Would you allow your 5 year old to stay with Grandma out of town?

[Anonymous]

My answer would depend on the grandma. You said this one is careful and the child would be safe, so id have no problem with that. Maybe only 1 or 2 days if its her first time away from you, though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, my kids belong with me. I don't ship them off.

For one weekend with a grandparent? Okay, crazy lady.

[Anonymous]

Yes, both of my kids stayed with my mom for multiple days when they were younger than 5.

[Anonymous]

My kids started doing this at age 3 or so.

[Anonymous]

Adding, the first overnight without me was a little before age 2, but that was at our house, not her house, fwiw.

[Anonymous]

Of course! Some of the best memories of my life are sleepovers with Grandma and also my aunt.

What us wrong with today's mothers that they smother their children?

[Anonymous]

My husband's mom yes. Mine probably not unless one of my siblings was also there. Alcohol stuff.

[Anonymous]

Op here- grandmother has stayed here with DD, but DD has never been away overnight. The highway driving bothers me as does the different environment.

[Anonymous]

And so what if she becomes scared in the middle of the night? Your MIL will comfort her and she'll live to see another day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here- grandmother has stayed here with DD, but DD has never been away overnight. The highway driving bothers me as does the different environment.

You are being difficult and helicopter-y.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely. Yes. It is good for your child to be away from you. My kids have been staying with grandparents since they were a year old.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe this is even a question. Of course. Children have been doing this for a very long time.
My kids stayed with grandparents when they were a lot younger than 5 and for more than a few days.

Think of it this way.......Your MIL gave birth to and raised your DH. I think she can handle your child.

X1000 op you are being extremely helecoptoring.

[Anonymous]

That is something I would be absolutely comfortable with--especially since you say your MIL is safety conscious and responsive to her needs.

[Anonymous]

And your kid is FIVE? How is this even a question?

[Anonymous]

My kid stayed with my sister overnight at 18 months for the first time. When we showed up to bring him home he didn't even acknowledge our presence, just went on playing catch with his uncle and cousins.

At five he flew out of state with his Dad and stayed for four days with his grandparents while his Dad attended a work conference a few hours from the grandparents.

If the highway driving bothers you then you drive the kid there and go back to pick up. But unless there is a special need you do don't mention you are being too controlling.