STBX Dating “Hot Grandmas”

[Anonymous]

Some men prefer younger women and some don’t just like some women prefer older men and others younger men.

I only ever dated older men and was not attracted to men my age or younger. DH only dated younger women and after his first divorced (ex wife was 4 years younger than him) he would only date women 10+ years younger (I am 13 years younger).

I don’t see a problem with any of it (especially if kids are not on the horizon)

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t want more kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"He also seems to have no problem getting dates. I don’t understand it."

This post isn't about the women he's getting dates with, it is about her shock and amazement that he is getting more dates, more quickly, than she is. Sounds like you let go of a good man, OP. The ladies see him as a catch.

Maybe he’s a good man for some. But I never felt he met my emotional or material needs. Now he just wants 1/2 my wealth.

[Anonymous]

This sounds like a normal age range for him. It is weird that you think it is weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"He also seems to have no problem getting dates. I don’t understand it."

This post isn't about the women he's getting dates with, it is about her shock and amazement that he is getting more dates, more quickly, than she is. Sounds like you let go of a good man, OP. The ladies see him as a catch.

Maybe he’s a good man for some. But I never felt he met my emotional or material needs. Now he just wants 1/2 my wealth.

Then why do you care?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"He also seems to have no problem getting dates. I don’t understand it."

This post isn't about the women he's getting dates with, it is about her shock and amazement that he is getting more dates, more quickly, than she is. Sounds like you let go of a good man, OP. The ladies see him as a catch.

Maybe he’s a good man for some. But I never felt he met my emotional or material needs. Now he just wants 1/2 my wealth.

Then why do you care?

Because he wants her money!!! Wouldn’t you care?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"He also seems to have no problem getting dates. I don’t understand it."

This post isn't about the women he's getting dates with, it is about her shock and amazement that he is getting more dates, more quickly, than she is. Sounds like you let go of a good man, OP. The ladies see him as a catch.

Maybe he’s a good man for some. But I never felt he met my emotional or material needs. Now he just wants 1/2 my wealth.

Isn't he entitled to half of the marital property? That's normal for a divorce, right? I don't understand the issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"He also seems to have no problem getting dates. I don’t understand it."

This post isn't about the women he's getting dates with, it is about her shock and amazement that he is getting more dates, more quickly, than she is. Sounds like you let go of a good man, OP. The ladies see him as a catch.

Maybe he’s a good man for some. But I never felt he met my emotional or material needs. Now he just wants 1/2 my wealth.

Then why do you care?

Because he wants her money!!! Wouldn’t you care?

And he should have it. 1/2 her money and bangin all the new P he can find. That's usually how it works for women. I'm happy for him.

[Anonymous]

It's weird that you find it weird he's dating age appropriate women.

Stop focusing on him and worry about your own dating life

[Anonymous]

+1
Normally, the ex wives complain that her ex husband is dating younger women. You are the first that I have heard complain about dating women his own age. By the way, women ages 45-60 are not exactly grandma's. My wife is 47 and super hot, and a long way (I hope) from becoming a grandma. Best of luck working through your issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s dating women his age. Not sure what there is to figure out.

This. He's dating women between 10 years younger and 5 years older than himself. In DC, most of them probably aren't grandmas yet either, but I don't see the issue if they are. OP, I'm sorry you're dealing with a divorce, but would it really make you feel better if he made an ass of himself dating much younger women?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"He also seems to have no problem getting dates. I don’t understand it."

This post isn't about the women he's getting dates with, it is about her shock and amazement that he is getting more dates, more quickly, than she is. Sounds like you let go of a good man, OP. The ladies see him as a catch.

Maybe he’s a good man for some. But I never felt he met my emotional or material needs. Now he just wants 1/2 my wealth.

Isn't he entitled to half of the marital property? That's normal for a divorce, right? I don't understand the issue.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"He also seems to have no problem getting dates. I don’t understand it."

This post isn't about the women he's getting dates with, it is about her shock and amazement that he is getting more dates, more quickly, than she is. Sounds like you let go of a good man, OP. The ladies see him as a catch.

Maybe he’s a good man for some. But I never felt he met my emotional or material needs. Now he just wants 1/2 my wealth.

Then why do you care?

Because he wants her money!!! Wouldn’t you care?

Um, that is how divorce works. It is not HER money. It is THEIR money.

[Anonymous]

OP you are right on the low-middle of the age range of women he’s dating. This seems the opposite of weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"He also seems to have no problem getting dates. I don’t understand it."

This post isn't about the women he's getting dates with, it is about her shock and amazement that he is getting more dates, more quickly, than she is. Sounds like you let go of a good man, OP. The ladies see him as a catch.

Maybe he’s a good man for some. But I never felt he met my emotional or material needs. Now he just wants 1/2 my wealth.

Then why do you care?

How does she know? Is her ex stupidly telling her?

This is why you need to put a ex in the past.