Overreacting?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your women’s intuition is rarely, if ever wrong.

I think she has a thing for your husband.
And she may primarily be socializing w/you just to find out more about him.

I smell a rat.

If you 100% trust your husband, then you have nothing to worry about here.

But if you do not, then watch this woman like a hawk.

It will be just a matter of time before she propositions your spouse.
This woman could care less about you.

I’m mad right now!

I brought it up with him and he seemed happy about it. He pretty much said, “you think so??” Then it turned into me explaining why I think she’s trouble , I told him about all her ex boyfriends she was telling me about and he started asking why she isn’t with her ex anymore! Wow.

The good news: your DH is too naive to hide an affair from you. You're probably safe.

The bad news: the dude is starved for validation. Sex that boy up, pronto!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your women’s intuition is rarely, if ever wrong.

I think she has a thing for your husband.
And she may primarily be socializing w/you just to find out more about him.

I smell a rat.

If you 100% trust your husband, then you have nothing to worry about here.

But if you do not, then watch this woman like a hawk.

It will be just a matter of time before she propositions your spouse.
This woman could care less about you.

I’m mad right now!

I brought it up with him and he seemed happy about it. He pretty much said, “you think so??” Then it turned into me explaining why I think she’s trouble , I told him about all her ex boyfriends she was telling me about and he started asking why she isn’t with her ex anymore! Wow.

I'd stay away from her. She sounds like trouble. A grown woman (with a school aged child) who has multiple ex boyfriends and an ex (husband)? Too exhausting and bad at decision making.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m mad right now!

I brought it up with him and he seemed happy about it. He pretty much said, “you think so??” Then it turned into me explaining why I think she’s trouble , I told him about all her ex boyfriends she was telling me about and he started asking why she isn’t with her ex anymore! Wow.

Why were you telling her business about her ex to your DH? It’s starting to sound like you thrive on drama. All you needed to say is “she spends more time asking about you than trying to be a friend to me and I ain’t got time for that”. If he inquired more ask him if his friends when he goes to a guys night out are inquiring about why you aren’t along. If he wanted to go down that road more and said his friends had been asking about you, make a joke if he thinks that’s the gateway to swinging and some tv show you saw. You can make the case that a direct action towards you makes her not a good friend - that’s not debatable or forbidden fruit intriguing. That also closes the door to her using you to promote a friendship with your DH, gives him a heads up, without telling him what to do in regards to his interactions with her.

[Anonymous]

I think you are right to be pretty cautious. I think it is important to have boundaries in your marriage. I have had a few times over the course of our nine year marriage, that my husband truly didn't realize another female was giving him "special attention." Have you all considered sitting down and developing some boundaries in your relationship, to possibly prevent things from shifting later?

Are you open to book/podcast suggestions?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your women’s intuition is rarely, if ever wrong.

I think she has a thing for your husband.
And she may primarily be socializing w/you just to find out more about him.

I smell a rat.

If you 100% trust your husband, then you have nothing to worry about here.

But if you do not, then watch this woman like a hawk.

It will be just a matter of time before she propositions your spouse.
This woman could care less about you.

I’m mad right now!

I brought it up with him and he seemed happy about it. He pretty much said, “you think so??” Then it turned into me explaining why I think she’s trouble , I told him about all her ex boyfriends she was telling me about and he started asking why she isn’t with her ex anymore! Wow.

you just don't get it. your DH isn't clueless, though you seem to be. He knows she is flirting with him and he probably is enjoying the attention.

when was the last time you f*cked your DH? when is the last time you had crazy, hot monkey sex with DH? think about the frequency and quality of your sex life - now think about it from his point of view. do you do the things he likes? sex him well and often and he would not give this woman a second thought. continue down the road you're own and you may very find her lips around his c*ck one afternoon or him balls deep inside her.

you choice.