Is your spouse the hottest or most attractive person you’ve dated?

[Anonymous]

Husband's in the top 2! But when I was in my mid 20s, I briefly dated this much older (40 year old) guy I met at the gym. He was absolutely gorgeous in every way physically - amazing body, great face. But we didn't have a thing in common and he had some ED issues. Things just naturally faded out after a few months, and I met my husband shortly after and never looked back.

[Anonymous]

No. But he was the best man I ever dated! He is smart, true, and honest and an awesome father and husband. That in itself makes him super hot to me. I have dated physically good looking men who lost their hotness in my eyes due to selfishness or some other factor. When I get to know someone, I see the inside of a person rather than the outside. It’s not only with men, it’s with women as well. I have known beautiful women who I stopped seeing as beautiful once I got to know them, and I have seen average looking men and women who I think are absolutely beautiful as I have gotten to know them.

[Anonymous]

Nope. But he’s the only one who could make me cry when I thought of him leaving.

[Anonymous]

Not by a long shot but still found him attractive (and still do after 20+ years) and sex with him is the best I've ever had! I'll take 'less' attractive and more compatible any day.

[Anonymous]

Dated? Yes. Sex? No.

[Anonymous]

DW is the hottest yes. Also the sex is really good, when she opens up a bit it is great. We have been married now for 18 years so I can't remember if sex with women before was better or not

[Anonymous]

No, but dh is definitely in the top 5.

[Anonymous]

She's up there. She's by far the best in bed.

[Anonymous]

I had a baby with a male model so DH is not the most physically good looking, but he’s the hottest and most attractive because of his personality.

[Anonymous]

No, DW isnt hottest but she is attractive. She is also good but not the best in bed and man do I miss a couple of my wild exes

[Anonymous]

He’s not the hottest or the best in bed but I married him for his other great qualities. Those other men were fun but not good for marriage.

[Anonymous]

He wasn't the hottest looking but he was darn good looking. But he had overcome a physical disability to such an extent that I was really turned on by his amazing inner strength and his looks. He was a friend for a couple of years before we ever dated and it finally dawned on me that he was really hot. 30+ years later he's been incredibly successful and he's been a wonderful dad and very hot husband. So, as a total package - yes he's the hottest.

[Anonymous]

No, she's not the hottest or the most attractive but she is so off the charts the best I could have ever hoped for that I don't care. We've been married a very long time and I'm blessed.

[Anonymous]

He’s actually is the most attractive. Most of my ex’s were usually overweight and not attractive at all.

[Anonymous]

I think my SO is very hot, but I think his kind heart and humility add to his attractiveness.