Holidays with “perfect Mom” SIL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your brother's wife is DH's twin sister? Huh? Or is this two SILs?

In any case, time to own who you are.

OP's brother has a sister who is married to a woman - the SIL in question. That's how I read this dumpster fire of an OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your brother's wife is DH's twin sister? Huh? Or is this two SILs?

In any case, time to own who you are.

OP's DH's twin sister is married to a woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your brother's wife is DH's twin sister? Huh? Or is this two SILs?

In any case, time to own who you are.

OP's DH's twin sister is married to a woman.

then who is the brother's sister?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are spending both Thanksgiving and Christmas with my husbands family which means I get a solid month of me feeling inferior to my SIL. DH twin sister is a surgeon and married to what my family considers the “perfect Mom”. We both had our oldest within the same months, both boys now 3-years-old. I also have a 10 month old and she and my brothers sister have 18-month-old twins. We both stay at home. She loves it and flourishes, I struggle and miss work. She was a former nanny so it comes easier to her and her income wouldn’t be worth it for her to keep working. I was laid off before my oldest turned 1 and decided to stay home. I have a MBA and was making 6 figures, we totally had to change our lifestyle. My children act up, hers are always perfect. My MIL will be sure to comment on how I handle situations wrong. I am jealous, and do not look forward to being compared when I should be enjoying the holidays. I know most of the issues stem from my own issues, I’ll admkt it. It’s like we’ve done a 180. 5 years ago DH and I were doing great financially and traveling all over the world. We had a nice apartment and wonderful careers. DHs sister and my SIL were living in a tiny one bedroom barely squeaking by on a nanny salary while DHs sister finished her residency. Now she’s living she wanted, and I am trying to but just can’t make it look as well. Im pretty sure MIL favors their children as well. Which I find ironic considering she was upset they were even going to have children anyways.

OP's DH has a twin sister who is married to the perfect mom.
OP has a 10 mo who is married to OP's brother's sister and has 18 mo twins.

At least that's what the words say. Not sure what OP actually means.

[Anonymous]

Brother's twin is the sister in law.

The other person is sister in laws wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your brother's wife is DH's twin sister? Huh? Or is this two SILs?

In any case, time to own who you are.

OP's DH's twin sister is married to a woman.

then who is the brother's sister?

OP is married to Larlo. He has a twin sister named Larla. Larla is a surgeon and a lesbian. She married a woman named Midge. Midge used to be a nanny, but is now an awesome stay at home mom. OP is jealous of Midge. OP and Midge share the same mother in law. MIL praises Midge for her awesome parenting while OP sulks in jealousy.

[Anonymous]

Real Housewives of ..... ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your brother's wife is DH's twin sister? Huh? Or is this two SILs?

In any case, time to own who you are.

OP's DH's twin sister is married to a woman.

then who is the brother's sister?

OP is a woman.
OP's Husband is a man.
OP's Husband's twin sister is a lesbian woman. So, OP's SIL is a lesbian.

Now, the lesbian Sister-in-Law is married to a lesbian woman who used to be a nanny.

Thus the lesbian nanny married to the lesbian sister-in-law is also the sister-in-law of the OP. Or in other words, the spouse of her lesbian SIL is another lesbian woman and so she is also the SIL of OP.

Now, OP, who has an MBA and is now a SAHM is feeling upstaged by the lesbian spouse of her lesbian SIL because the lesbian spouse used to be a nanny and as an extension she is the perfect mom.

OP, DUDE! Your insecurities are amazing. I was expecting the lesbian nanny SIL grouching here about homophobia and being judged for being a mere nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your brother's wife is DH's twin sister? Huh? Or is this two SILs?

In any case, time to own who you are.

OP's DH's twin sister is married to a woman.

then who is the brother's sister?

OP is a woman.
OP's Husband is a man.
OP's Husband's twin sister is a lesbian woman. So, OP's SIL is a lesbian.

Now, the lesbian Sister-in-Law is married to a lesbian woman who used to be a nanny.

Thus the lesbian nanny married to the lesbian sister-in-law is also the sister-in-law of the OP. Or in other words, the spouse of her lesbian SIL is another lesbian woman and so she is also the SIL of OP.

Now, OP, who has an MBA and is now a SAHM is feeling upstaged by the lesbian spouse of her lesbian SIL because the lesbian spouse used to be a nanny and as an extension she is the perfect mom.

OP, DUDE! Your insecurities are amazing. I was expecting the lesbian nanny SIL grouching here about homophobia and being judged for being a mere nanny.

21:15 here. Sorry, but my recap is better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your brother's wife is DH's twin sister? Huh? Or is this two SILs?

In any case, time to own who you are.

OP's DH's twin sister is married to a woman.

then who is the brother's sister?

OP is a woman.
OP's Husband is a man.
OP's Husband's twin sister is a lesbian woman. So, OP's SIL is a lesbian.

Now, the lesbian Sister-in-Law is married to a lesbian woman who used to be a nanny.

Thus the lesbian nanny married to the lesbian sister-in-law is also the sister-in-law of the OP. Or in other words, the spouse of her lesbian SIL is another lesbian woman and so she is also the SIL of OP.

Now, OP, who has an MBA and is now a SAHM is feeling upstaged by the lesbian spouse of her lesbian SIL because the lesbian spouse used to be a nanny and as an extension she is the perfect mom.

OP, DUDE! Your insecurities are amazing. I was expecting the lesbian nanny SIL grouching here about homophobia and being judged for being a mere nanny.

21:15 here. Sorry, but my recap is better.

I'm not sure if either of you is right.

OP talks about DH's twin sister & partner (both presumably SILs), but also "my brother's sister." Who is that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your brother's wife is DH's twin sister? Huh? Or is this two SILs?

In any case, time to own who you are.

OP's DH's twin sister is married to a woman.

then who is the brother's sister?

OP is a woman.
OP's Husband is a man.
OP's Husband's twin sister is a lesbian woman. So, OP's SIL is a lesbian.

Now, the lesbian Sister-in-Law is married to a lesbian woman who used to be a nanny.

Thus the lesbian nanny married to the lesbian sister-in-law is also the sister-in-law of the OP. Or in other words, the spouse of her lesbian SIL is another lesbian woman and so she is also the SIL of OP.

Now, OP, who has an MBA and is now a SAHM is feeling upstaged by the lesbian spouse of her lesbian SIL because the lesbian spouse used to be a nanny and as an extension she is the perfect mom.

OP, DUDE! Your insecurities are amazing. I was expecting the lesbian nanny SIL grouching here about homophobia and being judged for being a mere nanny.

21:15 here. Sorry, but my recap is better.

I'm not sure if either of you is right.

OP talks about DH's twin sister & partner (both presumably SILs), but also "my brother's sister." Who is that?

Ummm... this is hilarious. As in, this situation, not your post. That there are five recaps essentially explaining the same thing is just too funny. And yes, twin sister = brother's sister.

[Anonymous]

Can the admin delete this please

[Anonymous]

Yuck. Don’t spend holidays there. Too many neg vibes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can the admin delete this please

Who is asking?
Why?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your brother's wife is DH's twin sister? Huh? Or is this two SILs?

In any case, time to own who you are.

OP's DH's twin sister is married to a woman.

then who is the brother's sister?

OP is a woman.
OP's Husband is a man.
OP's Husband's twin sister is a lesbian woman. So, OP's SIL is a lesbian.

Now, the lesbian Sister-in-Law is married to a lesbian woman who used to be a nanny.

Thus the lesbian nanny married to the lesbian sister-in-law is also the sister-in-law of the OP. Or in other words, the spouse of her lesbian SIL is another lesbian woman and so she is also the SIL of OP.

Now, OP, who has an MBA and is now a SAHM is feeling upstaged by the lesbian spouse of her lesbian SIL because the lesbian spouse used to be a nanny and as an extension she is the perfect mom.

OP, DUDE! Your insecurities are amazing. I was expecting the lesbian nanny SIL grouching here about homophobia and being judged for being a mere nanny.

21:15 here. Sorry, but my recap is better.

I'm not sure if either of you is right.

OP talks about DH's twin sister & partner (both presumably SILs), but also "my brother's sister." Who is that?

Ummm... this is hilarious. As in, this situation, not your post. That there are five recaps essentially explaining the same thing is just too funny. And yes, twin sister = brother's sister.

No.

DH's twin sister & OP's brother's sister can't be the same person unless OP is the sister married to her twin brother.