Push gift

[Anonymous]

Disgusting. Trashy.

[Anonymous]

+1 that this is a very trashy thing.

[Anonymous]

Ideally a husband would sincerely be grateful for the sacrifice his wife made and would come up with a thoughtful gesture on his own but since men aren’t thoughtful it comes off as transactional.

[Anonymous]

what is your culture. My culture is the American culture and I've never heard of a "push gift" until recently. This is some contrived thing that wives have recently started. I don't understand why the child isn't gift enough.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ideally a husband would sincerely be grateful for the sacrifice his wife made and would come up with a thoughtful gesture on his own but since men aren’t thoughtful it comes off as transactional.

1st, the wife is not making a "sacrifice" in any real way because the woman often sought out a man with the express intent to make a child. She isn't doing it against her will for the soul benefit of the man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She gets a baby, priceless .

same with him

[Anonymous]

I didn’t ask but when we baptized my son DH gave me a blue sapphire. I set it myself for a ring and it was about $20k and I prefer it to my $100k engagement ring.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ideally a husband would sincerely be grateful for the sacrifice his wife made and would come up with a thoughtful gesture on his own but since men aren’t thoughtful it comes off as transactional.

1st, the wife is not making a "sacrifice" in any real way because the woman often sought out a man with the express intent to make a child. She isn't doing it against her will for the soul benefit of the man.

I sacrificed my ability to cough without peeing, among many other unpleasant things. DH wanted kids more than I did. He gave me very thoughtful gifts that reflected his gratitude.

Luckily we are in agreement. Hopefully you and your spouse share a view on this as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She gets a baby, priceless .

same with him

Usually husbands aren’t asking for a push present.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She gets a baby, priceless .

same with him

Usually husbands aren’t asking for a push present.

If technology ever developed to allow gay men to incubate children they’d invent push presents all over again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think is not an American thing.

It would be considered a Jersey Shore, gold digger, tacky type of thing. Probably a woman who is not married would push for this.

Excellent pun!

[Anonymous]

I’d go $1000 Amazon gift card. She can get what she likes!

[Anonymous]

Face mask.

[Anonymous]

Sex toys from Adam and Eve.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ideally a husband would sincerely be grateful for the sacrifice his wife made and would come up with a thoughtful gesture on his own but since men aren’t thoughtful it comes off as transactional.

1st, the wife is not making a "sacrifice" in any real way because the woman often sought out a man with the express intent to make a child. She isn't doing it against her will for the soul benefit of the man.

I sacrificed my ability to cough without peeing, among many other unpleasant things. DH wanted kids more than I did. He gave me very thoughtful gifts that reflected his gratitude.

Luckily we are in agreement. Hopefully you and your spouse share a view on this as well.

Your husband sacrificed sex. Thats a HUUUUGE sacrifice.