Sex after a baby?

[Anonymous]

OP ignore the nonsense here, just give it time. He probably is tired you are doing a great job

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did he see your vagina during childbirth? That is a huge turnoff for some men

Are you a teenager? This isn't a thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe you are stretched out and it’s not the same anymore?

Except this isn't true at all. I guess you don't have a wife and haven't had kids.

[Anonymous]

Wow, you two win the award for most sexual couple. 2x per week is still above average. If you feel unsatisfied or undesireable, talk to him. These conversations are easier said that done but important.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe you are stretched out and it’s not the same anymore?

Except this isn't true at all. I guess you don't have a wife and haven't had kids.

OP here. Most vaginal births require stitches which will make it tighter. I had two stitches and he said I felt uncomfortably tight the first two times. It was like losing my virginity all over again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did he see your vagina during childbirth? That is a huge turnoff for some men

If that were the case, the marriage would be over for me. I could never be attracted to such a delicate man.

My DH purposely looked, even when they did the awful "push on your stomach to get the leftovers out" thing. I yelled "stop it, you'll never want sex with me again!" He simply shrugged and said "I'm a red-blooded American male. It would take a lot more than that to make me stop wanting sex!"

[Anonymous]

^that. Red blooded men are awesome. I think my dh even saw me poop (I will deny that I did poop during childbirth but....) Still having sex.

[Anonymous]

My first was huge - almost 10.5 lbs - and I put on a lot of weight and ended up with stretch marks. Most of the weight came off pretty quickly but not the stretch marks. I can't recall how long it was after childbirth that we had sex but I do recall my DH trying to be way too gentle so I took matters into my own hands and got very physical. That snapped him back into normalcy and we were immediately back to our normal 2-3 times a week. So, maybe initiate sex and be aggressive.

[Anonymous]

OP: Its great that you know that its important to not lose yourselves as a couple. The best thing that you can do for your children is to be a happily married couple.

Be patient, talk to your husband and give yourselves some time to settle into a new groove.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did he see your vagina during childbirth? That is a huge turnoff for some men

If that were the case, the marriage would be over for me. I could never be attracted to such a delicate man.

It's not the sight, it's the horrible smell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did he see your vagina during childbirth? That is a huge turnoff for some men

If that were the case, the marriage would be over for me. I could never be attracted to such a delicate man.

It's not the sight, it's the horrible smell.

Can't be as bad as those awful man farts

[Anonymous]

I saw her poop and I give her rimjobs all the time.

Sorry some of you are married to little boys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did he see your vagina during childbirth? That is a huge turnoff for some men

Quit it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I saw her poop and I give her rimjobs all the time.

Sorry some of you are married to little boys.

I hope you have a long and happy life. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow, you two win the award for most sexual couple. 2x per week is still above average. If you feel unsatisfied or undesireable, talk to him. These conversations are easier said that done but important.

Right? Studies show unmarried couples have more sex. Get married and have a kid...goes down.

This lady is a keeper. Kudos to you ma’am