Ex fiancée was such a good cook. Is it impossible to find another 25-35yo woman w kitchen skills?

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Anonymous wrote:I am a killer cook - but if you eat at my table, you eat what I feel like making and you tell me it's amazing without fail. And you also do the dishes.


Contact info please?


Thirsty.
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Anonymous wrote:Op, do you know how to cook?


Better than the last few trollops that have spent the night.
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Anonymous wrote:Have you tried Blue Apron? Seriously a lot less hassle than choosing a romantic partner based on whether she can cook.


This pre-made trend is possibly worse than the broads that want to eat at a restaurant 7 nights a week. It's a total Kardashian move: I can't cook, so I'm going to FAKE that I can by buying pre-made crap.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Have you tried Blue Apron? Seriously a lot less hassle than choosing a romantic partner based on whether she can cook.


This pre-made trend is possibly worse than the broads that want to eat at a restaurant 7 nights a week. It's a total Kardashian move: I can't cook, so I'm going to FAKE that I can by buying pre-made crap.


It's not pre-made. It's ingredients and a recipe.
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I'm 36 and never really learned to cook fancy dishes. I lived alone for much of my life so I never really needed or wanted to make, say, a lasagna or casserole where I'd be eating the same leftovers for a week. My mom isn't also a gourmet chef, she makes some good things but they are all very basic.

That being said, I'm open for trying new things, so my fiancé and I have occasionally looked up new recipes or picked one out of a book we wanted to try, and made it together. It was a fun bonding experience and we're both trying to make an effort in the kitchen. If all you want is someone to be a chef for you, well, good luck with that.
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Bullshit. Foodie-ism is super trendy right now and has been for a few years. My last workplace was full of 25-30 year olds, and they were way into organizing office potlucks and bake-offs to show off their skills. I know more than one young woman in the DC area who maintains a food blog.
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I cook and my husband cleans. Are you willing to take on something like that?
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Op I'm 34 and I can cook. Cooking to me is like art. I can create so many things in my kitchen. I can cook American, Caribbean, Greek, Italian, African, Mexican etc However, i only cook for a man worthy or deserving of the meals I make.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Have you tried Blue Apron? Seriously a lot less hassle than choosing a romantic partner based on whether she can cook.


This pre-made trend is possibly worse than the broads that want to eat at a restaurant 7 nights a week. It's a total Kardashian move: I can't cook, so I'm going to FAKE that I can by buying pre-made crap.


"Broads"? I think you are overplaying your hand.
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Anonymous wrote:I understand you OP. Having had 4 worthless daughters in law, good luck finding what you're looking for.

If I listed everything their women couldn't/wouldn't do we'd be here all day. You're going to have to do for yourself. I have never in my life seen such highly educated women be so damn dumb and lazy. They are only good for a paycheck.


hahahahahhahaha. I have a feeling the DILs aren't the problem....
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Anonymous wrote:Bullshit. Foodie-ism is super trendy right now and has been for a few years. My last workplace was full of 25-30 year olds, and they were way into organizing office potlucks and bake-offs to show off their skills. I know more than one young woman in the DC area who maintains a food blog.


There is that trend, but it's a niche. 90-plus percent of millennial women think it's cute that they CAN'T cook. They actually think the sign of success is being able to afford eating out 6-7 days a week. It's backwards, it's vapid... it's the Kardashian cancer inflicting the culture.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Have you tried Blue Apron? Seriously a lot less hassle than choosing a romantic partner based on whether she can cook.


This pre-made trend is possibly worse than the broads that want to eat at a restaurant 7 nights a week. It's a total Kardashian move: I can't cook, so I'm going to FAKE that I can by buying pre-made crap.


"Broads"? I think you are overplaying your hand.


Lighten up. I'm being cheeky.
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Anonymous wrote:Op I'm 34 and I can cook. Cooking to me is like art. I can create so many things in my kitchen. I can cook American, Caribbean, Greek, Italian, African, Mexican etc However, i only cook for a man worthy or deserving of the meals I make.


We should be friends. I'm 32 and make everything from scratch. Cooking is my hobby. I enjoy learning different techniques and recipes from all over the world.

Do you follow Chrissy teigans snaps?
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a killer cook - but if you eat at my table, you eat what I feel like making and you tell me it's amazing without fail. And you also do the dishes.


Contact info please?


Oh, taken, sorry, forgot to mention that.

But in all seriousness, if you are online dating, make sure to mention how attractive you find a woman who can cook is in your profile. To me, it's one of my personal, creative qualities, and I love that my DH loves it about me. Ignore these harpies who are implying your liking it is akin to your wanting a maid.


I'm with her - I love to cook and like that my husband appreciates it!


Me too! My DH loves my cooking.
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Millennial here. I am a great cook and cook every night. My married millennial girlfriends do the same. I follow the Instagram accounts of several single millennial friends and relatives and see that these are the women with the time to experiment with fun new recipes - I love to see the food pics that they post.

If anything, I've noticed that Boomer/Gen X women are the ones who consider it beneath them or somehow too traditionally feminine to cook well, if at all (see: Sex and the City).
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