Men only want one thing

[Anonymous]

It is part of toxic masculinity.

[Anonymous]

There are men who have sex and who are incredibly unhappy. Sex isn't all they want.

[Anonymous]

Usually, but not always, men want to be able to take their penis out of their pants.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes hotness and sex are a very high priority.

that's two things

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have been married for 15 years, and there are some times that I think the whole marriage, kids, house thing is all just about assuring regular access to that one thing.

Of course it is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is part of toxic masculinity.

What’s toxic about wanting sex?

[Anonymous]

If they're getting that thing, they also want other stuff. If they aren't getting that thing, the other stuff becomes less of a priority.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know...my husband likes sandwiches too.

So maybe they want two things.

and if he could never eat a sandwich ever again?

And not the same sandwich. Every day. Until he dies.

[Anonymous]

Sex is an essential ingredient for most men and without it they (we) aren't going to feel emotionally satisfied. Of course it's not the only thing.

I can't speak for women but given that many long term lesbian relationships become sexless but still have a high degree of intimacy, it seems to be a difference for the sexes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sex is an essential ingredient for most men and without it they (we) aren't going to feel emotionally satisfied. Of course it's not the only thing.

I can't speak for women but given that many long term lesbian relationships become sexless but still have a high degree of intimacy, it seems to be a difference for the sexes.

Ah yes, the whole "frigid women" theory. You know for sure that many long term lesbian relationships become sexless but still have a high degree of intimacy? Have you done a survey?

Us women absolutely have sexual needs as well and that doesn't make us sexual deviants or whores. Sex is an essential part of a successful relationship for me, just as it is for my husband.

[Anonymous]

They want one thing, which is to be satisfied by someone else - through sex, food, attention/caring. Women do not have the same drive for any of that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex is an essential ingredient for most men and without it they (we) aren't going to feel emotionally satisfied. Of course it's not the only thing.

I can't speak for women but given that many long term lesbian relationships become sexless but still have a high degree of intimacy, it seems to be a difference for the sexes.

Ah yes, the whole "frigid women" theory. You know for sure that many long term lesbian relationships become sexless but still have a high degree of intimacy? Have you done a survey?

Us women absolutely have sexual needs as well and that doesn't make us sexual deviants or whores. Sex is an essential part of a successful relationship for me, just as it is for my husband.

Sorry, didn't mean to imply women are asexual. I don't believe it, in fact in every relationship I had my partner was very, very into sex, like multiple times a week if not multiple times a day. The studies unanimously show lesbians have sex way less than straight women, you can infer whether that is because men are better in bed or women need sex less. Google is your friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They want one thing, which is to be satisfied by someone else - through sex, food, attention/caring. Women do not have the same drive for any of that.

yes, we do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman but I know my husband would say it's false. He and his brothers also want somebody to talk to, an equal partner in a relationship, somebody they can admire as far as work and ambition (even if that's just being a stay at home mom), somebody who is a good enough mom to their kids, and of course they want to be good people themselves and provide their wives with what their wives need need. And of course they want financial success, fun hobbies, kids, friends, all that. Yes, lots of sex is something they want but it's just one of many things.

I think men who think that men only want one thing and that's sex are emotionally stunted and need therapy.

Facepalm

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If they're getting that thing, they also want other stuff. If they aren't getting that thing, the other stuff becomes less of a priority. [/quote

So again it’s about sex.