Coworker is such a bitch

[Anonymous]

Calling a coworker a bitch is unprofessional. Sounds like she is professional and you need to grow up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh OP, you are in for some life lessons.

I would stab a fucker if they took my scissors.

once they start stealing scissors, it's just a matter of time before they start messing with other stuff on your desk..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh OP, you are in for some life lessons.

I would stab a fucker if they took my scissors.

once they start stealing scissors, it's just a matter of time before they start messing with other stuff on your desk..

Ah, yes, it reminds me of this episode from The Office. LOL!

[Anonymous]

Even if they are communal scissors you took them off her desk, which means you violated her personal space while she wasn't there. You deserve a frosty response since you didn't even put them back. She sounds direct about the other thing.

I think you need to grow a thicker skin.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Even if they are communal scissors you took them off her desk, which means you violated her personal space while she wasn't there. You deserve a frosty response since you didn't even put them back. She sounds direct about the other thing.

I think you need to grow a thicker skin.

not returning them and then leaving the old data on the shared drive spells negligence. Then when pointed out to her she refuses to see what the problem is. So that's two big problems: she's both negligent and clueless. Negligence is usually just a form of laziness.

[Anonymous]

If you really said "sorry to have inconvenienced you" - that probably didn't help. Most people would likely interpret that as a snarky thing to say, even if you meant it to be polite and sincere.

This is a serious question - not trying to be mean myself - but have you found yourself having problems with people misinterpreting your intent when you say things? If you regularly feel misunderstood, you might consider how you relate to your coworkers. A light-hearted "whoops - it was late and I totally forgot to return them. Sorry about that" may have gone over better.

[Anonymous]

You DON'T have problems at work OP. I can't believe you even posted this because it means you are thinking about and it's something that you might have easily forgotten if you had bigger fish to fry. She is NOT a bitch, btw, she's just not as nice as you would like her to be, but she hasn't done anything bitchy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wait so you screwed up TWICE, but SHE is the bitch? Honey, check yourself.

HOW did I screw up??? I borrowed scissors on her desk after hours. They are company scissors! We share supplies sometimes because we each do NOT get our own. When I realized she needed them I gave them back to her graciously.

I left some of my program information on our communal form. I am NOT the first or last person to do this. Most people, when they encounter this, just delete the old info and put in their own.

When you borrow things, put them back.

Don't leave your information on a communal form.

[Anonymous]

It pisses me off when people take things off my desk and don't return them.

[Anonymous]

At least it wasn't the red stapler.

[Anonymous]

OP, if I went to your house, took something, didn't tell you and didn't return it. How would you feel?

You spend 40 hours a week (or more) with these people. Get along with them. If you borrow something, leave a note. If you take something, return it.

[Anonymous]

Who you calling a bitch?
You took my scissors and didn't have the decency to return them
Bitch!!

[Anonymous]

OMG people can you not tell that this is entirely made up?

I'm with you OP -- it can be fun sometimes to sit back and watch the earnest posts, crazy as they may be to reply, just fly and fly.

: o

[Anonymous]

I can't believe people are siding with yr coworker. OP, your instincts about this person are on point. If you want, you could confront her, or just ignore her. Or you could find a place to work where people treat each other like humans. You are still young -- it's not worth settling for a soul crushing job. sorry you have to deal with this bitch.

[Anonymous]

This is why DC kind of sucks -- a lot of "who moved my cheese (scissors) types."
These people are no fun, no sense of humor, no humanity.