1 vs Aug 1 there would not be an issue . Go back about 10 pages in the other thread and there is data by state if the school district cut offs. Will there be a small segment of exceptions- sure..but it’s .001% |
August and September kids who went to school on time. |
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I have an August boy who started school on time, so is in 4th grade. 2015 birth year. I feel like this will be a negative change for us. Can someone tell me why it wont?
He is a mid pack player, not always a starter. He is relatively new to travel and is still developing. The majority of kids on his team are in 4th grade like him. He loves his team. They are his best friends. They mostly all go to different schools. So next year he would miss the Aug 1 cut off and need to try out for a different team? Being a mid pack player right now that could be an advantage if he is put up with kids with less experience. But he would he starting all over with team dynamics and would desperately miss his friends. I also think he would be offended by playing with "younger kids" who are all a grade below him. In this instance would you ask the club to include him in tryouts for the older age group? |
On BY there was no "play with your correct grade" it was just birth year, so obviously mixed grades. Now anyone born in August or September is placed with a lower grade, not their correcr grade. How is this better? |
Because they don't have to be placed with the lower grade. My October 2014 son in 4th grade *cannot* play with the kids in his grade who are almost entirely 2015s. He *must* play with 5th graders. The trap is that when his teammates all play high school when he's in 8th grade he *cannot* play down with the 8th graders. SY is a better (at least for trapped players) because the fall birthday kids in an SY scheme have options. They even have part time options, for example my October 2014 son could lets say, actually make the team up, the one he's on now and stay with them, but then when they all go to high school and he isn't, he could play that season down with the 15s, in that way SY completely eliminates the trapped problem, so why not do it? The key here is whether kids are being forced or not. Now clubs may only offer fall birthday kids a team down, so it might not feel like options, and thats the club's choice, but what club you play for is your choice! |
Yes, obviously there is a huge difference between asking to play up vs. down. |
But Aug and Sept birthdays would have to play up to be kept with their grade. |
Yes, the proposed rules are designed to *allow* kids to play with their grade. No set of rules will guarantee that every kid can *make* their desired team with their grade. |
I'm not sure why this is so hard for everyone to grasp since it keeps coming up again and again, but thanks for explaining it clearly. |
Change clubs if it bothers you. It’s a free market and people change clubs all. the. time. Your situation is NOT being trapped. If you had a trapped player you would understand the difference. You will have options to play with current BY is your kid is good enough and can make the team. |
Its hard to grasp because its not a clearly better system. Its still kind of messed up and confusing and puts a lot of kids already in the system in a weird position. And for kids moving forward they would like default to playing with the grade below them in the u little rec teams, which is a direct contradiction to all of the "but now she can play with her friends" crying. It still leaves a chunk of kids that wont. |
As a parent of several kids who played under the old system, it's not that difficult. At rec and lower travel levels, most clubs allowed an August birthday to play "up" with kids in their grade, as long as it wasn't a safety issue. At higher levels, a skilled August player may still be selected for a team in a higher age group, and if not, it's a nice opportunity for kids who are always the youngest in their grade to be one of the oldest on their sports teams. |