GoFundMe for 39 YO woman who has 38 Children - is this real??

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Couldn't doctor remove her ovaries?

Also, some of her children are grown a$$ people who should be contributing and/or supporting themselves.

That is a medical treatment which isn't free and sterilization is now a very prohibited procedure as if was used for far too long on as a tactic against disenfranchised communities.

How would you like it if I went to West Virginia and told every woman with more than 5 kids and living in a trailer to line up to get her ovaries snipped?

The situations are pretty different. This lady has an actual medical condition, and I doubt she really wanted to have that many kids, that's an INSANE amount of kids. Imagine the effects on her body.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Couldn't doctor remove her ovaries?

Also, some of her children are grown a$$ people who should be contributing and/or supporting themselves.

That is a medical treatment which isn't free and sterilization is now a very prohibited procedure as if was used for far too long on as a tactic against disenfranchised communities.

How would you like it if I went to West Virginia and told every woman with more than 5 kids and living in a trailer to line up to get her ovaries snipped?

She asked for it repeatedly. Also, she doesn't live in West Virginia.

No, she asked for tubal ligation which is different. Removing reproductive organs is another level.

And if you're going to expend basic courtesy and respect to poor mothers living on food stamps and in trailers in Appalachia, the same should be said for poor mothers in impoverished villages and countries around the world.

Sorry, I don't see too much courtesy in 39 living children. Especially since she asked the doctors (who were apparently about as ignorant as she was) to prevent pregnancies from very early on.

Not having access to economic support or willing reproductive health clinics (like Planned Parenthood in the US) is not ignorance, its just sad. Be grateful for you have and stop trying to shame her.

I'm not trying to shame her. I'm trying to shame the doctors that she went to that refused to help her.

And her oldest children are in their 20s. Why are they still living at home, dependent on her?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Couldn't doctor remove her ovaries?

Also, some of her children are grown a$$ people who should be contributing and/or supporting themselves.

That is a medical treatment which isn't free and sterilization is now a very prohibited procedure as if was used for far too long on as a tactic against disenfranchised communities.

How would you like it if I went to West Virginia and told every woman with more than 5 kids and living in a trailer to line up to get her ovaries snipped?

The situations are pretty different. This lady has an actual medical condition, and I doubt she really wanted to have that many kids, that's an INSANE amount of kids. Imagine the effects on her body.

If she had money, they would do it. Since she doesn't, they won't.

It's as simple as that.

There are many third-world hospitals and medical centers that WILL NOT treat you unless you bring cash. You could be dying and they will refuse you.

https://www.apnews.com/daf47512c8f74e869b722782299b4a0e

https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/59xxkd/nigeria-hospital-detention-folake-oduyoye

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Couldn't doctor remove her ovaries?

Also, some of her children are grown a$$ people who should be contributing and/or supporting themselves.

That is a medical treatment which isn't free and sterilization is now a very prohibited procedure as if was used for far too long on as a tactic against disenfranchised communities.

How would you like it if I went to West Virginia and told every woman with more than 5 kids and living in a trailer to line up to get her ovaries snipped?

She asked for it repeatedly. Also, she doesn't live in West Virginia.

No, she asked for tubal ligation which is different. Removing reproductive organs is another level.

And if you're going to expend basic courtesy and respect to poor mothers living on food stamps and in trailers in Appalachia, the same should be said for poor mothers in impoverished villages and countries around the world.

Sorry, I don't see too much courtesy in 39 living children. Especially since she asked the doctors (who were apparently about as ignorant as she was) to prevent pregnancies from very early on.

Not having access to economic support or willing reproductive health clinics (like Planned Parenthood in the US) is not ignorance, its just sad. Be grateful for you have and stop trying to shame her.

I'm not trying to shame her. I'm trying to shame the doctors that she went to that refused to help her.

And her oldest children are in their 20s. Why are they still living at home, dependent on her?

Alright, on those points I agree. The children should be gone and getting jobs at 18 or joining the military service. The doctors are just unwilling to do anything without getting paid.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Fund this kind of insanity? No thanks.

She asked doctors for birth control or tubal ligation for years and they denied her. She didn't choose all of the insanity.

Although it seems to me that many of her kids need to grow up and move out on their own.

She hasn't heard of abstinence?

Who even has time for gettin' busy if you're raising 38 children? We have enough trouble and we only have 2!

STFU. Do you live in Uganda? Do you think she had a choice in any of this? Spousal rape is not even recognized as rape in many countries you ignorant twit.

[Anonymous]

The fact that any woman in America thinks they have anything other than ovaries and a uterus in common with this woman is a joke.

Get out of your bubble, stop judging other people based on your limited life experiences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Fund this kind of insanity? No thanks.

She asked doctors for birth control or tubal ligation for years and they denied her. She didn't choose all of the insanity.

Although it seems to me that many of her kids need to grow up and move out on their own.

She hasn't heard of abstinence?

Who even has time for gettin' busy if you're raising 38 children? We have enough trouble and we only have 2!

STFU. Do you live in Uganda? Do you think she had a choice in any of this? Spousal rape is not even recognized as rape in many countries you ignorant twit.

So now she is a rape victim on the grounds of having a husband?

Perhaps he could have gotten the snip

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Fund this kind of insanity? No thanks.

She asked doctors for birth control or tubal ligation for years and they denied her. She didn't choose all of the insanity.

Although it seems to me that many of her kids need to grow up and move out on their own.

She hasn't heard of abstinence?

Who even has time for gettin' busy if you're raising 38 children? We have enough trouble and we only have 2!

STFU. Do you live in Uganda? Do you think she had a choice in any of this? Spousal rape is not even recognized as rape in many countries you ignorant twit.

So now she is a rape victim on the grounds of having a husband?

Perhaps he could have gotten the snip

The point is you do not know their story or background. Have you ever worked with women in third world counties?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Fund this kind of insanity? No thanks.

She asked doctors for birth control or tubal ligation for years and they denied her. She didn't choose all of the insanity.

Although it seems to me that many of her kids need to grow up and move out on their own.

She hasn't heard of abstinence?

Who even has time for gettin' busy if you're raising 38 children? We have enough trouble and we only have 2!

STFU. Do you live in Uganda? Do you think she had a choice in any of this? Spousal rape is not even recognized as rape in many countries you ignorant twit.

So now she is a rape victim on the grounds of having a husband?

Perhaps he could have gotten the snip

The point is you do not know their story or background. Have you ever worked with women in third world counties?

Actually we do know her story - it's in the news article OP posted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Fund this kind of insanity? No thanks.

She asked doctors for birth control or tubal ligation for years and they denied her. She didn't choose all of the insanity.

Although it seems to me that many of her kids need to grow up and move out on their own.

She hasn't heard of abstinence?

Who even has time for gettin' busy if you're raising 38 children? We have enough trouble and we only have 2!

STFU. Do you live in Uganda? Do you think she had a choice in any of this? Spousal rape is not even recognized as rape in many countries you ignorant twit.

So now she is a rape victim on the grounds of having a husband?

Perhaps he could have gotten the snip

NP here, you likely think you sound smart, but the only thing your comment shows is how very ignorant you are. Simpleton, they live in a 3rd world country and therefore play by a different set of rules.

[Anonymous]

It’s a miracle she hasn’t died from pregnancy or birth-related complications. That’s probably how her story will end.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s a miracle she hasn’t died from pregnancy or birth-related complications. That’s probably how her story will end.

She has been sterilized now, fortunately.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Fund this kind of insanity? No thanks.

She asked doctors for birth control or tubal ligation for years and they denied her. She didn't choose all of the insanity.

Although it seems to me that many of her kids need to grow up and move out on their own.

She hasn't heard of abstinence?

Who even has time for gettin' busy if you're raising 38 children? We have enough trouble and we only have 2!

100% of unwanted/unplanned pregnancies are caused by men.

[Anonymous]

I feel very sorry for this woman, and I think the medical system there, and her husband, have failed her terribly. Most likely some of the older children are living at home to help her care for the younger ones.

[Anonymous]

She was sold as a bride at 13.

She ased to stop having children after 8.

Her husband forced her to have children.

Her grandmother found out she was being abused and got her away from her husband.

She has a condition that makes it impossible to do a tubal.