Do you think it's appropriate to invite a married person to a wedding without their spouse?
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Anonymous
Not only is he considering it, he IS going! 
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Anonymous
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What makes this worse is that your husband is Groom/Bride's best friend. Spouses/long term couples are always invited. Normally, you'd include plus 1s for (at least) your best friends-even if single.
Yikes. |
Anonymous
| I'd assume his friend (or whole friend group) really dislikes you. |
Anonymous
| Another vote for inappropriate. |
Anonymous
| Inappropriate. Your husband should tell his friend that he will only go to the wedding if he can bring you. That is the ONLY solution here. |
Anonymous
| That is about as rude as it gets. |
Anonymous
| Inappropriate. Maybe he's broke and trying to cut $ but yes, totally weird. |
Anonymous
Lol! True! OP, that's ridiculous. |
Anonymous
+1. I would think it would be weird if this is a good friend of DH and you don't have any kind of relationship with them. What is your relationship with this person? |
Anonymous
That just sucks. You need to sit him down and tell him that. |
Anonymous
| Is it possible they don't know that only putting his name on the invite is meant to exclude you? |
Anonymous
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I was not invited to a wedding when I was just a girlfriend. Always invited after being married. Very strange.
Unless they are like totally broke and having like a 30 person wedding but even then it is pretty inappropriate. They are really cheap or they don't like you or both. |
Anonymous
+1 Are you really young? Is he in the wedding and they think it's okay not to invite you? (It's not okay) |
Anonymous
| hell no! |
Anonymous
| Your husband should let them know that Mr and Mrs whatever-your-name-is will attend. He is being as ass. |