If you net $12k per month, please post your budget

Anonymous
4k PITI
1k Pre-school for one child
1k car payment, gas, and utility bills incl phones, cable, internet
1k weekly cleaning person and 3x per week after school help
Anonymous
OP here; thanks to all who shared. Here is ours:

4,000 - Mortgage/utilities/phones
1200 (groceries & dining out)
2,000 - Pre-K, before/after school, 529s
1000- Auto loan, gas, insurance
400 - Home costs (cleaning, landscaping, etc)
250 - Personal Care (hair cuts, dry cleaning)
1000 - Misc Shopping (clothes, shoes, kids activities, weekend events, amazon, etc)

So little left for savings, vacations, Xmas presents, home repairs, etc. I thought it was just me, but I see several of you in the same boat. I decided to cut blue apron, not much else to cut.
Anonymous
We net 12k after retirement savings, HSA, insurance, etc.

3,300- mortgage
3,000- daycare
1,000ish- routine bills (cable, phone, gym membership, the works)
1,500- groceries and takeout
300- house cleaners every 2 weeks
500- savings

Clothes, date nights, home maintenance, etc. is covered with the rest.

College savings is from miscellaneous bonuses and gifts from the grandparents.

No cc, auto loan, or other debt except $1,500 in student loan payment (minimum is $500, but we’ve been aggressive at paying it down and will be done in a few months). Our second kid just started daycare so our daycare bill hasn’t been as high until now, which is how we threw so much at the student loan).

We’re both expecting to 10k or so raises in the next year or two, which will also help boost our liquid savings.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We're around there. We net about $13k after taxes, insurance, and 401k

Last year we averaged this budget:
-- $6k taxes
-- $2700 PITI
-- $3k 401k savings (plus match)
-- $2k brokerage savings
-- $1600 daycare (1 toddler)
-- $1200 entertainment and miscellaneous
-- $1200 utilities, home maintenance, cable, phone
-- $1100 travel
-- $900 restaurants
-- $800 groceries
-- $500 student loans
-- $500 529 savings
-- $500 clothing and merchandise
-- $500 insurance and medical!




We pay $2700 per month in healthcare insurance (self-employed) I don't how on earth do you get away with paying so little!!!


As someone else mentioned, I think you probably pay more because you're self-employed. But, honestly, I have no idea what is "normal." We pay about $250/mo. on medical insurance for a family of 3 -- it is a CareFirst BlueChoice plan through my wife's employer. The other $250/mo. includes other insurance (dental, vision, and life) as well as our co-pays etc. averaged out through the year.

I'm self employed -- family of 4, HMO Carefirst, high deductible plan is $1550/mo.

To the self employed person, make sure you pay through your company so you can deduct the premiums.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:We net 12k after retirement savings, HSA, insurance, etc.

3,300- mortgage
3,000- daycare
1,000ish- routine bills (cable, phone, gym membership, the works)
1,500- groceries and takeout
300- house cleaners every 2 weeks
500- savings

Clothes, date nights, home maintenance, etc. is covered with the rest.

College savings is from miscellaneous bonuses and gifts from the grandparents.

No cc, auto loan, or other debt except $1,500 in student loan payment (minimum is $500, but we’ve been aggressive at paying it down and will be done in a few months). Our second kid just started daycare so our daycare bill hasn’t been as high until now, which is how we threw so much at the student loan).

We’re both expecting to 10k or so raises in the next year or two, which will also help boost our liquid savings.


Op here. Don’t you find it depressing that you can’t save more?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here; thanks to all who shared. Here is ours:

4,000 - Mortgage/utilities/phones
1200 (groceries & dining out)
2,000 - Pre-K, before/after school, 529s
1000- Auto loan, gas, insurance
400 - Home costs (cleaning, landscaping, etc)
250 - Personal Care (hair cuts, dry cleaning)
1000 - Misc Shopping (clothes, shoes, kids activities, weekend events, amazon, etc)

So little left for savings, vacations, Xmas presents, home repairs, etc. I thought it was just me, but I see several of you in the same boat. I decided to cut blue apron, not much else to cut.


Um, plenty to cut beyond Blue Apron...you just don't want to.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We net 12k after retirement savings, HSA, insurance, etc.

3,300- mortgage
3,000- daycare
1,000ish- routine bills (cable, phone, gym membership, the works)
1,500- groceries and takeout
300- house cleaners every 2 weeks
500- savings

Clothes, date nights, home maintenance, etc. is covered with the rest.

College savings is from miscellaneous bonuses and gifts from the grandparents.

No cc, auto loan, or other debt except $1,500 in student loan payment (minimum is $500, but we’ve been aggressive at paying it down and will be done in a few months). Our second kid just started daycare so our daycare bill hasn’t been as high until now, which is how we threw so much at the student loan).

We’re both expecting to 10k or so raises in the next year or two, which will also help boost our liquid savings.


Op here. Don’t you find it depressing that you can’t save more?

DP, I'm assuming that ^PP is saving the max for retirement (and maybe even CIP?). Wouldn't that be part of savings?
Anonymous
We net ~$11,000 per month after taxes, insurance, parking, 401ks, and health savings account.

$3600 PITI
$500 phones & utilities
$1300 groceries, drinks, restaurants, coffee etc
$2300 childcare (this includes FT care for 1 & aftercare as well as camp for 1 divided by 12)
$400 two cars (gas & insurance)
$300 2x/mo cleaning and household repairs
$500 shopping (like amazon, clothes) and gifts
$300 personal care like haircuts/gym membership
$200 entertainment and kids activities
$100 life insurance
$500 extra

the rest usually goes to 529s or travel

Anonymous
We net 13.5k after dental, vision, health, life, and taxes

Approximate:

$4,000 for PITI, gas line and electric
$700 car payment and insurance (almost paid off, super low interest)
$200 gasoline for me - husband's car is paid off and gas is comped by work
$450 Phones, fios, Netflix, Amazon prime, one sirius xm account
$1000 1 child's private school tuition
$1200 student loan payment minimum, which I'm about to increase

We had a lower HHI before and I cut everything to the bone. When I say to the bone, I mean no eating out, shopping at cheaper places for groceries, no hiring help. I dislike paying someone to do what I can do myself anyway. This includes yard work, childcare, cleaning, cooking and minor home improvement projects. Now that our HHI is higher, we have a ton of money to throw at the loans/savings/investments.
Anonymous
i think you could pretty easily come up with $500/month to save, OP. Cut $100 from each of groceries, eating out, misc. home costs, personal care and shopping. Throw the money into a "short term savings" fund for those extra home repairs, travel costs, etc. Also, no more car loans.

My take home is around $13K, after maxing 401k and health insurance costs. Budget:

$3800 PITI
$3000 savings (split between a brokerage account and paying down mortgage early)
$500 utilities and cellphones
$500 dog walker and cleaning lady
$200 transportation (metro, gas & insurance for car)
$700 groceries/dining

Remainder mostly covers misc. expenses that go on the credit card, including kid's sports and camps (about $8K/year), clothes and other shopping, and travel. Putting about $10K/year in the 529 out of tax return and bonus monies.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here; thanks to all who shared. Here is ours:

4,000 - Mortgage/utilities/phones
1200 (groceries & dining out)
2,000 - Pre-K, before/after school, 529s
1000- Auto loan, gas, insurance
400 - Home costs (cleaning, landscaping, etc)
250 - Personal Care (hair cuts, dry cleaning)
1000 - Misc Shopping (clothes, shoes, kids activities, weekend events, amazon, etc)

So little left for savings, vacations, Xmas presents, home repairs, etc. I thought it was just me, but I see several of you in the same boat. I decided to cut blue apron, not much else to cut.


Um, plenty to cut beyond Blue Apron...you just don't want to.[/q

I’m interested. What do you see, thx! And please don’t tell me to sell my car. We are making our 401k contributions, but am looking for more savings.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here; thanks to all who shared. Here is ours:

4,000 - Mortgage/utilities/phones
1200 (groceries & dining out)
2,000 - Pre-K, before/after school, 529s
1000- Auto loan, gas, insurance
400 - Home costs (cleaning, landscaping, etc)
250 - Personal Care (hair cuts, dry cleaning)
1000 - Misc Shopping (clothes, shoes, kids activities, weekend events, amazon, etc)

So little left for savings, vacations, Xmas presents, home repairs, etc. I thought it was just me, but I see several of you in the same boat. I decided to cut blue apron, not much else to cut.


Um, plenty to cut beyond Blue Apron...you just don't want to.[/q

I’m interested. What do you see, thx! And please don’t tell me to sell my car. We are making our 401k contributions, but am looking for more savings.


DP here and spending $250 per month on hair cuts and dry cleaning is really high.
Also $1000 a month on shopping? I can't imagine spending that much on shopping per month that doesn't include groceries/dining out.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:i think you could pretty easily come up with $500/month to save, OP. Cut $100 from each of groceries, eating out, misc. home costs, personal care and shopping. Throw the money into a "short term savings" fund for those extra home repairs, travel costs, etc. Also, no more car loans.

My take home is around $13K, after maxing 401k and health insurance costs. Budget:

$3800 PITI
$3000 savings (split between a brokerage account and paying down mortgage early)
$500 utilities and cellphones
$500 dog walker and cleaning lady
$200 transportation (metro, gas & insurance for car)
$700 groceries/dining

Remainder mostly covers misc. expenses that go on the credit card, including kid's sports and camps (about $8K/year), clothes and other shopping, and travel. Putting about $10K/year in the 529 out of tax return and bonus monies.


Thx, helpful. We paid for most of the car cash. We took a three year loan to cover the rest. My dh kept his last cheap car for 11 years. My car is 9 years old.
Anonymous
OP, with the budget you show (which is around $10k/month) you should have an extra $2k per month. Your budget says that you are saving for 529s and in 401ks. What more are you looking for? Your car costs are high and your misc shopping costs are high - you could lower both of those line items if you wanted to.

I think your spending looks pretty normal, if not frugal. Blue Apron and landscaping and a high car payment are luxury expenses - if you're not willing to make cuts there, no one here is going to be able to give you advice that will help you save more.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here; thanks to all who shared. Here is ours:

4,000 - Mortgage/utilities/phones
1200 (groceries & dining out)
2,000 - Pre-K, before/after school, 529s
1000- Auto loan, gas, insurance
400 - Home costs (cleaning, landscaping, etc)
250 - Personal Care (hair cuts, dry cleaning)
1000 - Misc Shopping (clothes, shoes, kids activities, weekend events, amazon, etc)

So little left for savings, vacations, Xmas presents, home repairs, etc. I thought it was just me, but I see several of you in the same boat. I decided to cut blue apron, not much else to cut.


Um, plenty to cut beyond Blue Apron...you just don't want to.


I’m interested. What do you see, thx! And please don’t tell me to sell my car. We are making our 401k contributions, but am looking for more savings.


Misc shopping, personal care, home costs. Your groceries bill is reasonable but I'm sure you could trim more off if you tried.

To find extra cash, you need to tighten the belt and it might be uncomfortable for a while, but that's the cost of doing business. Clean your own house. Cut your own grass. Buy less stuff - I promise you don't need to buy $1000 worth of stuff every month. Examine your kids' activities and ask if it's really worth the money. And I know you don't want to hear sell your car, but since you want to save more, try to consider that the vast majority of Americans blow an insane amount of money on cars and it is all money down the drain since cars depreciate so quickly.
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