Just Friendly or interested?

[Anonymous]

Dad here. Women are often more friendly with me than my wife. But I don't assume they want to have sex. And, no, I'm not exceptionally good looking or anything -- although I'm very hands-on with the kids, so maybe that's a turn on. They see ME a lot more with them than my wife.

[Anonymous]

OP, you're pathetic. If you don't want to f--- your wife anymore, get a divorce.

[Anonymous]

Something like this happened to me last year. For a period I was the main driver to my son's preschool and one day one of the mom's said we should do coffee and I said "oh, sure" and left it at that. She must have gotten my cell number from the directory because I soon started getting texts that soon got flirty. I finally said a polite no, off to work I must go!

[Anonymous]

Texts are hard to read but first glance she’s interested. Ask for a play date

[Anonymous]

Even if she's DTF, why would you want to do this? It's just going to mess up your life, and more importantly your kid's life. Find a playdate who isn't a parent in your kid's school if you must.

[Anonymous]

Don’t assume she’s dtf, could just be yearning for some human interaction from the opposite sex (just want conversion and attention) because her husband is bored of her

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, you're pathetic. If you don't want to f--- your wife anymore, get a divorce.

I'm shocked (and somewhat pleased) this reply took this long. We know you are out there. We know this reply. Please crawl back into your cave.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you're pathetic. If you don't want to f--- your wife anymore, get a divorce.

I'm shocked (and somewhat pleased) this reply took this long. We know you are out there. We know this reply. Please crawl back into your cave.

You think he's not pathetic? Fine attractive worthwhile men always try to pick up their classmates' parents?

He's a prize, you're right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Even if she's DTF, why would you want to do this? It's just going to mess up your life, and more importantly your kid's life. Find a playdate who isn't a parent in your kid's school if you must.

From reading between the lines, sounds like he's not actually interested in the affair but maybe the ego boost. Seems there is a curiosity as well with a splash of planning should they both become free agents down the road.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you're pathetic. If you don't want to f--- your wife anymore, get a divorce.

I'm shocked (and somewhat pleased) this reply took this long. We know you are out there. We know this reply. Please crawl back into your cave.

You think he's not pathetic? Fine attractive worthwhile men always try to pick up their classmates' parents?

He's a prize, you're right.

I don't know if he is or not. I know you are a broken record, boring and argumentative.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you're pathetic. If you don't want to f--- your wife anymore, get a divorce.

I'm shocked (and somewhat pleased) this reply took this long. We know you are out there. We know this reply. Please crawl back into your cave.

You think he's not pathetic? Fine attractive worthwhile men always try to pick up their classmates' parents?

He's a prize, you're right.

I don't know if he is or not. I know you are a broken record, boring and argumentative.

Uh. I've never posted in this forum before.

I do know a loser when I see one, though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you're pathetic. If you don't want to f--- your wife anymore, get a divorce.

I'm shocked (and somewhat pleased) this reply took this long. We know you are out there. We know this reply. Please crawl back into your cave.

You think he's not pathetic? Fine attractive worthwhile men always try to pick up their classmates' parents?

He's a prize, you're right.

+1

LOL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t assume she’s dtf, could just be yearning for some human interaction from the opposite sex (just want conversion and attention) because her husband is bored of her

+1

No kidding. Both are losers. DP here. Can't you leave your wife without having someone on the back burner? Are you that insecure? You must know you are not all that OP, or you wouldn't be asking. If they do it with you, they will do it to you. My God, didn't your mother tell you at least that much? Don't be so stupid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you're pathetic. If you don't want to f--- your wife anymore, get a divorce.

I'm shocked (and somewhat pleased) this reply took this long. We know you are out there. We know this reply. Please crawl back into your cave.

You think he's not pathetic? Fine attractive worthwhile men always try to pick up their classmates' parents?

He's a prize, you're right.

I don't know if he is or not. I know you are a broken record, boring and argumentative.

OP here... If she initiated contact. How am I the one trying to pick her up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Even if she's DTF, why would you want to do this? It's just going to mess up your life, and more importantly your kid's life. Find a playdate who isn't a parent in your kid's school if you must.

From reading between the lines, sounds like he's not actually interested in the affair but maybe the ego boost. Seems there is a curiosity as well with a splash of planning should they both become free agents down the road.

OP here, not really ego boost. Curiosity about the situation. The situation came to me.. I didn’t pursue it.