Have you ever been attracted to or dated someone you're ashamed of?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife is ashamed of me.

She is hiding the fact that I'm divorced and have kids from her extended family. Filters through her social media regularly to erase any indication that might get linked into her public stuff concerning my ex or kids. She is frequently talks about ex boyfriends and how much money they make and occasionally men she knows in passing that she "wishes she knew better."

Right now I'm a little upset because she spent dinner talking about this attractive doctor that has blue eyes she met at her recent doctor visit. She has been looking him up on social media....

I make 150K. I'm not a doctor and I don't have blue eyes.

Why are you married to her?

[Anonymous]

Had a FWB at work many years ago that had an amazing body and could go all night. Found out shortly after we stopped banging that he was arrested for stalking another woman from work and exposed himself/masturbated around her apartment building.

[Anonymous]

yes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife is ashamed of me.

She is hiding the fact that I'm divorced and have kids from her extended family. Filters through her social media regularly to erase any indication that might get linked into her public stuff concerning my ex or kids. She is frequently talks about ex boyfriends and how much money they make and occasionally men she knows in passing that she "wishes she knew better."

Right now I'm a little upset because she spent dinner talking about this attractive doctor that has blue eyes she met at her recent doctor visit. She has been looking him up on social media....

I make 150K. I'm not a doctor and I don't have blue eyes.

DUMP HER.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife is ashamed of me.

She is hiding the fact that I'm divorced and have kids from her extended family. Filters through her social media regularly to erase any indication that might get linked into her public stuff concerning my ex or kids. She is frequently talks about ex boyfriends and how much money they make and occasionally men she knows in passing that she "wishes she knew better."

Right now I'm a little upset because she spent dinner talking about this attractive doctor that has blue eyes she met at her recent doctor visit. She has been looking him up on social media....

I make 150K. I'm not a doctor and I don't have blue eyes.

Most wives think they could have done better.

[Anonymous]

Yes. He used to get into bar fights fairly regularly and come home bleeding and drunk with unclear stories. I don’t know what i saw in him! Dated for three years smh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most wives think they could have done better.

Ha. Most wives are stunned, after the divorce, at how low their market value is, how high their ex-DH's is, and how quickly they are replaced.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife is ashamed of me.

She is hiding the fact that I'm divorced and have kids from her extended family. Filters through her social media regularly to erase any indication that might get linked into her public stuff concerning my ex or kids. She is frequently talks about ex boyfriends and how much money they make and occasionally men she knows in passing that she "wishes she knew better."

Right now I'm a little upset because she spent dinner talking about this attractive doctor that has blue eyes she met at her recent doctor visit. She has been looking him up on social media....

I make 150K. I'm not a doctor and I don't have blue eyes.

Why are you married to her?

I seriously hope this poster considers what this woman does to his mental state. And guess what, if she is not crazy about the $150K, there are plenty of women who will be.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Every man has dumpster dived and banged some beast that he didn't want to be seen with in public and never wanted his friends to see.

Speak for yourself.

[Anonymous]

I think yes, I was embarrassed by a couple of the people I dated, but upon reflection it was being ashamed of myself, actually. It happened I was dating somebody I didn't like or care for very much. I've dated people that others might be ashamed of for whatever reason, but when I dated them I wasn't, because I loved every bit of them. But when I didn't actually like a person that much and we were dating for the wrong reasons, THAT is when I'd get ashamed.

[Anonymous]

You mean did I ever turn a woman down in front of my friends and then, when she followed me to the bathroom tell her that if she left thru the front door and waited for me out back, I'd sneak out?

Yes, I did that.

[Anonymous]

Yep - tried twice to date guys who were a little rough around the edges/from a lower class background than Mel. We were fine, mostly, by ourselves, and they were both super nice to me, but I just couldn’t get over their uncouth ways.

Married an elite east coast snob, who is a great guy, but have since found out that his crew has a lot of uncouth things about them, too, not in terms of clothing or manners, but more in privately held beliefs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Had a FWB at work many years ago that had an amazing body and could go all night. Found out shortly after we stopped banging that he was arrested for stalking another woman from work and exposed himself/masturbated around her apartment building.

You!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yep - tried twice to date guys who were a little rough around the edges/from a lower class background than Mel. We were fine, mostly, by ourselves, and they were both super nice to me, but I just couldn’t get over their uncouth ways.

Married an elite east coast snob, who is a great guy, but have since found out that his crew has a lot of uncouth things about them, too, not in terms of clothing or manners, but more in privately held beliefs.

That is just a cover my dear. No difference in either class's morals.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yep - tried twice to date guys who were a little rough around the edges/from a lower class background than Mel. We were fine, mostly, by ourselves, and they were both super nice to me, but I just couldn’t get over their uncouth ways.

Married an elite east coast snob, who is a great guy, but have since found out that his crew has a lot of uncouth things about them, too, not in terms of clothing or manners, but more in privately held beliefs.

That is just a cover my dear. No difference in either class's morals.

Thank you, dear heart, I was admitting my naïveté and obviously have learned a lesson.