Why won't my spouse accept the fact I want a divorce? WWYD?
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Anonymous
| OP, you aren’t going to leave. There’s obviously something keeping you in the marriage since you already know what to do to end it. |
Anonymous
| Take the offer and move? |
Anonymous
| Well, this is a weird thread. Troll? |
Anonymous
I was just there because we still had a child at home. |
Anonymous
| S or get off the pot. Your thinly veiled threats aren’t working. Go to a lawyer and have spouse served with divorce papers. |
Anonymous
| Probably because you swore to be his partner for life. |
Anonymous
| Now is the perfect time to leave. Take the job offer, pack your stuff and go. |
Anonymous
| Take the job and leave. Start your separation. Ask him to go to a mediator with you or both fight it out and spend wasteful amounts of money on attorneys. Actually have to do something to divorce you just can’t talk about it . |
Anonymous
| If my spouse wanted a divorce, and I didn’t, I wouldn’t take any action either. What do you expect him to do? |
Anonymous
Seriously. Do you expect him/her to handle all the hassle of a divorce? Because you said you wanted one? |
Anonymous
| Op, I get you. My husband doesn’t want a divorce either. I was thinking if only from a prude angle- I wouldn’t stay with someone who said they wanted to go. But he doesn’t have those issues. He’ll drag his feet the entire way |
Anonymous
| “Jack, here is the information for my attorney. Please have your attorney contact him (or her).” |
Anonymous
lol That probably has something to do with why your spouse doesn’t believe you, OP... |
Anonymous
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I divorced once. I never threatened. I just hired an attorney and filed. And get this, he told me he couldn't believe that I was doing it.
Who cares if he believes it or not? |
Anonymous
| What exactly do you expect your spouse to do? |