What do you want to say to your spouse but current circumstances prevent it?

[Anonymous]

Stop with the beer tonight. You are way past being funny. You're just making an ass out of yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would say any of these things to my spouse. I don't understand why PPs don't.

Because he likes to...well, needs to fix things and I don’t want to add anything else to his plate.

[Anonymous]

Why don’t you initiate sometimes?

[Anonymous]

I should never have ignored the million red flags I saw along the way in the early years. I was weak and I stayed because I didn’t understand how much better I deserve and that it would have been worth leaving for. You are difficult as hell and you don’t appreciate me and don’t treat me right and one of these days will be the tipping point. You are the source of almost all of my problems.

But then, I’ve been saying that for years, and here I am. Still on the roller coaster.

[Anonymous]

You are more American than I thought.

[Anonymous]

Get the f**k out!

[Anonymous]

I thought you were a feminist, but you just wanted to get iinto my pants. Once there, you planted seeds. We had kids.

You’ve become increasingly untenable as an equal mate. I thought I chose wisely, tired of the mansplaining from a beta I don’t even intellectually respect. You do get I don’t have to stay partnered to you just bc of the kids, right?

Your tether is wearing thin.

[Anonymous]

Look at me! Try to make me laugh. Touch me more than once a day (that perfunctory peck on the cheek doesn’t count). Unplug from netflix and books on tape so that you are more often vertical than horizontal during your waking hours. Believe that I love you.

[Anonymous]

Thank you for trusting me enough to tell me you enjoy re-op Transgender women porn as a straight man. I won't laugh at your erotic fantasy.

[Anonymous]

That I hate you and I fantasize about you falling in love with someone else so that you will leave me and our child and never look back. Having our baby was the best thing that ever happened to me but the worst thing for our relationship. If you stomp and literally cry one more time because our toddler doesn't want to just sit next to you while you watch TV after your" long" day I'm going to lose it. Get off your @ss and play with her. She's not there to make you feel better. You're an adult and You make me sick. And stop comparing my taking taking care of our child 22 hours out of the day while working from home full time as the same as your day of seeing her for an hour before bed. It's not the same.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I should never have ignored the million red flags I saw along the way in the early years. I was weak and I stayed because I didn’t understand how much better I deserve and that it would have been worth leaving for. You are difficult as hell and you don’t appreciate me and don’t treat me right and one of these days will be the tipping point. You are the source of almost all of my problems.

But then, I’ve been saying that for years, and here I am. Still on the roller coaster.

Why did you stay and why do you continue to stay?

[Anonymous]

If you let me open the relationship, I promise I won't fall in love and will be such a better spouse. I love you, the lack of sex is suffocating us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you let me open the relationship, I promise I won't fall in love and will be such a better spouse. I love you, the lack of sex is suffocating us.

Not judging you, but how can you promise you won’t fall in love? Do you plan on just ONS? Do you also promise to not bring home diseases? Or to not accidentally attract crazy stalkers or jealous spouses?

DH and I aren’t suffering from a lack of sex, but if we did, falling in love with someone else would be the least deterrent to opening the marriage. My cousin experienced all three things I noted. Her health is damaged, her children were traumatized by her DH’s obsessive lover, and there are bullet holes in their family car from the lover’s DH aiming from him. I’m sure some man will chime in that my cousin could have avoided all this by simply servicing her DH on demand. Never surprises me when the well-being of women and children takes back seat to men’s pleasure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I really want another baby and actually secretly hope for twins because I would love to have four kids.

Don’t worry, I know it’s not going to happen, but please stop asking when I’m going to get rid of the baby stuff, okay? I’m still sad about it.

So ditch the birth control and have an "oops guess what honey!"

I'm a DW, but if tables were turned and my spouse did this to me I would never forgive them.

[Anonymous]

F$ck off

(I'm trying to complete a divorce - it's taking YEARS.)