Mothers like this are the issue.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Did you see the mother of the 22/24-year-old's with the Pinterest account focused on toddlers?

https://www.pinterest.com/divaviva/the-art-of-being-a-mom/

It's creepy. Do these women not have lives outside of their grown adult kids? Will they cease to exist with no children in their lives?


Wait. This is the mother of the Dayton shooter. The art of being a mom.
Anonymous
Lolz. She will terrorlze her future daughter in law.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:https://www.lovewhatmatters.com/id-like-to-publicly-apologize-to-our-red-robin-hostess-she-didnt-know-she-was-the-last-straw-mom-breaks-down-at-red-robin-after-dropping-off-son-at-college/

Completely irrational. Had she never been to dinner without him before? Will she never go to dinner without him again? It’s not like he’s dead and never coming back. This level of attachment isn’t healthy. It’s moms like this that are the issue.


Three.’

Hearing it out loud was a gut punch. I felt the need to clarify, to answer for where our missing family member was. As if it was obvious a part of me was missing. I wanted to ramble on explaining, ‘Four, but three for right now.’

That ‘three’ was the final step out of an old life and first step into a new one, and I wasn’t ready; but boy did I think I was…



Does she know there are people with real tragedies? Kids die. Kids are kidnapped. Kids have terminal illnesses. I want to kick her off a building. So so so tone deaf.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Did you see the mother of the 22/24-year-old's with the Pinterest account focused on toddlers?

https://www.pinterest.com/divaviva/the-art-of-being-a-mom/

It's creepy. Do these women not have lives outside of their grown adult kids? Will they cease to exist with no children in their lives?


Wait. This is the mother of the Dayton shooter. The art of being a mom.


Wait waht??
Anonymous
Will she ever function, again?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Did you see the mother of the 22/24-year-old's with the Pinterest account focused on toddlers?

https://www.pinterest.com/divaviva/the-art-of-being-a-mom/

It's creepy. Do these women not have lives outside of their grown adult kids? Will they cease to exist with no children in their lives?


Wait. This is the mother of the Dayton shooter. The art of being a mom.


Wait waht??


Appears to be. Same last name, kids Connor and Megan. Both dead.

He evidently had a kill list and rape list of girls in his HS.

Anonymous
Did anonymous know that's who it was when they posted, or was it random
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Did you see the mother of the 22/24-year-old's with the Pinterest account focused on toddlers?

https://www.pinterest.com/divaviva/the-art-of-being-a-mom/

It's creepy. Do these women not have lives outside of their grown adult kids? Will they cease to exist with no children in their lives?


Wait. This is the mother of the Dayton shooter. The art of being a mom.


Wait waht??


Appears to be. Same last name, kids Connor and Megan. Both dead.

He evidently had a kill list and rape list of girls in his HS.



Disgusting. Parents that coddle their boys and raise them with a princely sense of entitlement... STOP DOING THIS. Your precious baby boy needs rules, punishments, boundaries, to be told "no" often. Clearly this mom was caught up in the fetishizing of her own perfect children.

It's not a great thing to do for girls either, but girls generally don't lash out and kill others. Boys and young men do. Loving your kids doesn't mean smothering them. You have to teach them how to deal with disappointment and rejection and failure.

Dads too, but I think a lot of dads shrug their shoulders and let mama bear do her smothering thing.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This kind of attachment is almost incestuous in a way. It's super creepy and unhealthy.

And it’s also the origin of most mental health issues we’re seeing in so many young men today.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This kind of attachment is almost incestuous in a way. It's super creepy and unhealthy.

And it’s also the origin of most mental health issues we’re seeing in so many young men today.


I think it's also disproportionate among households with SAHPs (usually mothers), as they don't develop interests outside of their kids. Not all SAHP households, of course, but just more than in households in which both parents work.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Did anonymous know that's who it was when they posted, or was it random

OP here. I absolutely did not; it showed up on a FB page I follow, Love What Matters, today, but had no mention of that. Is this really the mother of shooting victims?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Did anonymous know that's who it was when they posted, or was it random

OP here. I absolutely did not; it showed up on a FB page I follow, Love What Matters, today, but had no mention of that. Is this really the mother of shooting victims?


What a weird coincidence! I wonder if it’s her.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Did anonymous know that's who it was when they posted, or was it random

OP here. I absolutely did not; it showed up on a FB page I follow, Love What Matters, today, but had no mention of that. Is this really the mother of shooting victims?


What a weird coincidence! I wonder if it’s her.


It's definitely the Dayton shooter's mother. I don't want to use his name, but the names of all of them (mother, son, daughter) are the same.
Anonymous
No wonder the kid wanted to get off to college 10 days after graduating high school.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Did anonymous know that's who it was when they posted, or was it random

OP here. I absolutely did not; it showed up on a FB page I follow, Love What Matters, today, but had no mention of that. Is this really the mother of shooting victims?


What a weird coincidence! I wonder if it’s her.


It's definitely the Dayton shooter's mother. I don't want to use his name, but the names of all of them (mother, son, daughter) are the same.


No. The last names don’t match. Also, jeans / Red Robin kids are Ryan and Allison. Not Conner and Megan.
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