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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]

I’m mad right now!

I brought it up with him and he seemed happy about it. He pretty much said, “you think so??” Then it turned into me explaining why I think she’s trouble , I told him about all her ex boyfriends she was telling me about and he started asking why she isn’t with her ex anymore! Wow.[/quote]

Why were you telling her business about her ex to your DH? It’s starting to sound like you thrive on drama.  All you needed to say is “she spends more time asking about you than trying to be a friend to me and I ain’t got time for that”.  If he inquired more ask him if his friends when he goes to a guys night out are inquiring about why you aren’t along.  If he wanted to go down that road more and said his friends had been asking about you, make a joke if he thinks that’s the gateway to swinging and some tv show you saw.   You can make the case that a direct action towards you makes her not a good friend - that’s not debatable or forbidden fruit intriguing.  That also closes the door to her using you to promote a friendship with your DH, gives him a heads up, without telling him what to do in regards to his interactions with her.
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