50/50 custody?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hi, it's hard to change

OP, I'm assuming this is you?

What's hard to change?

Why are you being so cryptic with your posts?

We can't really give you a viable answer if you're not providing us with the big picture.

All you're going to get is a ton of speculation on our part, and how is that helpful to you?

You've told us what it's NOT, now try telling us what YOU think bad co-parenting means... only you know.

We obviously want to help you OP, so let us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi, it's hard to change

OP, I'm assuming this is you?

What's hard to change?

Why are you being so cryptic with your posts?

We can't really give you a viable answer if you're not providing us with the big picture.

All you're going to get is a ton of speculation on our part, and how is that helpful to you?

You've told us what it's NOT, now try telling us what YOU think bad co-parenting means... only you know.

We obviously want to help you OP, so let us.

I've been hard to work with, not super cooperative when he's wanted to discuss things, stuff like that. The kid is fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi, it's hard to change

OP, I'm assuming this is you?

What's hard to change?

Why are you being so cryptic with your posts?

We can't really give you a viable answer if you're not providing us with the big picture.

All you're going to get is a ton of speculation on our part, and how is that helpful to you?

You've told us what it's NOT, now try telling us what YOU think bad co-parenting means... only you know.

We obviously want to help you OP, so let us.

I've been hard to work with, not super cooperative when he's wanted to discuss things, stuff like that. The kid is fine.

If it gets to the point where you are going to litigate, one of the parties is probably unreasonable. Not sure if it is you or not, but anything can happen once the decision is in front of a judge.

I litigated, it ended badly (shift in custody), and in the end it was about who was willing to lie about stuff (I wish I had). No maltreatment or danger to the child - two involved parents who had very different ideas of how that child should be living. Child is now an adult and I feel sad at how much the shift in custody impact their relationship with me.

If you are seen as being uncooperative by the judge that could be twisted to allowing other parent to have sole legal and physical custody. You should mediate and figure it out w your ex unless you want to risk a trial - also super expensive, btw.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi, it's hard to change

OP, I'm assuming this is you?

What's hard to change?

Why are you being so cryptic with your posts?

We can't really give you a viable answer if you're not providing us with the big picture.

All you're going to get is a ton of speculation on our part, and how is that helpful to you?

You've told us what it's NOT, now try telling us what YOU think bad co-parenting means... only you know.

We obviously want to help you OP, so let us.

I've been hard to work with, not super cooperative when he's wanted to discuss things, stuff like that. The kid is fine.

If it gets to the point where you are going to litigate, one of the parties is probably unreasonable. Not sure if it is you or not, but anything can happen once the decision is in front of a judge.

I litigated, it ended badly (shift in custody), and in the end it was about who was willing to lie about stuff (I wish I had). No maltreatment or danger to the child - two involved parents who had very different ideas of how that child should be living. Child is now an adult and I feel sad at how much the shift in custody impact their relationship with me.

If you are seen as being uncooperative by the judge that could be twisted to allowing other parent to have sole legal and physical custody. You should mediate and figure it out w your ex unless you want to risk a trial - also super expensive, btw.

Did.it start at 50 50

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi, it's hard to change

OP, I'm assuming this is you?

What's hard to change?

Why are you being so cryptic with your posts?

We can't really give you a viable answer if you're not providing us with the big picture.

All you're going to get is a ton of speculation on our part, and how is that helpful to you?

You've told us what it's NOT, now try telling us what YOU think bad co-parenting means... only you know.

We obviously want to help you OP, so let us.

I've been hard to work with, not super cooperative when he's wanted to discuss things, stuff like that. The kid is fine.

If it gets to the point where you are going to litigate, one of the parties is probably unreasonable. Not sure if it is you or not, but anything can happen once the decision is in front of a judge.

I litigated, it ended badly (shift in custody), and in the end it was about who was willing to lie about stuff (I wish I had). No maltreatment or danger to the child - two involved parents who had very different ideas of how that child should be living. Child is now an adult and I feel sad at how much the shift in custody impact their relationship with me.

If you are seen as being uncooperative by the judge that could be twisted to allowing other parent to have sole legal and physical custody. You should mediate and figure it out w your ex unless you want to risk a trial - also super expensive, btw.

Did.it start at 50 50

Yes

[Anonymous]

I just cannot with these one word answers, OP... it's like pulling teeth getting any kind of details out of you.