What if you picked wrong in your 20s?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why anyone would ever trust themself to pick their LIFE PARTNER in their 20's is beyond me. You have the rest of your life to be married so I have no sympathy for those who rush it and end up making a huge mistake.

I think it's a pretty big jump to go from wondering about making a hard life decision to labeling all people who meet their eventual spouse or marry in their 20s as impulsive or foolish (which seems to be your implication). That's quite normal, lucky even.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What if you picked the wrong guy to marry in your 20s? What if you wake up alone and single in your 30s? Are all the men really leftover losers?

What if you picked the wrong woman to marry in your 20's? What if you wake up alone etc. etc. If you think you are a "right" person, the odds are fair that you will find a "right" guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What if you picked the wrong guy to marry in your 20s? What if you wake up alone and single in your 30s? Are all the men really leftover losers?

Of course not. With that attitude, you’re sure to attract a gem!

[Anonymous]

I'm newly single in my early thirties - with two kids, no less. I'm not tripping. I expect to remarry, but if I don't, so what? Being single isn't a death sentence.

[Anonymous]

Picked the wrong guy in my 20s bc I was chasing the dream of husband, house, kids. Now I have all of it and more at 31, and I'm over it. My husband isn't a dick, he's super sweet and a real family man, just no drive and really annoying

[Anonymous]

Has it occurred to you that women in their 30's may be leftover losers? Funny how women seem to think their poop doesn't stink.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why anyone would ever trust themself to pick their LIFE PARTNER in their 20's is beyond me. You have the rest of your life to be married so I have no sympathy for those who rush it and end up making a huge mistake.

I picked mine at 15. Married him at 21. We just celebrated 30 years of marriage. I know many, many people just like us.

Do you live in Tennessee or Oklahoma?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why anyone would ever trust themself to pick their LIFE PARTNER in their 20's is beyond me. You have the rest of your life to be married so I have no sympathy for those who rush it and end up making a huge mistake.

I picked mine at 15. Married him at 21. We just celebrated 30 years of marriage. I know many, many people just like us.

Do you live in Tennessee or Oklahoma?

I've lived all over the world. I went to high school in NoVA. My DH and I went to UGA. Most of my adult life has been in DC and NoVA. Nice try with the nasty stereotypes. Want to know how I can tell you are miserable and unhappy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why anyone would ever trust themself to pick their LIFE PARTNER in their 20's is beyond me. You have the rest of your life to be married so I have no sympathy for those who rush it and end up making a huge mistake.

Because some people are smarter and more mature in their 20s then others? I picked my husband in my 20s, had all my kids before 30, and we are going to celebrate our 20th anniversary next year. I don't want to be married to anyone else as I love my DH more and more every year. It is nice to have children in college/heading to college and be in my early 40s.

P.S. I've never been in Oklahoma

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why anyone would ever trust themself to pick their LIFE PARTNER in their 20's is beyond me. You have the rest of your life to be married so I have no sympathy for those who rush it and end up making a huge mistake.

I picked mine at 15. Married him at 21. We just celebrated 30 years of marriage. I know many, many people just like us.

Do you live in Tennessee or Oklahoma?

I've lived all over the world. I went to high school in NoVA. My DH and I went to UGA. Most of my adult life has been in DC and NoVA. Nice try with the nasty stereotypes. Want to know how I can tell you are miserable and unhappy?

So, a pretty traditional southern relationship.

[Anonymous]

90% of the women in here are why we fvck our secretrays/accountants/kids teachers/nannys. You turn into old, bitter, whiny, nags.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:90% of the women in here are why we fvck our secretrays/accountants/kids teachers/nannys. You turn into old, bitter, whiny, nags.

not me!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why anyone would ever trust themself to pick their LIFE PARTNER in their 20's is beyond me. You have the rest of your life to be married so I have no sympathy for those who rush it and end up making a huge mistake.

Because some people are smarter and more mature in their 20s then others? I picked my husband in my 20s, had all my kids before 30, and we are going to celebrate our 20th anniversary next year. I don't want to be married to anyone else as I love my DH more and more every year. It is nice to have children in college/heading to college and be in my early 40s.

P.S. I've never been in Oklahoma

It’s “than”. Guess you’re not that smart.

[Anonymous]

I believe you can pick wrong at any age, because it's a crapshoot, even after weeding out the obvious no-nos.

So if you find someone who seems nice in your twenties, PLEASE don't hold back!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why anyone would ever trust themself to pick their LIFE PARTNER in their 20's is beyond me. You have the rest of your life to be married so I have no sympathy for those who rush it and end up making a huge mistake.

Because some people are smarter and more mature in their 20s then others? I picked my husband in my 20s, had all my kids before 30, and we are going to celebrate our 20th anniversary next year. I don't want to be married to anyone else as I love my DH more and more every year. It is nice to have children in college/heading to college and be in my early 40s.

P.S. I've never been in Oklahoma

It’s “than”. Guess you’re not that smart.

NP. WOW. You are SEETHING with jealousy.