when do you find time to meet with AP

[Anonymous]

I used to live outside of Tysons near Fannie / Freddy. They all did it in cars. Several times I witnessed or called the cops on suspicious activities in cars.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When do people have time to have an affair? I am knackered just working, shopping, cleaning, cooking etc. Even going to a social engagement during the weekend makes me sad.

You aren't motivated by sex. Men generally are. It's normal.

[Anonymous]

My ap is not local and he's single. He comes to visit me every few months and we meet during the day. We met in DC a few years ago. I think our arrangement is ending soon. I can't believe I thought I was in love with him! The sex is really good but that's it. He can be a PITA.

[Anonymous]

I don’t have an AP, but I have witnessed them at:
County parks at lunchtime
Parking lots, Wegman’s being one
Park & Ride lots
It seems like many affair couples use their cars for “quickees”.

[Anonymous]

Work trips. We work in different cities but same company and need to visit each other's offices time to time. Or take a customer trip together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I used to live outside of Tysons near Fannie / Freddy. They all did it in cars. Several times I witnessed or called the cops on suspicious activities in cars.

Why would you bother? I don't get it. Let them just do it in peace!

[Anonymous]

Okay, so if I am understanding correctly, AP don't often meet up and when they do it is only for sex. Meetings can't be that frequent. So what is the point?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay, so if I am understanding correctly, AP don't often meet up and when they do it is only for sex. Meetings can't be that frequent. So what is the point?

Infrequent sex is better than no sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay, so if I am understanding correctly, AP don't often meet up and when they do it is only for sex. Meetings can't be that frequent. So what is the point?

You're new to this thread and new to life, aren't you...

I'm not an AP or invovled with one but the reasons are plenty:

- Sex, sex, sex (spouses either don't have any at home or aren't attracted to their spouses anymore)
- infatuation
- excitement to an otherwise boring life
- outlet for life's doldrums
- etc

[Anonymous]

Do you remember Hermione's Granger's Time Turner necklace? I have one of those. I find a safe place and time and then next time I'm with my AP we visit that place and then turn back time. Three turns ought to do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay, so if I am understanding correctly, AP don't often meet up and when they do it is only for sex. Meetings can't be that frequent. So what is the point?

You're new to this thread and new to life, aren't you...

I'm not an AP or invovled with one but the reasons are plenty:

- Sex, sex, sex (spouses either don't have any at home or aren't attracted to their spouses anymore)
- infatuation
- excitement to an otherwise boring life
- outlet for life's doldrums
- etc

why not get a divorce then? if you are in an unhappy relationship then move on

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I used to live outside of Tysons near Fannie / Freddy. They all did it in cars. Several times I witnessed or called the cops on suspicious activities in cars.

This could help explain the mortgage meltdown that led to the '08 crash: they were all too busy banging each other so it was easier to just approve every loan application.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm interested in this answer, too. My AP and i have been together for 5 months and only been able to meet twice! But, we are just about sex, no relationship development needed. So far, he has taken two long lunches, and I've met him somewhere then. Our big difficulty is finding a place to meet.

Pick a terrible movie and go to the matinee. Sit in the back row. It's likely no one is there but that gives you a little cover if the usher comes in.

[Anonymous]

Several years ago I stopped to drop off flowers at my mother’s gravesite.
I drove by a couple laying on a blanket in a somewhat out of the way area. There were also 2 cars parked near them, they had obviously driven there separately.
I don’t think they were there to picnic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm interested in this answer, too. My AP and i have been together for 5 months and only been able to meet twice! But, we are just about sex, no relationship development needed. So far, he has taken two long lunches, and I've met him somewhere then. Our big difficulty is finding a place to meet.

Pick a terrible movie and go to the matinee. Sit in the back row. It's likely no one is there but that gives you a little cover if the usher comes in.

For actual intercourse? That seems difficult in a theater.