What ever happened to your most significant ex?

[Anonymous]

Restraining order - 5yrs. Zero contact except by 3rd party related to business only. Can't come near me or my house and can only be in a room with me if a lawyer or police officer is present. He was engaged 6 months after I left him.

[Anonymous]

No contact for decades after I broke up with him. Stalked his wife on FB and saw a picture of him. Looks the same just older. He didn’t want to get married since he never wanted kids. I wanted a family. Looks like he married a divorced lady with kids.

[Anonymous]

No contact. Wouldn’t want to say anything, just kiss him, to see if I felt 18 again. Looked him up and know enough about where he ended up that we no longer have much in common.

[Anonymous]

He’s a legislator. Haven’t spoken to him since we broke up. He has a wife with a big career and they seem happy, at least acc to social media.

[Anonymous]

He has our 3 kids for his custody time right now. Yes, I speak to him about our kids.

[Anonymous]

Still single and living in the middle of no where. He did become an engineer though.

[Anonymous]

Googled one ex years ago and found him on FB. Looked happy. Then googled him again just a few months ago and found his obituary. “Died unexpectedly “. Looked at his wife’s page on FB. Suspect he committed suicide. Only 50 years old. Had three kids. Successful. Sigh. The brain is a terrible place sometimes.

[Anonymous]

Mine’s in prison for life. Double homicide. We don’t keep in touch...

[Anonymous]

We have mutual friends. He’s been in a relationship with a woman for a few years now but they are not going to get married or have kids. Which is not surprising and it does make me feel validated in some way- pretty much the main reason we broke up is that we didn’t want the same things and I’m kind of glad he didn’t move on and marry/start a family with someone else. No bad feelings, we just didn’t want the same things out of life. I did hear that he still drinks too much though (another not great aspect of being with him). I do genuinely hope he is happy/ok.

[Anonymous]

We're friends on FB- he's happily married with two boys. He's a good guy who lacked ambition, so he wasn't right for me. I'm glad he's happy with a lower maintenance, nice woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mine’s in prison for life. Double homicide. We don’t keep in touch...

What happened, he caught you being spit-roasted by two coworkers?

[Anonymous]

I googled him about 2 months so and found out he died at forty eight. I had not seen him in over twenty years.

[Anonymous]

I'm in contact with him. The memory of him haunted me for years because he was the road not taken and my life would have been completely different than the one I live now had I stayed with him--different not necessarily better. He was the only person besides my husband I ever wanted to make a life with but we were a bit too young and we still had goals to accomplish. About a year ago he contacted me and we wrote regularly and with a lot of emotion for a while--it was very cathartic--that has now dwindled to sporadically but it's still nice. It put an end to my wondering. I now know we were compatible because we followed similar paths. He's married and so am I. If we were both single again I would like to see him. He is often in my thoughts.

My MIL is now 87 and has been married for 65 years. There is an old boyfriend that never forgot her and continued to occasionally send her flowers and notes up until his recent death. You never know how you will mark someone's life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm in contact with him. The memory of him haunted me for years because he was the road not taken and my life would have been completely different than the one I live now had I stayed with him--different not necessarily better. He was the only person besides my husband I ever wanted to make a life with but we were a bit too young and we still had goals to accomplish. About a year ago he contacted me and we wrote regularly and with a lot of emotion for a while--it was very cathartic--that has now dwindled to sporadically but it's still nice. It put an end to my wondering. I now know we were compatible because we followed similar paths. He's married and so am I. If we were both single again I would like to see him. He is often in my thoughts.

My MIL is now 87 and has been married for 65 years. There is an old boyfriend that never forgot her and continued to occasionally send her flowers and notes up until his recent death. You never know how you will mark someone's life.

Your behavior as a married woman is highly inappropriate.

[Anonymous]

College boyfriend. My family ran into his family a few years ago, and we chatted while the kids played and have been occasionally texting since. We also visited each other's family once - our kids are similar ages. I like his wife, too. Great guy.