Was I married to a stranger? Even socialites get ghosted. Modern Love!

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Anonymous wrote:Alright I went a little deep on the Davis family. Found the brother's? wedding announcement in the NYT (2002). And I think these white people jumped a broom at their wedding and said it was 100 year old tradition??? The pics are hard to make out, but I think they are all white. What the what??

Please link it!

https://www.nytimes.com/2002/09/22/style/weddings-celebrations-vows-bridget-elias-and-townsend-davis.html

The white people jumping the broom and the thirsty ancestor name dropping in the wedding announcement is so terrible.

But this is sad, seems like Bridget has alzheimers. https://patch.com/new-york/parkslope/calendar/event/20230520/46830955-6dfb-4705-b914-cbbf9cd27226/drawn-from-memory-the-cartoons-and-drawings-of-bridget-elias
And her kids are only 20 and 18. So I'm sure Belle Burden might be more understanding that her BIL is distracted and wants to circle the wagons around his family

Not the same lady. Just the same name.

Who is also married to a man named Townsend Davis? That is some coincidence!

It’s clearly the same lady and does make the slam on her husband look pretty bad.

The DH's PR folks have found this thread. How does having a relative with Alzheimer's excuse his walking out on his family to be with his married mistress? And refusing custody?

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Is this how the Reese Witherspoon produced miniseries ends - a cathartic letter to the NYT? I would watch that!

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Anonymous wrote:I bet he had a coldness to him that she chose to ignore because he was a hot accomplished lawyer. Don’t blame her though, I would have ignored it too.

Hot?! That guy is not hot.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like this story happens a lot. Rich woman with family connections marries a man who is in it for the money and connections. He uses her to rise to the top then takes off. He was probably planning to wait until the kids were in college but the covid lockdown sped things up. The fact that the in-laws wouldn’t talk to her at all tells me that she was probably insufferable.

25 years is an awfully long time to use someone for money and connections though. It’s like why even bother at that point.

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It just goes to show that even with all the $$$ in the world, sh*t happens. I think it's awful when someone feels so entitled and privileged - as if those self inflated traits justify leaving the way he did.

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My experience with my socialite ex-husband was similar- the traits that had attracted me to him ended up being my downfall.

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Sorry but this story is basic. Needs way more *unexpected* drama/twists/turns to be compelling and way more intense, warped WASPiness than blueberry bushes, Harvard and cellos.

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Anonymous wrote:Alright I went a little deep on the Davis family. Found the brother's? wedding announcement in the NYT (2002). And I think these white people jumped a broom at their wedding and said it was 100 year old tradition??? The pics are hard to make out, but I think they are all white. What the what??

Please link it!

https://www.nytimes.com/2002/09/22/style/weddings-celebrations-vows-bridget-elias-and-townsend-davis.html

The white people jumping the broom and the thirsty ancestor name dropping in the wedding announcement is so terrible.

But this is sad, seems like Bridget has alzheimers. https://patch.com/new-york/parkslope/calendar/event/20230520/46830955-6dfb-4705-b914-cbbf9cd27226/drawn-from-memory-the-cartoons-and-drawings-of-bridget-elias
And her kids are only 20 and 18. So I'm sure Belle Burden might be more understanding that her BIL is distracted and wants to circle the wagons around his family

Not the same lady. Just the same name.

Who is also married to a man named Townsend Davis? That is some coincidence!

It’s clearly the same lady and does make the slam on her husband look pretty bad.

The DH's PR folks have found this thread. How does having a relative with Alzheimer's excuse his walking out on his family to be with his married mistress? And refusing custody?

Try to keep up. The discussion was about the BIL not being more supportive of his brother’s Ex. Having a wife with Alzheimer’s and two young children would absolutely be an excuse to not be too preoccupied with what is going on with your brother’s divorce.

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Anonymous wrote:Alright I went a little deep on the Davis family. Found the brother's? wedding announcement in the NYT (2002). And I think these white people jumped a broom at their wedding and said it was 100 year old tradition??? The pics are hard to make out, but I think they are all white. What the what??

Please link it!

https://www.nytimes.com/2002/09/22/style/weddings-celebrations-vows-bridget-elias-and-townsend-davis.html

The white people jumping the broom and the thirsty ancestor name dropping in the wedding announcement is so terrible.

But this is sad, seems like Bridget has alzheimers. https://patch.com/new-york/parkslope/calendar/event/20230520/46830955-6dfb-4705-b914-cbbf9cd27226/drawn-from-memory-the-cartoons-and-drawings-of-bridget-elias
And her kids are only 20 and 18. So I'm sure Belle Burden might be more understanding that her BIL is distracted and wants to circle the wagons around his family

Not the same lady. Just the same name.

Who is also married to a man named Townsend Davis? That is some coincidence!

It’s clearly the same lady and does make the slam on her husband look pretty bad.

The DH's PR folks have found this thread. How does having a relative with Alzheimer's excuse his walking out on his family to be with his married mistress? And refusing custody?

Try to keep up. The discussion was about the BIL not being more supportive of his brother’s Ex. Having a wife with Alzheimer’s and two young children would absolutely be an excuse to not be too preoccupied with what is going on with your brother’s divorce.

You try to keep up. The in-laws all refused to talk to her, not just this one guy.

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Anonymous wrote:Alright I went a little deep on the Davis family. Found the brother's? wedding announcement in the NYT (2002). And I think these white people jumped a broom at their wedding and said it was 100 year old tradition??? The pics are hard to make out, but I think they are all white. What the what??

Please link it!

https://www.nytimes.com/2002/09/22/style/weddings-celebrations-vows-bridget-elias-and-townsend-davis.html

The white people jumping the broom and the thirsty ancestor name dropping in the wedding announcement is so terrible.

But this is sad, seems like Bridget has alzheimers. https://patch.com/new-york/parkslope/calendar/event/20230520/46830955-6dfb-4705-b914-cbbf9cd27226/drawn-from-memory-the-cartoons-and-drawings-of-bridget-elias
And her kids are only 20 and 18. So I'm sure Belle Burden might be more understanding that her BIL is distracted and wants to circle the wagons around his family

Not the same lady. Just the same name.

Who is also married to a man named Townsend Davis? That is some coincidence!

It’s clearly the same lady and does make the slam on her husband look pretty bad.

The DH's PR folks have found this thread. How does having a relative with Alzheimer's excuse his walking out on his family to be with his married mistress? And refusing custody?

Try to keep up. The discussion was about the BIL not being more supportive of his brother’s Ex. Having a wife with Alzheimer’s and two young children would absolutely be an excuse to not be too preoccupied with what is going on with your brother’s divorce.

You try to keep up. The in-laws all refused to talk to her, not just this one guy.

Ice cold white people being ice cold, what’s new!

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Agree that the dude's behavior is consistent with NPD.

However, I want to note that you hardly need a custody schedule with teenagers. Best to let them go on with their lives as usual and not shuffle back and forth. He may be seeing them about as often as before by their own mutual agreement. She makes it sound like the kids were abandoned, but I think there's a good chance he sees them enough without any custody schedule. That's likely what his texts are about (she says she receives neutral texts from him). She describes him as kind toward the children.

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Anonymous wrote:Alright I went a little deep on the Davis family. Found the brother's? wedding announcement in the NYT (2002). And I think these white people jumped a broom at their wedding and said it was 100 year old tradition??? The pics are hard to make out, but I think they are all white. What the what??

Please link it!

https://www.nytimes.com/2002/09/22/style/weddings-celebrations-vows-bridget-elias-and-townsend-davis.html

The white people jumping the broom and the thirsty ancestor name dropping in the wedding announcement is so terrible.

But this is sad, seems like Bridget has alzheimers. https://patch.com/new-york/parkslope/calendar/event/20230520/46830955-6dfb-4705-b914-cbbf9cd27226/drawn-from-memory-the-cartoons-and-drawings-of-bridget-elias
And her kids are only 20 and 18. So I'm sure Belle Burden might be more understanding that her BIL is distracted and wants to circle the wagons around his family

Not the same lady. Just the same name.

Who is also married to a man named Townsend Davis? That is some coincidence!

It’s clearly the same lady and does make the slam on her husband look pretty bad.

The DH's PR folks have found this thread. How does having a relative with Alzheimer's excuse his walking out on his family to be with his married mistress? And refusing custody?

Try to keep up. The discussion was about the BIL not being more supportive of his brother’s Ex. Having a wife with Alzheimer’s and two young children would absolutely be an excuse to not be too preoccupied with what is going on with your brother’s divorce.

You try to keep up. The in-laws all refused to talk to her, not just this one guy.

Did they cut off the kids too?

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Anonymous wrote:The humble brag about losing 20 lbs was annoying
Yeah, I don't feel so sorry for her. She'll be fine, he was probably an ass anyway.

I didn’t read it as a humble brag. I lose my appetite when I’m stressed too, so I just saw it and physical manifestation of her distress.

same

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like this story happens a lot. Rich woman with family connections marries a man who is in it for the money and connections. He uses her to rise to the top then takes off. He was probably planning to wait until the kids were in college but the covid lockdown sped things up. The fact that the in-laws wouldn’t talk to her at all tells me that she was probably insufferable.

25 years is an awfully long time to use someone for money and connections though. It’s like why even bother at that point.

Because he probably had tons of other women on the side the whole time. And money and connections plus side ladies was bearable but when that changed it was not. I feel for this woman but she was oblivious and only found out because she was contacted by the OW’s husband.

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Anonymous wrote:Alright I went a little deep on the Davis family. Found the brother's? wedding announcement in the NYT (2002). And I think these white people jumped a broom at their wedding and said it was 100 year old tradition??? The pics are hard to make out, but I think they are all white. What the what??

Please link it!

https://www.nytimes.com/2002/09/22/style/weddings-celebrations-vows-bridget-elias-and-townsend-davis.html

The white people jumping the broom and the thirsty ancestor name dropping in the wedding announcement is so terrible.

But this is sad, seems like Bridget has alzheimers. https://patch.com/new-york/parkslope/calendar/event/20230520/46830955-6dfb-4705-b914-cbbf9cd27226/drawn-from-memory-the-cartoons-and-drawings-of-bridget-elias
And her kids are only 20 and 18. So I'm sure Belle Burden might be more understanding that her BIL is distracted and wants to circle the wagons around his family

Not the same lady. Just the same name.

Who is also married to a man named Townsend Davis? That is some coincidence!

It’s clearly the same lady and does make the slam on her husband look pretty bad.

The DH's PR folks have found this thread. How does having a relative with Alzheimer's excuse his walking out on his family to be with his married mistress? And refusing custody?

Try to keep up. The discussion was about the BIL not being more supportive of his brother’s Ex. Having a wife with Alzheimer’s and two young children would absolutely be an excuse to not be too preoccupied with what is going on with your brother’s divorce.

You try to keep up. The in-laws all refused to talk to her, not just this one guy.

Did they cut off the kids too?

DP. If the in laws stopped speaking to her and the husband stopped spending time with the children how would they even get in touch with the girls?