The End of Sex

Anonymous
F me hard and I will love you forever!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:What you need to do is talk to her about what she likes and explore together in a respectful, safe and fun way.


Wrong. Did you read the article? What part of primal surrender involves talking about what she likes and exploring together? You're supposed to know what she likes, take her, and DO IT. Anything else and sorry, bumbling beta - next!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:What you need to do is talk to her about what she likes and explore together in a respectful, safe and fun way.


Nope.

- A woman
Anonymous
Being a good partner and being good in bed are not mutually exclusive. In my opinion they are absolutely related.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What you need to do is talk to her about what she likes and explore together in a respectful, safe and fun way.


Nope.

- A woman

If not talking to a woman to find out what she wants and exploring what she wants in a respectful way is not the ticket, what is?
This is the standard advice given to couples, men in particular.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Haven't read the article yet, but I've always thought it well known that most women get turned on by being the object of desire and having an assertive, more dominant lover. I've never had trouble finding this in men. And I'm not talking about jerks or a-holes. I've met plenty of men who are perfectly nice, considerate gentlemen, not sexists, can treat women as equals but know how to take charge in bed. Maybe it's because I'm older and my partners have been around my same age. Is there really a dearth of sexually confident, assertive men in younger generations that know how to navigate this duality? Women used to be told all the time that we needed to be a whore in the bedroom and a lady outside of it. Are younger men unable to pull the equivalent off?


College kids are being shown videos where they are supposed to ask for consent to each escalation within an individual encounter. E.g., first ask for consent before putting a hand on her knee; after receiving that consent request consent to move up to her thigh; after receiving that consent request consent to move up to her ass, and so forth....

How else is this supposed to end?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:No woman wants a beta, even feminists.


and cities like Wash DC are filled with beta men. can't fix a car engine, can't build a fence gate, never played an organized sport, can't be an alpha in bed. but boy oh boy, did they get good grades studying and doing office work! blech.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Haven't read the article yet, but I've always thought it well known that most women get turned on by being the object of desire and having an assertive, more dominant lover. I've never had trouble finding this in men. And I'm not talking about jerks or a-holes. I've met plenty of men who are perfectly nice, considerate gentlemen, not sexists, can treat women as equals but know how to take charge in bed. Maybe it's because I'm older and my partners have been around my same age. Is there really a dearth of sexually confident, assertive men in younger generations that know how to navigate this duality? Women used to be told all the time that we needed to be a whore in the bedroom and a lady outside of it. Are younger men unable to pull the equivalent off?


College kids are being shown videos where they are supposed to ask for consent to each escalation within an individual encounter. E.g., first ask for consent before putting a hand on her knee; after receiving that consent request consent to move up to her thigh; after receiving that consent request consent to move up to her ass, and so forth....

How else is this supposed to end?


oh gimme a break. if you pass all the tests, go on some good dates, have some shared values, of course you jump each others bones once you have a strong connection!
Anonymous
Men need to be a Jedi in the streets and a Sith in the sheets.
Anonymous
Move to Chicago or Denver. Beta men would either die of the cold, too much snow, or get run over whilst perusing their iPhones.
Anonymous
Men are having to learn a lot since the advent of feminism. One of the things they need to learn is that they need to be flexible enough to be the right person at the right time. There’s a time to be the good guy and a time to be that a**hole from the gym.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Huh, man here and I thought it was universally known that women were turned on by novelty and being desired


Well any men if this site ...
Anonymous
Am so sick of these effeminate metro sexuals. It's like I have to choose between hippies and metrosexual in this city.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:So: Submit to women in every part of life. But in the bedroom, fu*k the hell out of them.

Noted.


So.. do the dishes, change the diapers etc outside the bedroom. Tie her up in the bedroom? No way dude. Too much work (the dishes/diaper part). That's a woman's job
Anonymous
The title (End of Sex) is dramatically misleading. They really just mean "The End of Monogamous Married Sex" as men finally awake the fact married women are bored and have lost interest (in husband). Society is already adapting as expected: fewer men getting married, divorce law reform, and mainstream acceptance of open marriages.
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