How to tell man you want sex

[Anonymous]

"Come over for Netflix. Oh, be sure to bring condoms"

[Anonymous]

Have him fill out one of these.

[Anonymous]

Grab his joint.

[Anonymous]

Most men will escalate if interested. If you want to be non-subtle, kiss him and whisper that you can wait to have him inside you.

[Anonymous]

I grab his hand and let him feel how wet I am. That sends a strong signal of consent and desire.

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I think (and hope) no one is actually advising the OP to grab his junk and this is meant in a mostly joking manner. I read things like this and get a little uncomfortable as a woman because if the sexes were turned, it wouldn’t be cute or funny if the woman didn’t like it. We should give men the same respect and not just assume they’d like to be touched inappropriately out of nowhere.

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Anonymous wrote:I think (and hope) no one is actually advising the OP to grab his junk and this is meant in a mostly joking manner. I read things like this and get a little uncomfortable as a woman because if the sexes were turned, it wouldn’t be cute or funny if the woman didn’t like it. We should give men the same respect and not just assume they’d like to be touched inappropriately out of nowhere.

But we’re not talking about the roles being reversed.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think (and hope) no one is actually advising the OP to grab his junk and this is meant in a mostly joking manner. I read things like this and get a little uncomfortable as a woman because if the sexes were turned, it wouldn’t be cute or funny if the woman didn’t like it. We should give men the same respect and not just assume they’d like to be touched inappropriately out of nowhere.

But we’re not talking about the roles being reversed.

I mean...why don’t men deserve the same respect we demand from them? I’m not trying to start a debate here but it’s such a double standard and it upsets me that women think things like that are okay and would so casually suggest them. Making a flirty comment about sex or making the first move, totally fine, but IMO not okay to touch a man just because he’s a man (and according to this thread all men are sex-crazed monsters so it’s okay!).

[Anonymous]

I’ve never told a man I want sex! If he starts kissing me I kiss him harder. If he starts to grope, I grope back . If he starts taking off my shirt, I unbuckle his pants. If he asks “are you ok with this” I say “absolutely”. Telling a man you want sex before you start with some fun foreplay feels cheap to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think (and hope) no one is actually advising the OP to grab his junk and this is meant in a mostly joking manner. I read things like this and get a little uncomfortable as a woman because if the sexes were turned, it wouldn’t be cute or funny if the woman didn’t like it. We should give men the same respect and not just assume they’d like to be touched inappropriately out of nowhere.

But we’re not talking about the roles being reversed.

I mean...why don’t men deserve the same respect we demand from them? I’m not trying to start a debate here but it’s such a double standard and it upsets me that women think things like that are okay and would so casually suggest them. Making a flirty comment about sex or making the first move, totally fine, but IMO not okay to touch a man just because he’s a man (and according to this thread all men are sex-crazed monsters so it’s okay!).

But we are (sex crazed monsters). Yes please touch our junk!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think (and hope) no one is actually advising the OP to grab his junk and this is meant in a mostly joking manner. I read things like this and get a little uncomfortable as a woman because if the sexes were turned, it wouldn’t be cute or funny if the woman didn’t like it. We should give men the same respect and not just assume they’d like to be touched inappropriately out of nowhere.

But we’re not talking about the roles being reversed.

I mean...why don’t men deserve the same respect we demand from them? I’m not trying to start a debate here but it’s such a double standard and it upsets me that women think things like that are okay and would so casually suggest them. Making a flirty comment about sex or making the first move, totally fine, but IMO not okay to touch a man just because he’s a man (and according to this thread all men are sex-crazed monsters so it’s okay!).

LOL sure. Men are there for our entertainment. It’s not about the man “feeling” comfortable or being attracted to a women. Men will sleep with any women at any time. All the woman has to is show interest. Do not think you have something special with any man.

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve never told a man I want sex! If he starts kissing me I kiss him harder. If he starts to grope, I grope back . If he starts taking off my shirt, I unbuckle his pants. If he asks “are you ok with this” I say “absolutely”. Telling a man you want sex before you start with some fun foreplay feels cheap to me.

I have to agree. I wouldn't grab him his genitals but if you are on a date with a manand you did, he would be either flattered and not continue or thrilled and moves for more, but never would he file a police report for sexual assault. I don't think it is a classy move but to pretend like men and women are equal is not how dating should be approached

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve never told a man I want sex! If he starts kissing me I kiss him harder. If he starts to grope, I grope back . If he starts taking off my shirt, I unbuckle his pants. If he asks “are you ok with this” I say “absolutely”. Telling a man you want sex before you start with some fun foreplay feels cheap to me.

This. Along with a breathy “I want you” along with my hips pressed and grinding against his...

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Men will sleep with any women at any time. All the woman has to is show interest.

Nah. If you are fat, trashy, deformed, or obviously crazy, I’ll pass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think (and hope) no one is actually advising the OP to grab his junk and this is meant in a mostly joking manner. I read things like this and get a little uncomfortable as a woman because if the sexes were turned, it wouldn’t be cute or funny if the woman didn’t like it. We should give men the same respect and not just assume they’d like to be touched inappropriately out of nowhere.

I have had a few women grab my junk, most times it was welcome, a couple of times it wasn't. Even when it's not, it's more funny to me than offensive. Men aren't going to feel assaulted by that, by and large.