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Delete instagram
It's bad for your mental health |
I know a woman like this. She selects vacation destinations primarily for their "instagram worthiness". Though she gained a lot of weight when she had her kid and hasn't lost it, so she no longer posts vacation selfies. (To be clear, not a criticism of her gaining weight -- I think she looks fine. But she obviously doesn't because the thirst trap photos have disappeared in favor of photos of her feet on the beach or landscapes.) |
X10000 |
+1 Stop trying to keep up with the Jones’s and get off it completely. It’s a massive time suck, with narcissism at its core. |
| I only post for my friends and artists and writers I admire. Why would anyone care about "followers" unless it was related to their job? |
ha! just today I was thinking how much I enjoy it and how relaxing it is. I follow national parks pages, travel pages, friends, and some pages that post inspiring quotes or pictures. I post mostly pictures with the kids, or occasional workout pictures, or pictures of something interesting from a walk or bike ride etc. |
| PP Here---I have the smallest apartment mentioned in this thread--less than 600 sq feet, but plenty of room to exercise--swing kettlebells, squat jumps, I have my bike on a trainer etc--I think it's more about the layout than the square footage. |
Yeah, I hate Facebook (and am not on it) but I can't get myself to quit Instagram even though it's owned by Facebook because my twice-daily scroll is sooooo relaxing. I am the same -- mostly follow photographers, museums, book stores and bibliophiles, plus some friends and family. I mute or unfollow anyone who makes me feel competitive or not good enough. But mostly I just look at photos of beautiful things and places, learn about books I haven't read yet, and check out photos of my sweet nephew who I almost never get to see in person. I think a lot of people join IG and immediately follow a bunch of celebrities, influencers, and then friends from high school and college. That's a recipe for disaster. Who wants to look at photos of rich people's houses all day while sitting around at their high school reunion. Blech. Don't do this. |
| I'm poor. I'm three paychecks away from not being able to pay rent on my shitty 1 bedroom apartment. I have Instagram and it's not about showing off. It's things I see that are funny or interesting or happy. |
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Doesn’t have to be all lifestyle! IG is great if you enjoy photography or daily snapshots, but have other hobbies or interests other than trying to find a chic wardrobe or everything you eat or amazing home decor.
I like IG because so many of my friends have an it’s a great way to keep up with people. But I’m a pretty private person in my account is completely devoid of any identifying details. I don’t post my name, no photos of myself, husband or our baby. But I enjoy taking pictures of things I like around me: plants, my amazing garden, a pretty sunset, my adorable cat, cool things I bake. My friends comment on my photos but I also have made some anon online friends from posting. There are benefits even if you don’t want to last anything about your private life online. |
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Please bring me up to speed like I am from another planet:
-Is Instagram an app that you need to download to follow someone? - How exactly do you follow someone (the process)? -What is instagram stories? Hanging my head in shame. |
That’s the reason why I’m On IG. |
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Be happy you have a roof over your head, stop complaining and appreciate things you do have that many people don’t.
Posts like these are obnoxious |
This. I have a private account with just immediate/extended family and a handful of very close friends (lifelong). Nobody thinks anyone is bragging. I get to see my cousins’ families, aunts/uncles, etc. I get a million requests from acquaintances to follow me, I just ignore because it is just for family and those that truly love me. |
This. Some of us just genuinely don't have your attention-seeking, competitive worldview, OP. |