What fun activities do you do with your spouse?

Anonymous wrote:They say to affair-proof your marriage you should have fun and adventures together where you can experience thrills together, bond and grow.

What do you guys do?

Affair proofing your marriage means not picking a cheater to begin with. My experience is the red flags were there when one is dating. I would only desire a spouse who will be there through thick and thin. Not someone I have to constantly entertain or be concerned they would cheat.

Every couple should be doing things together regardless. We go on cruises and do many camping trips. Dinners and shows are big too with us.

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09/05/2019 10:31

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Once we became empty nesters I took up golf and my husband actually enjoys playing with me....or so he says! It’s opened up new places to travel to and on a nice Sunday afternoon it is a fun way to spend a few hours together. We do other fun things together as well but golf has been a very nice surprise.

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09/05/2019 10:37

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Anonymous wrote:Underwater basket weaving.

Learning Mandarin Chinese.

Getting certified to be Communication Tower Climbers.

Yep! Tower climbing is a hoot!

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09/05/2019 11:06

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Anonymous

Butt Darts

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09/05/2019 11:14

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This is a great topic. And while of course shared interests and new activities are important to grow as a couple and maintain intimacy, isn't the most important activity to guard against cheating the actual sex part? At least for men?

As a man, it's great that we have date nights and vacation and activities but my wife is rarely in the mood and we rarely have sex which is why I am very interested in other women

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09/05/2019 11:17

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If she didn’t put out I wouldn’t want to do activities with her.

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09/05/2019 11:20

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Anonymous

Sex
Concerts
Baseball games
Rodeos

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09/05/2019 11:28

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Anonymous wrote:Once we became empty nesters I took up golf and my husband actually enjoys playing with me....or so he says! It’s opened up new places to travel to and on a nice Sunday afternoon it is a fun way to spend a few hours together. We do other fun things together as well but golf has been a very nice surprise.

You must be great in bed because no husband plays golf with his wife without an ulterior motive!

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09/05/2019 11:38

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Once we became empty nesters I took up golf and my husband actually enjoys playing with me....or so he says! It’s opened up new places to travel to and on a nice Sunday afternoon it is a fun way to spend a few hours together. We do other fun things together as well but golf has been a very nice surprise.

You must be great in bed because no husband plays golf with his wife without an ulterior motive!

LOL! I have no idea if I'm great in bed except to say that I am a very enthusiastic participant and so is my husband. Sunday golf followed by a nice dinner and sex is a nice way to spend a day.

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09/05/2019 12:11

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we play hide the salami, a lot
cards
hid the salami
board games
wine tastings
hide the salami
travel
hide the salami
hiking/other outdoor activities
hide the salami
and she wants to learn how to play golf too

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09/05/2019 12:13

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Anonymous wrote:Nothing. DH has pretty much said he doesn’t like me any more.

Thanks for this important and helpful contribution to the thread

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09/05/2019 12:32

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Once we became empty nesters I took up golf and my husband actually enjoys playing with me....or so he says! It’s opened up new places to travel to and on a nice Sunday afternoon it is a fun way to spend a few hours together. We do other fun things together as well but golf has been a very nice surprise.

You must be great in bed because no husband plays golf with his wife without an ulterior motive!

LOL! I have no idea if I'm great in bed except to say that I am a very enthusiastic participant and so is my husband. Sunday golf followed by a nice dinner and sex is a nice way to spend a day.

You sound ideal and your DH is unbelievably fortunate to have you. I speak on behalf of all men who golf to say this is as close to an ideal Sunday as it comes.