How to not be jealous of my friends husband

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guarantee you their bedroom is dead. All that choreplay niceguy stuff makes her vajayjay as dry as the Sahara.

You're right. You're absolutely right PP. This website is teeming with posts from women whose husbands struggle to do the simplest tasks and engage in raising the children they willingly brought into this world. Those women share at length how amazing these guys are in bed and how much all that apathy turns them on. There are so many of these posts that I just can't keep up with them.

[Anonymous]

OP, maybe your friend's husband cheated on her in the past, got caught, and is now being extra nice to win her back. Or maybe he abused her some kind of way and is trying to make it up to her. You never know what's going on behind closed doors.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, maybe your friend's husband cheated on her in the past, got caught, and is now being extra nice to win her back. Or maybe he abused her some kind of way and is trying to make it up to her. You never know what's going on behind closed doors.

Or maybe he's just a good guy and involved dad. Those men do exist you know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, maybe your friend's husband cheated on her in the past, got caught, and is now being extra nice to win her back. Or maybe he abused her some kind of way and is trying to make it up to her. You never know what's going on behind closed doors.

Or maybe he's just a good guy and involved dad. Those men do exist you know.

True. But, OP has no way of knowing. Instead of being jealous and pouting on line about a relationship she doesn't really know a thing about, she should put her energies towards improving things with the man she is married to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My friend's husband is probably one of the nicest guys on this planet. He is super helpful, thoughtful and kind. We took the kids to the pool and when we came back to their house, he had lunch already made for all the kids. He cleans, grocery shops, always helps with the kids, even can pick out outfits for them. Honestly it's just bringing to light how little my husband does. I don't know that my husband has given my kids a bath without major bribing and begging. I'm just happy when plates make it to the sink from dinner, forget actually doing this dishes or kitchen clean up. My friend doesn't brag about her husband but when I complain about my husband not even being able to run to the store for pull ups, I can tell she can't relate.

Maybe she feels awkward hearing you complain about your husband. I know I feel uncomfortable when my friends start griping about their husbands in front of me, and it's not that my husband is perfect.

[Anonymous]

OP, your friend's husband is a norm but yours is not. Don't listen to other women here trying to excuse shitty unhelpful lazy and selfish husbands. I don't know how you ended up with one and on top of it had children with him. I am sorry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, your friend's husband is a norm but yours is not. Don't listen to other women here trying to excuse shitty unhelpful lazy and selfish husbands. I don't know how you ended up with one and on top of it had children with him. I am sorry.

Clearly you have comprehension problems. No one has excused OP's husband, but people are telling her the truth, and that is being jealous of her friend doesn't help her situation at all.

[Anonymous]

Sigh. You deal the hand that you have, OP. That's all there is to it.

I'm right there with you, believe me. Husband can't hold down a job. It's draining.

[Anonymous]

Get a cook, or nanny, or housekeeper.
You picked a guy and married him, be happy with what you have or blame yourself.
I hate jealous women, they are so pathetic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend's husband is probably one of the nicest guys on this planet. He is super helpful, thoughtful and kind. We took the kids to the pool and when we came back to their house, he had lunch already made for all the kids. He cleans, grocery shops, always helps with the kids, even can pick out outfits for them. Honestly it's just bringing to light how little my husband does. I don't know that my husband has given my kids a bath without major bribing and begging. I'm just happy when plates make it to the sink from dinner, forget actually doing this dishes or kitchen clean up. My friend doesn't brag about her husband but when I complain about my husband not even being able to run to the store for pull ups, I can tell she can't relate.

Maybe she feels awkward hearing you complain about your husband. I know I feel uncomfortable when my friends start griping about their husbands in front of me, and it's not that my husband is perfect.

Why are you complaining to other people about DH? Direct that energy into getting DH to meet your needs.

[Anonymous]

How about complimenting her husband in front of yours?

[Anonymous]

I wonder if there's a guy somewhere that is complaining about his wife that's not doing a thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if there's a guy somewhere that is complaining about his wife that's not doing a thing.

Guys don't care if the wife is lazy or the house is a mess if the sex life is good and flowing. How many posts on here are "my wife doesn't run a clean house" vs. "My wife won't sleep with me"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if there's a guy somewhere that is complaining about his wife that's not doing a thing.

There are plenty of guys voicing the complaint that their wife does nothing to keep the sex life alive

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guarantee you their bedroom is dead. All that choreplay niceguy stuff makes her vajayjay as dry as the Sahara.

You're right. You're absolutely right PP. This website is teeming with posts from women whose husbands struggle to do the simplest tasks and engage in raising the children they willingly brought into this world. Those women share at length how amazing these guys are in bed and how much all that apathy turns them on. There are so many of these posts that I just can't keep up with them.

Who said anything about husbands? Gotta look at the qualities of the affair partners to see what women find sexy.