Husband calls me selfish

[Anonymous]

Why don't you all eat together at the same time?

[Anonymous]

First of all, you should all be eating together as a family.

Second, he can assist in feeding your child just as well as you can and that's what you should tell him. Not to mention, can your child not feed himself to some degree? He's 3, not 1.

[Anonymous]

maybe you are selfish and he just said this in the absolutely wrong context....hmm?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Andrew, I'd like you to take over feeding Aidan, since you know best how he should be fed. It's obvious that you would do a much better job."

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you all eat together at the same time?

Op here. We were sitting down eating at the same time but we eat different foods. My husband has a different diet so he cooks separately. Our almost 3 year old can only do finger foods. We had noodles tonight so it was hard for him to feed himself. i can't wait until my son can feed himself. That should happen before 4?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you all eat together at the same time?

Op here. We were sitting down eating at the same time but we eat different foods. My husband has a different diet so he cooks separately. Our almost 3 year old can only do finger foods. We had noodles tonight so it was hard for him to feed himself. i can't wait until my son can feed himself. That should happen before 4?

OP, you need to talk to your child's pediatrician about why he can't feed himself. This is a concern. Can he not use a fork and spoon? Has anyone brought this up with you?

My 2.5 year old can use a fork and a spoon pretty adeptly, as can the rest of the kids in her daycare class. It is not typical for a 3 year old to only be able to eat finger foods.

[Anonymous]

What meal is this OP? What time of day are you talking about?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you all eat together at the same time?

Op here. We were sitting down eating at the same time but we eat different foods. My husband has a different diet so he cooks separately. Our almost 3 year old can only do finger foods. We had noodles tonight so it was hard for him to feed himself. i can't wait until my son can feed himself. That should happen before 4?

Sit the child between you and take turns giving him bites. Also, work on using a fork and spoon. He should be able to do so already.

[Anonymous]

We all sit at the table and eat dinner, including my 20 month old and 4 year old (who both feed themselves). Sometimes the kids get an easy variation of what we're having, like a piece of bread instead of rice because they don't like it, but we all eat at the same time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you all eat together at the same time?

Op here. We were sitting down eating at the same time but we eat different foods. My husband has a different diet so he cooks separately. Our almost 3 year old can only do finger foods. We had noodles tonight so it was hard for him to feed himself. i can't wait until my son can feed himself. That should happen before 4?

OP, you need to talk to your child's pediatrician about why he can't feed himself. This is a concern. Can he not use a fork and spoon? Has anyone brought this up with you?

My 2.5 year old can use a fork and a spoon pretty adeptly, as can the rest of the kids in her daycare class. It is not typical for a 3 year old to only be able to eat finger foods.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you all eat together at the same time?

Op here. We were sitting down eating at the same time but we eat different foods. My husband has a different diet so he cooks separately. Our almost 3 year old can only do finger foods. We had noodles tonight so it was hard for him to feed himself. i can't wait until my son can feed himself. That should happen before 4?

Yes, he should already be well on his way with this. My 4 y/o sometimes still needs a little help with spaghetti noodles, but doesn't need to be outright fed.

[Anonymous]

You have a parenting issue that you have not taught your child to sit at the table. If he cannot sit, you put him in a high chair or booster with a strap to train him. You are selfish to feed yourself and not put your child first. You don't chase your child with food. You teach them to sit at the table with you and share a meal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you all eat together at the same time?

Op here. We were sitting down eating at the same time but we eat different foods. My husband has a different diet so he cooks separately. Our almost 3 year old can only do finger foods. We had noodles tonight so it was hard for him to feed himself. i can't wait until my son can feed himself. That should happen before 4?

Some kids need help. You help him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you all eat together at the same time?

Op here. We were sitting down eating at the same time but we eat different foods. My husband has a different diet so he cooks separately. Our almost 3 year old can only do finger foods. We had noodles tonight so it was hard for him to feed himself. i can't wait until my son can feed himself. That should happen before 4?

OP, my 18 month old feeds herself. It is not always pretty. Some foods are harder than others. But she practices using utensils every day at breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you all eat together at the same time?

Op here. We were sitting down eating at the same time but we eat different foods. My husband has a different diet so he cooks separately. Our almost 3 year old can only do finger foods. We had noodles tonight so it was hard for him to feed himself. i can't wait until my son can feed himself. That should happen before 4?

Should be before 3. He may not be neat, but he should be able to feed himself.