A good man for all you whining that you can't find a "provider"

[Anonymous]

I think there a lot of women who would totally be open to this arrangement. He may have to order them online but shouldnt be too difficult.

[Anonymous]

I love the part about how he's fat now but that'll change soon. HAHAHAHAHA.

[Anonymous]

He sounds disgusting. BTW, note that he says he'll never hit you in anger. So he WILL hit if he thinks it will give you discipline?

Also, he says the wife can't cheat but he can as long as he brings no std's home. WTF.

[Anonymous]

Agree that's this is the arrangements that women who are seeking "providers" will get, whether they realize it or not.

[Anonymous]

Oh pulease. Half the women on this board would jump at this if they met the criteria. Many regret they don't have that life now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Agree that's this is the arrangements that women who are seeking "providers" will get, whether they realize it or not.

Lol not me. My provider actually loves me and defers to me for household and financial decisions. Really great husband.

[Anonymous]

Shame on his mother for raising him with the gall and nerve to put this out there.

[Anonymous]

Hey, at least he is honest and does not pretend to be something he is not (only to find out too late).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Buddy you're going to be single for a long time if you are fishing for a woman in the US, try eastern Europe or Asia or get a Flux Capacitor and time travel back about 100 years.

Most of the women from those countries will just poison his coffee a little each day

+1 American women are not going to put up with him screwing around, shutting their mouths and being content with an allowance based upon his whim. Foreigners (sorry to offend but I actually KNOW both an East European AND two Asian women who are in these types of relationships) may put up with this crap for AWHILE, while they import their families & get green cards Or go back to their homes, with US dollars. (A college textbook in India is less than$1)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Buddy you're going to be single for a long time if you are fishing for a woman in the US, try eastern Europe or Asia or get a Flux Capacitor and time travel back about 100 years.

Most of the women from those countries will just poison his coffee a little each day

+1 American women are not going to put up with him screwing around, shutting their mouths and being content with an allowance based upon his whim. Foreigners (sorry to offend but I actually KNOW both an East European AND two Asian women who are in these types of relationships) may put up with this crap for AWHILE, while they import their families & get green cards Or go back to their homes, with US dollars. (A college textbook in India is less than$1)

Yep. Saving their “allowance” to go back to a country where that money has serious buying power. Guys who set these situations up are insane.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Agree that's this is the arrangements that women who are seeking "providers" will get, whether they realize it or not.

Lol not me. My provider actually loves me and defers to me for household and financial decisions. Really great husband.

+1 This is the dream, and some do attain it.

The way I look at it is that a truly successful husband has the ability to control a lot of his outside environment and to be fulfilled in that way. So he can come home and let his wife have her way on things in the domestic sphere without it being a big deal.

[Anonymous]

While I appreciate this person identified his needs - a fit partner, who is competent running the house, a mother to his children, respect for his direction, and sex.

The only need he’s offering in return is lack of violence and being provided for. I’d say my top needs are companionship, conversation, honesty and trustworthy-ness, and feeling special, and affection. His tacit admission he’s going out for sex on the side takes feeling special away, he makes it sound like this person is to be seen, not heard, so there goes conversation, and there doesn’t seem to be much interest in comraderie.

Is say it’s a bad exchange.

[Anonymous]

"If I tell you to do something, you do it"




Hey buddy, how about you go f**k yourself?

Unreal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love the part about how he's fat now but that'll change soon. HAHAHAHAHA.

But he promises to not beat you, so there's that . . .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Hey, at least he is honest and does not pretend to be something he is not (only to find out too late).

Is he honest, though? We only have his word that he’ll buy the $20,000 bracelet if she’s “good.” And that his current excess weight is just a temporary aberration. If I were looking into this arrangement (which I’m most definitely not), I’d want to see a couple of years of tax returns and talk to his accountant about the loans on his house, sportscar, business debt, and so on. Not that this guy seems like he’d open up his accounts for a piece of arm candy.