NP. I didn’t realize this was standard. That makes me feel better —although it does mean that I’m away longer than I need to be for an hour medical appointment. |
| Find another job asap. The boss sounds like a nightmare. Or he really just wants to push this person out. If she is a woman and treated differently from other employees without kids or who are male, she might want to see about a lawsuit. |
| You have put up with this bs for SEVEN years?! I would’ve noped out of there after his first temper tantrum about leaving early. Get out! |
| GET A DIFFERENT JOB AT A LARGER COMPANY OR THE GOVT WHERE YOU CAN REGULARLY TELEWORK. |
Not a woman, but this behavior by the boss pushes the female partner in the relationship to be responsible for more of the childcare when they would otherwise have a 50/50 split. Because of this, the female partner is being passed over in her job, as well. |
| If you are legitimately an exempt employee and not misclassified, this is annoying but not illegal. |
I have a feeling the worker is actually non-exempt, so I would understand if PTO were required, but then I think they should get overtime for the extra hours put in over 40. They routinely work through 30 minutes of lunch, and work after getting home most nights. |
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Is this you or someone else?
If it's you, this clearly isn't working for you, so it's time to start looking for another job If it's someone else, I'd stay out it. You never know the details of someone's pay, etc. |
It seems it is her husband and she is annoyed at the difficulty husband will have covering for her impending work travel. Why do people word posts like this though? Why not use words like I, my husband, my husband's boss. When you talk about some unnamed employee, people want to say MYOB. |
OP here: because I was trying to remove emotion from the post to avoid sounding whiney if I was talking about my job if I’m the employee, or my hushand’s job if I am the wife. It did come off as oddly phrased. But my question was answered about being forced to use PTO. I believe the employee in this situation is actually non-exempt but it would be unwise to push the issue... until the employee has a new job and can contact the local DOL to whistleblow about this and so much more. |
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I work for a massive multinational corp and several years ago, they went through a huge reclassification process moving people from exempt to non-exempt/hourly because they were found to be misclassifying people across the board. This is not at all uncommon, misclassifying people as exempt when they don't meet the standards for exempt is probably one of the most common violations out there for labor law. However, as you've stated OP, pushing the issue is a very risky move.
What I would do, if I were the employee, is look for a new job as hard as I can and in the meantime, be a clock watcher as much as the boss is. You want me to never leave a second before 6? Fine but I'm also never leaving a second after 6. Oh there's more work to be done in the evening? Suck my butt, I'm out. |
Only 2 Weeks off!!! How do you go back to India every year on only 2 Weeks a year ? |
In my experience that's because, as an exempt employee if you need to leave an hour early, at some point the company "gets that hour back" because you're not working strictly 40 hours a week. Where I have worked its assumed that exempt associates are working until the work is done and if that is less than 45-55 hours they don't have enough work. But they don't micromanage every time you need to leave for a dental appointment, pediatrician visit or early soccer game, you just get the work done. |
Oh jeez. The worker obsessed with Indians taking American jobs. F$ck off, seriously. Not that it matters, but we are both white US citizens. |
Only 2 weeks off after 7 years is awful |