No Country for Old Women

[Anonymous]

I look and feel better now at 52. Am happy to find men my age to date that find me attractive.

[Anonymous]

OP you need some major reprogramming. Nobody determines your worth but you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Huh? According to who?

I'm bi, and I think women stay attractive for muuuuuucccchhhhh longer than men. Women can still be hot well into their 40s, perhaps even beyond that (I'm in my 20s, so when I'm looking to date I wouldnt be interested in anyone with more than a 20 year age difference, so I stop looking at past 40s). Men my age have already started looking wrinkly, going bald, getting paunches.

Women are taught to take care of themselves, wear sunscreen, etc. As a result they look younger and hotter for longer.

Don't worry OP! Plenty of people thinker older women are hot as hell, and I think way more desirable/desired than men of the same age.

+1. I've always found women in their late 30s and 40s hotter and more interesting as people then young women or teens.

[Anonymous]

Op you sound like an insecure kid. Women are attractive well beyond 30. Anyway as you age out of your looks you age into other things.

And it happens to men too! Most men 45 and up are pretty unsexy, with some notable exceptions

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It seems like men and society prize women for a very short period of their life. Women's physical beauty starts to bloom at around 16, blossoms at around 18-22 and then stays slowly decreases until we hit 30. Then all of a sudden that youthful glow is gone. The moment we turn 30 and start to look like "women" and not girls, we are invisible to society.

How should we deal?

Are you a model? Even Heidi Klum is still visible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It seems like men and society prize women for a very short period of their life. Women's physical beauty starts to bloom at around 16, blossoms at around 18-22 and then stays slowly decreases until we hit 30. Then all of a sudden that youthful glow is gone. The moment we turn 30 and start to look like "women" and not girls, we are invisible to society.

How should we deal?

As women have dealt with it for as long as we can remember. Use that physical beauty to marry a rich man.

Its stressful though. We're extraordinarily beautiful and desirable for say 6 years (16 - 22). From 16-19 we're too young to even think of marrying. 19-22 we're in college, partying, figuring life out.

We graduate at 22-24. Then we're trying to find work and establish ourselves. Many women do not even think of marriage or serious relationships at this time...when we start to think of marriage at say, 25, we have our most beautiful years behind us and the next 4 years (26-29) we are all competing with each other to find the most eligible man to marry whole our looks are on a steady decline.

Not many survive this stage and come out with a rich, stable, marriage minded man. Those who do are lucky.

You sound pretty pathetic op, like your main objective is to marry a rich man. Is this post a troll? I'm beginning to think

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So glad the photo confirms my suspicion. This is a white lady issue. I have never felt my looks were something to trade on, and I certainly didn't experience my looks diminishing in my mid-20's. No way!

You again? Take your complex elsewhere.

[Anonymous]

I guess it is better than being dead. ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So glad the photo confirms my suspicion. This is a white lady issue. I have never felt my looks were something to trade on, and I certainly didn't experience my looks diminishing in my mid-20's. No way!

You again? Take your complex elsewhere.

Agree. That pp is so annoying. Get help for your racial anger issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It seems like men and society prize women for a very short period of their life. Women's physical beauty starts to bloom at around 16, blossoms at around 18-22 and then stays slowly decreases until we hit 30. Then all of a sudden that youthful glow is gone. The moment we turn 30 and start to look like "women" and not girls, we are invisible to society.

How should we deal?

Are you a model? Even Heidi Klum is still visible.

Or Christie Brinkley. At 62. Hot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I look and feel better now at 52. Am happy to find men my age to date that find me attractive.

Serious question, have you experienced menopause and do you still have a sex drive? I'm a 50 year-old man who still feels like a teenage boy, and I wonder about the sexual aspect of dating women my own age or older.

[Anonymous]

I'm definitely more confident and sexy as I age. Physically, maybe I can't hold a candle to a 20 year old. I have wrinkles. I'm not as taut as I once once. My breasts are not as perky, I've had 2 children, so, that. But sexually and emotionally, I'm waaaaay better at this age then I was then. (late 40s).

And guys, just so you know. Yes, you are a bit less cut. You are balder. You may be grey and/or have a few wrinkles, too. But sexually, I'd never trade a 50 year old man in for an 18 year old. Gross. older men care about my satisfaction and I love that, and I love them. You care about your families and your job and your people and yep, you are all that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm definitely more confident and sexy as I age. Physically, maybe I can't hold a candle to a 20 year old. I have wrinkles. I'm not as taut as I once once. My breasts are not as perky, I've had 2 children, so, that. But sexually and emotionally, I'm waaaaay better at this age then I was then. (late 40s).

And guys, just so you know. Yes, you are a bit less cut. You are balder. You may be grey and/or have a few wrinkles, too. But sexually, I'd never trade a 50 year old man in for an 18 year old. Gross. older men care about my satisfaction and I love that, and I love them. You care about your families and your job and your people and yep, you are all that.

Speak for yourself.

[Anonymous]

I'm Indian and look the hottest I ever have at 36.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm definitely more confident and sexy as I age. Physically, maybe I can't hold a candle to a 20 year old. I have wrinkles. I'm not as taut as I once once. My breasts are not as perky, I've had 2 children, so, that. But sexually and emotionally, I'm waaaaay better at this age then I was then. (late 40s).

And guys, just so you know. Yes, you are a bit less cut. You are balder. You may be grey and/or have a few wrinkles, too. But sexually, I'd never trade a 50 year old man in for an 18 year old. Gross. older men care about my satisfaction and I love that, and I love them. You care about your families and your job and your people and yep, you are all that.

Speak for yourself.

Maybe not for an 18 year old, but for a 30 year old....