Went to my bridal dress fitting with future MIL

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah, OP, she didn't love the dress but since you are already at the fitting phase, she's not going to be so rude as to TELL you that. She was being polite.

What would you think if a friend did that to you?

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Anonymous wrote:I put myself through college working at a bridal shop.

Never. Ever. Bring your MIL to your wedding dress fitting. Period.

Please give us a good story (or 2 or 3.......)

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Are you overweight?

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I went to 3. All were nightmares. Fat hogs trying to be sexy in a dress they know they should NOT wear.

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Anonymous wrote:I get it. I actually feel bad that I didn't invite my MIL to go dress shopping with me as she doesn't have a daughter. I would feel the same way (and my MIL is just as passive aggressive as yours). Not the worst MIL in the world, but be prepared for lots of PA remarks. Some mothers just looooove their sons!

Congratulations!

As the mother of a son I'll try not to make that mistake!!

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Ha ha - my mother would behave like your mil. My mil was a charmer (unfortunately she passed away - RIP dear lady).

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Anonymous wrote:I went to 3. All were nightmares. Fat hogs trying to be sexy in a dress they know they should NOT wear.

That's...nice. You sound like a lovely friend

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I think OP is a troll.

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Anonymous wrote:Are you overweight?

This

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I get it. I actually feel bad that I didn't invite my MIL to go dress shopping with me as she doesn't have a daughter. I would feel the same way (and my MIL is just as passive aggressive as yours). Not the worst MIL in the world, but be prepared for lots of PA remarks. Some mothers just looooove their sons!

Congratulations!

Ugh. I have this kind of MIL too. Sadly she doesn't realize she is shooting herself in the foot; we see her less and less these days

+100. My MIL is a passive aggressive and very envious bitch. Not only to me, but to every woman in her life, including her daughters. I keep her at arm's length, which means she misses out on A LOT of things she would otherwise have been invited to. Clearly, it's worth it to her because she's still a bitch after all these years.

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She came up with something nice to say and you still aren't happy?????

Lordy. Why did you even bring her if you can't be happy with whatever she says?

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Anonymous wrote:I put myself through college working at a bridal shop.

Never. Ever. Bring your MIL to your wedding dress fitting. Period.

You can't make a blanket statement like this. My MIL helped choose my wedding dress, helped negotiate the price (because it was negotiable), helped with the fittings, then kept the dress at her place until the wedding and drove it 6 hours to the wedding location for me. And then took care of having it cleaned and donated afterwards. She is awesome and was tremendously helpful. I love my mother but wedding stuff is not her thing and having her there would have driven us both insane.

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What a weird thing to do, to bring your MIL.
Op, you deserve whatever happens
Maybe if you're a saint, you bring her, doing the best deed of your life
If being a part of it would bring her great joy
But if you're committed to being a saint, you don't then go looking to find a reason to criticize her. That just doesn't make sense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I put myself through college working at a bridal shop.

Never. Ever. Bring your MIL to your wedding dress fitting. Period.

Aww I brought mine dress shopping and we had a fun time together. Shit didn't hit the fan until years later

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OP. Take this as an opportunity to reflect on the outsized toll of your weeding in your life.

I'm sorry she wasn't gushing. But it is just a dress.