Neighbor with another woman

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

So what does that make your blackmailing friend?

You missed the 'jokingly' part?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

So what does that make your blackmailing friend?

A disgusting man-whore?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

So what does that make your blackmailing friend?

You missed the 'jokingly' part?

Was he still joking when he dropped his pants?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

So what does that make your blackmailing friend?

You missed the 'jokingly' part?

If it were “jokingly” he’d have kept his pants zipped.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

So what does that make your blackmailing friend?

You missed the 'jokingly' part?

If it were “jokingly” he’d have kept his pants zipped.

To be honest, I can't think of one guy I know that would have turned it down. Also, maybe she likes giving BJs. You do know those women exist, right? Or are you one of the people that think women view sex as a disgusting chore?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP you need to take responsibility for having seen this and get involved. You cannot just sit back and let others get away with immoral acts it is your moral and civic duty to intervene whenever possible to keep others on the straight and narrow. Not only is their marriage at stake but the plight of your respective children is at stake. A secret affair could potentially result in a messy divorce and have that kid your child plays with plunging down an emotional spiral of fear, anger, resentment, and depression that could potentially impact your child. You absolutely have to do something immediately!

I agree.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

So what does that make your blackmailing friend?

You missed the 'jokingly' part?

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

He should feel pretty bad it's sextortion and it's a serious crime. Whether he was joking or not the fact that she complied does not obviously make her a tramp it means she was coerced into performing a sexual act for fear of the threat of something terrible happening. It's sick and depraved and it is no different than any other form of gender-based violence against women. It's no different than when teachers coerce sex acts from students in exchange for fair grades, no different than when landlords demand sex in lieu of rent, no different than when judges extort sex in exchange for favorable custody decisions. It's the equivalent of putting a gun to a woman's head and requesting they provide you with a sexual favor in return for sparing their life. Consent cannot occur in a situation where the person is coerced, such as when they have a gun to their head, or are under threat of something terrible happening. Blackmail is a form of coercion. The guy you went to college with belongs in jail.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

He should feel pretty bad it's sextortion and it's a serious crime. Whether he was joking or not the fact that she complied does not obviously make her a tramp it means she was coerced into performing a sexual act for fear of the threat of something terrible happening. It's sick and depraved and it is no different than any other form of gender-based violence against women. It's no different than when teachers coerce sex acts from students in exchange for fair grades, no different than when landlords demand sex in lieu of rent, no different than when judges extort sex in exchange for favorable custody decisions. It's the equivalent of putting a gun to a woman's head and requesting they provide you with a sexual favor in return for sparing their life. Consent cannot occur in a situation where the person is coerced, such as when they have a gun to their head, or are under threat of something terrible happening. Blackmail is a form of coercion. The guy you went to college with belongs in jail.

Puhlease.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

So what does that make your blackmailing friend?

You missed the 'jokingly' part?

He was in a position of power over her. That's a terrible "joke."

[Anonymous]

Depends on how he said it.

If it was in a mean spirited blackmailey kind of voice: no dice

If it was light hearted and a flirty joking manner with bedroom eyes: on my knees

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

He should feel pretty bad it's sextortion and it's a serious crime. Whether he was joking or not the fact that she complied does not obviously make her a tramp it means she was coerced into performing a sexual act for fear of the threat of something terrible happening. It's sick and depraved and it is no different than any other form of gender-based violence against women. It's no different than when teachers coerce sex acts from students in exchange for fair grades, no different than when landlords demand sex in lieu of rent, no different than when judges extort sex in exchange for favorable custody decisions. It's the equivalent of putting a gun to a woman's head and requesting they provide you with a sexual favor in return for sparing their life. Consent cannot occur in a situation where the person is coerced, such as when they have a gun to their head, or are under threat of something terrible happening. Blackmail is a form of coercion. The guy you went to college with belongs in jail.

Puhlease.

Times have changed that crap doesn't fly anymore. You try that "Pulease" shrug nowadays and #MeToo will eat you alive and have you doing 10-20yrs in federal EASY.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

He should feel pretty bad it's sextortion and it's a serious crime. Whether he was joking or not the fact that she complied does not obviously make her a tramp it means she was coerced into performing a sexual act for fear of the threat of something terrible happening. It's sick and depraved and it is no different than any other form of gender-based violence against women. It's no different than when teachers coerce sex acts from students in exchange for fair grades, no different than when landlords demand sex in lieu of rent, no different than when judges extort sex in exchange for favorable custody decisions. It's the equivalent of putting a gun to a woman's head and requesting they provide you with a sexual favor in return for sparing their life. Consent cannot occur in a situation where the person is coerced, such as when they have a gun to their head, or are under threat of something terrible happening. Blackmail is a form of coercion. The guy you went to college with belongs in jail.

Puhlease.

Times have changed that crap doesn't fly anymore. You try that "Pulease" shrug nowadays and #MeToo will eat you alive and have you doing 10-20yrs in federal EASY.

Double Puhlease. We have a sitting AG in Va currently accused of TWO rapes and you think the office slut giving her colleague a blowie is gonna result in jail time?

Times have changed that crap doesn't fly anymore. You try that "Pulease" shrug nowadays and #MeToo will eat you alive and have you doing 10-20yrs in federal EASY.

Politicians have way more clout, way more connections, and most importantly way more capital than you. Give it a try. See what happens.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

So what does that make your blackmailing friend?

A very lucky guy?

[Anonymous]

To answer OPs question, I wouldn’t say anything because you never know the arrangements they have as a couple.